I'm going to read this, thanks HOF!
I understand your point. Taking care of your parents obviously took a toll on you. Your comment about not being selfish struck me as thought-provoking. It's not just the desire to want family to take care of you when you are old. It's also the absolute joy that can come from parenting, and the legacy that we try to build through our kids. I suppose those desires could also be deemed "selfish". Still, I cling to the thought that I can foster and nurture a human being who will be better than myself and contribute to our society beyond what I can do in my lifetime.
I understand your point. Taking care of your parents obviously took a toll on you. Your comment about not being selfish struck me as thought-provoking. It's not just the desire to want family to take care of you when you are old. It's also the absolute joy that can come from parenting, and the legacy that we try to build through our kids. I suppose those desires could also be deemed "selfish". Still, I cling to the thought that I can foster and nurture a human being who will be better than myself and contribute to our society beyond what I can do in my lifetime.
