What makes a session memorable or an SP repeatable?

[Fuggedabouditt]

Stolen thread but hit a few twitches for me to bring here.

Posted by Rachel of TP when she first started, (I've seen her numerous times and is one of my go to girls). The response by Chloe and hilighted by me are my reasons why I have a list of regulars because they provide this for me, it's also the list that makes me no longer see a regular when these things go by the wayside.

Chloe's response -

"I think another thing that's quite important is kindness.

Some people tend to overlook this and either go through the motions and provide a mind blowing experience, which is always great, but I find genuinely caring about your client goes a long way.

Staying connected with the conversation. Little things like hanging his clothes for him while he's showering, if they are on the floor, offering to take his coat when he arrives or helping him get dressed in a flirty way when he's leaving. Offering him a bottle of water or surprising him with some refreshments or fruit that you two can enjoy. If it's a prebooking, adhering to the little requests that may have been made, even something small like a pair of stockings. If he has repeated and you remember things about him, checking in to see how everything is going. Making him feel like you genuinely care about him as a human being, and not an assembly line number as common misconceptions do go. Asking him what he likes and how he likes it and doing things that exact way. Calling him by the name he gives.
*SMILING.* It's crazy how many people forget to smile, even when they first greet someone.

It's the little things that people remember."

To be quite honest, this is what I personally pay for. I can get laid anywhere, well , mostly anywhere, but if I repeat with you, the above bolded reasons are why. When you fail to provide this (not a one time thing but ongoing), I will not see you anymore but I'll ask you if there is a reason why. Am I the perfect client? Probably not and despite a pinned "How to.." I do follow my own agenda but refuse to be a lap dog as that post hints to. I AM kind to all the ladies I see. I do want to make sure they have a good time as well as I do. In the end though, I'm the client and although I may not be always right, I don't think my needs (above) are unreasonable and why I repeat.

 

[Capo]

When she doesn't play games. Tells me what she likes and doesn't. If I follow her rules she treats me like a King.

 

[Boing]

If she likes short guys.

 

[Slick]

If she reminds you of a sexy teacher you always wanted to fuck and does what you always fantasized.

 

[cristycurves]

Mutual respect, open, honest communication, no ulterior motives, and sincerity, all work

 

[ERecTile]

Repeating with SPs is harder than repeating with MPAs. In the massage world, I think it's easier for the MPAs to get clients to repeat. Guys will repeat when they get something unexpected. "Wuhoo, she gave me a bj! I gotta see her again again asap to get fs!" It's easier to connect too because sex is usually off the table on a first visit, you end up being more chill. Plus the actual massage portion is a great opportunity for conversation.

It's also harder to connect with a SP on a first session. From a client POV, we know sex is on the table, but now the impetuous is to get the most "sex" out of the time we'very purchased. So the opportunity to connect is less. Forget trying to connect in a hh appointment. Personally I need the 45 or 60 min appointments to feel fully satisfied.

When I can't make that mental or emotional connection, then the SP must be extraordinary in some other way for me to want to repeat. For example, she would have to have amazing oral and fs skills that blew my mind. I've only seen a couple of SPs that fall into this category, where the bj and sex was amazing, but I've only repeated with one of them so far.

 

[Madman]

I find I will repeat if the SP is a fun girl to be with besides being sexually gifted.

 

[Fuggedabouditt]

Mutual respect, open, honest communication, no ulterior motives, and sincerity, all work

Exactly. I expect the same from myself to her in return.

Repeating with SPs is harder than repeating with MPAs. In the massage world, I think it's easier for the MPAs to get clients to repeat. Guys will repeat when they get something unexpected. "Wuhoo, she gave me a bj! I gotta see her again again asap to get fs!" It's easier to connect too because sex is usually off the table on a first visit, you end up being more chill. Plus the actual massage portion is a great opportunity for conversation.

It's also harder to connect with a SP on a first session. From a client POV, we know sex is on the table, but now the impetuous is to get the most "sex" out of the time we'very purchased. So the opportunity to connect is less. Forget trying to connect in a hh appointment. Personally I need the 45 or 60 min appointments to feel fully satisfied.

When I can't make that mental or emotional connection, then the SP must be extraordinary in some other way for me to want to repeat. For example, she would have to have amazing oral and fs skills that blew my mind. I've only seen a couple of SPs that fall into this category, where the bj and sex was amazing, but I've only repeated with one of them so far.

This is too true. When you get more than what you came for, you feel that she is truly in to you but this can quickly turn in to a blurred line, usually on the client side.

I find I will repeat if the SP is a fun girl to be with besides being sexually gifted.

All true as well MM.

 

[ERecTile]

The blurred line comes more easily on the massage side, especially since BJ's and fs feel more "special" and there's the thrill of getting something that you weren't supposed to. But, after a while, it becomes common place and it becomes easier to see through the little games to get you to repeat.

 

[Fuggedabouditt]

The blurred line comes more easily on the massage side, especially since BJ's and fs feel more "special" and there's the thrill of getting something that you weren't supposed to. But, after a while, it becomes common place and it becomes easier to see through the little games to get you to repeat.

Perhaps at places like Muse where there is "No FS allowed" LOL. But other MP's, this is common and openly offered.

Let's open up a can of worms shall we? If you see an SP regularly and it she welcomes BBFS and you accept, does this make you come back or do you run thinking the worst and say "If she offered it to me as a regular, what other regular does she offer this to...?"

 

[ERecTile]

I would run. From that perspective, the MP and SP sides are the same. A friend once told me "if she's doing it with you then she's doing it with others". It took me a long time to accept that. Yes I fell for the little mind games even after I was getting fs regularly.

 

[Fuggedabouditt]

I would run. From that perspective, the MP and SP sides are the same. A friend once told me "if she's doing it with you then she's doing it with others". It took me a long time to accept that. Yes I fell for the little mind games even after I was getting fs regularly.

Would a lesser man run though. We all fall for these little "tricks". "Oh, she really likes me, we do it bare, she doesn't do it with anyone else, she told me. " or "I get a BBBJ and FS at with her at this spa, it's not allowed, but she lets me." It makes one feel special for sure and lesser men (in strength and awareness) ALL fall for this, me included.

Hit it and quit it is the motto.

 

[ERecTile]

I hear you. And yes, I've fallen victim to the mind games too. I find less mind games with SPs, especially from reputable agencies.

 

[Fuggedabouditt]

I hear you. And yes, I've fallen victim to the mind games too. I find less mind games with SPs, especially from reputable agencies.

Has ZERO to do with the agency. Every SP is an individual. If I held every agency liable for the shit the SP's they represent, NONE would be in business. I'm accountable for my actions as well but ANYONE who hobbies has a mental deficiency and a or need they need to fulfill and it's usually something that's closely related to vulnerability and THAT is what is taken advantage of by some of these sharks.

I'm nice to all the ladies I see and when I see something that is suspect or nefarious gains, I bite back but not usually without an interrogation. And when I'm proven right and bite, "You're the biggest asshole I've ever met" and all the rest of the defensive maneuvers to make themselves to be in the right.

The lucky ladies I see regularly ARE lucky. I am too. As long as it's all kept on an even keel, everyone is left happy.