Who Am I

[Auggie]

I think sex is definitely over-rated in today's society as a result of a backlash to previous repressed generations. It's still in flux, we'll see if it matures into something more meaningful or remains something we giggle about and rarely discuss in an adult manner.

If your personal sex drive is lower than average there's nothing wrong with that, think of the money you save and have pity on those who are ruled by their libidos.

 

[Art Mann]

But when it comes time to put pecker to pussy....

Perhaps what you need to do instead is to put kisser to pussy ...

Devote enough creative energy to discovering the sexual being in your partner, and she may just unleash the sexual being in you.

 

[Blank_Dave]

Perhaps what you need to do instead is to put kisser to pussy ...

Well, it's not so much the act that I have problem. It's the commitment to the act. Basically, I want sex, but when it's made available to me I find an excuse not to have it.

Devote enough creative energy to discovering the sexual being in your partner, and she may just unleash the sexual being in you.

I am coming to believe: No one was put on this earth to look after/meet your needs. You are responsible for meeting them yourself. I am responsible for unlocking my sexual being, not my potential partner.

I had long believed/longed for someone to come and unlock my sexual side, and to 'tell' me to let the perv out. Needless to say that never happened.

 

[Blank_Dave]

If your personal sex drive is lower than average there's nothing wrong with that, think of the money you save and have pity on those who are ruled by their libidos.

Well I think it's taking a gang beating. First there's my low-self esteem/distorted view of self. Then antidepressants fit in there. My typical 4-5 hours of sleep sure won't help it. Last but not least the 40-180 minutes of working out almost daily.

Needless to say, my body takes a pounding daily.

Speaking of taking a pounding, I'm not missing masturbation too too much.

As for porn...Well for the most part it bared the hell out me any way.