When am I going to see you?

[Doggie]

Sometimes I chat with SP online. Mostly in PMs. Some SPs do a form of the hard sell. Rather than just flirt and let you make an appointment they will come out with something like "So, when am I going to see you?"


Now, I try to be a gentleman. So, I am not going to say "because I looked at your pics and have no interest in paying to be with you."

So what is best response to " When I am going to see you? "
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[LadyRaven]

prolly not anytime soon.. I am really busy .
SP should not push you or be so direct. I think they should be able to put 2 and 2 together . if its been a few months chances are its not gonna happen..lol

 

[randygirl]

LadyRaven has it right, tell them something along the lines of "I will let you know when I want to book with you". That way you are not hurting anyone's feelings. I also agree that they should not be "hard selling" like that.

You either want to, or you don't want to book; that is easily found out when and if you actually DO contact her for an appointment. That seems really basic!

However, now that this thread is out there, if you use that excuse, the SP will know it is because you don't find them attractive! lol

 

[Auggie]

If you chat and flirt with them, don't be surprised if they ask when you're coming over. Otherwise you're a pussy teaser, someone who doesn't put out after leading them on.

I often get myself into trouble like this, I really do want to see them but realistically my finances don't allow me to see everyone I want or a new girl has distracted me.
So I'll just say "one day" and make their pussies squirm in anticipation. :tongue:

 

[smylee52]

Auggie Doggie in the same thread oy yoi yoi yoi yoi .


(Yes this is an obscure reference to Toronto trivia :???

 

[Lauren Summerhill]

Though a lady should not push, a gent should not waste her time either. Not every lady will choose to keep in touch with someone who does not want to book her.

I think a gentlemen should always make his intent clear. If you're talking on an ongoing basis with a lady you have no intention of booking, it's simply good manners to let her know, so she can decide if she likes you enough, or has the energy, to invest strictly social interaction.

"I really enjoy our conversations, however it's unlikely that I'll b planning an intimate visit. I would still live to keep in touch with you, if you also enjoy communicating with me."

Of course it's good to personalize that. Don't risk hurt feelings with why you won't bed her. Instead, tell her why you enjoy talking to her and value staying in touch.

 

[lagavulin]

From the Guy
If it's online then there are no expectations, its only flirting and you do not have to respond in any way where dollars are being committed from leaving your wallet.

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From the Girl
You know what she is expecting so be decent enough to tell her the truth.
If she stills PM's you fine, but then there are no mixed signals.
Guys don't like a B&S and neither do the girls.

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Enough talk and posting, back to bed arty: :whip:

 

[HOF]

LadyRaven has it right, tell them something along the lines of "I will let you know when I want to book with you". That way you are not hurting anyone's feelings. I also agree that they should not be "hard selling" like that.

You either want to, or you don't want to book; that is easily found out when and if you actually DO contact her for an appointment. That seems really basic!

However, now that this thread is out there, if you use that excuse, the SP will know it is because you don't find them attractive! lol

Excuse me, sorry to interrupt, my name is HOF, and I'm a member in good standing. I was wondering when you're going to see me? I'm clean cut, still mobile, 6.5 inches of Oscar Meyer wiener in my sports-it's the kind that has cheese that secrets out. Oops, that may not have sounded right! LOL I have been checking you out, not stalking, and I know that you're sexy and funloving, and I think that we need to take dance lessons starting with the hump you hustle progressing to the wank my willy waltz, show the crowd our tummy tango and finally the Pokeyouinthepooper Polka!

My birthday is July 13 and I'm looking for a present Are you up for it!

 

[HOF]

Though a lady should not push, a gent should not waste her time either. Not every lady will choose to keep in touch with someone who does not want to book her.

I think a gentlemen should always make his intent clear. If you're talking on an ongoing basis with a lady you have no intention of booking, it's simply good manners to let her know, so she can decide if she likes you enough, or has the energy, to invest strictly social interaction.

"I really enjoy our conversations, however it's unlikely that I'll b planning an intimate visit. I would still live to keep in touch with you, if you also enjoy communicating with me."

Of course it's good to personalize that. Don't risk hurt feelings with why you won't bed her. Instead, tell her why you enjoy talking to her and value staying in touch.

Excuse me Ms. Summerhill. My name is HOF, and I'd like to ascertain when you're going to have an adventurous evening me with. You're a special young women, and as the temptations say, "Treat her like a lady." https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UstGcbps3ss Lauren, I ain't too proud to beg https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RfyFI-4ZsaE&feature=related

I've got sunshine on a cloudy day because you're https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rBQ2xc6jjJs&feature=related

Now Lauren if you tell me about your favourite piano bar, I'll play ivories for you https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_GDQUwKu8es

You know Lauren, a little bit of me and whole lotta you that's recipe for making love
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uij5s69iEjs
I know Lauren that we haven't even met, but https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1AJmKkU5POA&feature=channel

Then Lauren, I'll take you home https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_vqdsBk1WKU&feature=related

As while are conforming to one anothers bodies, I'll let you know that yours is a wonderland! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N5EnGwXV_Pg

Good grief, I've done the review and we haven't even met FYI, Piano, Guitar, Vocals is ok.

 

[Doggie]

prolly not anytime soon.. I am really busy .
SP should not push you or be so direct. I think they should be able to put 2 and 2 together . if its been a few months chances are its not gonna happen..lol

Thanks Lady Raven.

 

[Tourist]

So what is best response to " When I am going to see you? "​

The fact that you know me by my handle on a review board, I would rather that you don't know when I am seeing you.(BTW you were awesome last week) :happy:

 

[Art Mann]

Interesting to note that . . .

Interesting to note that . . .

Thanks Lady Raven.

. . . Lady Raven responded to the question in just six minutes. But it took Doggie exactly 11 months to come back and respond with a Thank You.

Now that was a long pause in the conversation.

Just an observation . . .

 

[McGuinty]

. . . Lady Raven responded to the question in just six minutes. But it took Doggie exactly 11 months to come back and respond with a Thank You.

Now that was a long pause in the conversation.

Just an observation . . .

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