What would you guys change if you could turn the time back?

[Bubba]

but you know what every time I saw her all I saw was the old her.

Now years later I have to admit that within reason what I used to think was important in a woman doesn't really matter that much anymore. Go figure.

I figure as I have been there. The bottom line is that mistakes in life are made and there are reasons for it.

I don't dwell on them anymore I learned to push it aside as lesson learned.

 

[Blank_Dave]

Given some thought...Learn how to breath. Laugh as you will, but asthma and excretion don't mix well. I finally learned how to breath a few years ago.

Learn how to say 'no'.

Seek help for depression much sooner.

Stick with aikido.

Get my driver's license sooner.

I'd say try dating, but no one was ever interested in me.

 

[tboy]

Now years later I have to admit that within reason what I used to think was important in a woman doesn't really matter that much anymore. Go figure.

The operative words there are "within reason"....Every woman I ever dated long term put on a couple of pounds during the relationship. I think (and would bet on it) that their looks were no longer as important to them since they "got" themselves a man. I see this time and time again in most relationships.

See, the thing (and probably the main reason) about being 50, and not finding someone when I was in my 30's, is that if I had found someone then, we'd grow old together and both our looks, athleticism, etc would fade. Now? Most of the women in my age group their looks have already faded and they look 20 yrs older. Believe me, I've had some women write me on POF and they look 10 yrs older than me, have front bums, wear mom jeans, and have more chins than a chinese phonebook.

 

[RAWD]

.... and have more chins than a chinese phonebook.

LMAO.

I would never have gotten into this hobby.

In fact, I would have spent more time in different, and serious, relationships before settling down.

 

[tboy]

LMAO.

I would never have gotten into this hobby.

In fact, I would have spent more time in different, and serious, relationships before settling down.

and, might I add, you'd be more broke than you are now! heheheheh

Not to get too far into this topic again, but if you add up all the BS in a LTR, it basically cancels out all the good things about a LTR. So that really just leaves sex. Now add up all the money it costs you in an LTR, and you'd find it is far more economically sound to pay for sex with a 20 something hottie.....