You Cannot Rush Good Service!

[Sophia Sinclair]

Gentlemen & Ladies,

I have found lately that everyone seems to be in a big hurry! Maybe it's where I am advertising as of late (BP) :SIGH:, but in my opinion you cannot rush good service.

The reason I charge the prices that I do is because I am taking my business in the direction that I want it to go in, which is to see fewer clients a day, in a non rushed, laid back, more enjoyable way. You can be assured with me that I do not cram a bunch of clients into my day, one right after the other, meaning that you get the full time you are paying for and that I have properly freshened up both myself and my incall location. If you want sloppy 5ths or 6ths, etc. I am not the Lady for you. If you want to see someone in an upscale, clean as a whistle, non rushed setting, then I am the Lady for you! This means that I cannot always be ready on a dime. Although I advertise being available during certain hours on certain days, despite what some people might think, I do not sit by the phone day in day out waiting for that call. I very much have a life outside of my work, which I do thoroughly enjoy, but I also need to nurture my soul in other ways to be a healthy and balanced person. I am sure that many of the ladies on here can relate to what I am saying.

Sorry for the rant, but sometimes things just need to be brought to light/readdressed. I know that we all lead busy and hopefully productive lives, but some things just should not be rushed, and in my opinion, spending 'Quality' time with a Lady is not one of them!

On that note: Happy Valentines Day Everyone and Enjoy the one you Love/Lust after!

Sincerely,
Miss Sinful Sophia

 

[God]

No rush girl ;/Waving://

 

[papasmerf]

But you do get a Rush from Good Service

 

[Sophia Sinclair]

But you do get a Rush from Good Service

Too True Papa!

 

[HOF]

Sophia, you should (create a team of ladies to) teach classes to SPs on how to conduct and prepare.

As the finest wine that I've tasted, an hour drink is simply not enough to satiate one's buds. In an industry with so many, there are not enough in your league and those that are everyone knows already. Fortunately for me, I know most of them

It's been far too long since we've played and why is simple, I would not be able to get enough of you but it's been some time, so I'll be around to play and hopefully there's a concert some time this year

Happy Valentine's Day. XO

 

[BEER]

Gentlemen & Ladies,

I have found lately that everyone seems to be in a big hurry! Maybe it's where I am advertising as of late (BP) :SIGH:, but in my opinion you cannot rush good service.

The reason I charge the prices that I do is because I am taking my business in the direction that I want it to go in, which is to see fewer clients a day, in a non rushed, laid back, more enjoyable way. You can be assured with me that I do not cram a bunch of clients into my day, one right after the other, meaning that you get the full time you are paying for and that I have properly freshened up both myself and my incall location. If you want sloppy 5ths or 6ths, etc. I am not the Lady for you. If you want to see someone in an upscale, clean as a whistle, non rushed setting, then I am the Lady for you! This means that I cannot always be ready on a dime. Although I advertise being available during certain hours on certain days, despite what some people might think, I do not sit by the phone day in day out waiting for that call. I very much have a life outside of my work, which I do thoroughly enjoy, but I also need to nurture my soul in other ways to be a healthy and balanced person. I am sure that many of the ladies on here can relate to what I am saying.

Sorry for the rant, but sometimes things just need to be brought to light/readdressed. I know that we all lead busy and hopefully productive lives, but some things just should not be rushed, and in my opinion, spending 'Quality' time with a Lady is not one of them!

On that note: Happy Valentines Day Everyone and Enjoy the one you Love/Lust after!

Sincerely,
Miss Sinful Sophia

Who's been bothering you. Want me to send Guido after him.

 

[Anto]

Class act, Sinful.

 

[jumpingjackflash]

I'm assuming people are asking for 30 minutes sessions? It's true, it's hard to enjoy all the fruits offered in 30 minutes but some guys try to fit it in during lunch hour so I'm assuming that why it works for them.

 

[Sophia Sinclair]

I'm assuming people are asking for 30 minutes sessions? It's true, it's hard to enjoy all the fruits offered in 30 minutes but some guys try to fit it in during lunch hour so I'm assuming that why it works for them.

Repoman,

I have absolutely no issue with hh sessions, hence why I offer them and call it the "Busy Man 1/2 hr".

It's the guys that call me up and:

a) say that they are on their break so can only do a hh, which is fine, but then want a deal because they only have $140 on them and do not have time to go to the bank.

b) ask what my hh price is, despite admitting to seeing my BP ad which clearly states to go to my website first for details and then to call me, only to not book as they thought it would be $100 making my services out of their price range, probably expecting me to give them a deal, all of which could have been avoided if they had taken the time to check out my site.

c) just happen to be right at Highway's 400 & 7 and could I see them in the next 5 - 10 minutes, because of course I am sitting there all day dressed to see a client and ready to go at a moments notice.

d) come see me for a hh and because they cum so fast, and I suspect have to be somewhere else shortly as they were in a big rush to see me, feel I should give them a deal next time, despite my pointing out that there is no hurry and they are welcome to stay the full hh.

e) never leave a voice mail, simply call me 8 times in an hr, which makes no sense as I am probably in a 1 hr session, and when you call or text them back within 5 minutes of their last attempt to contact you, they do not answer or respond to my text.

Or the guys that text me:

a) that they would like to see me at this or this time for a hh, to which I immediately respond (1 minute later) that I am available at the second time, to which they do not respond back at all until I ask what is happening (5 minutes later), only to have them simply text me "no thanks", which begs the question as to why they contacted me in the first place, to which they respond that they got called into a meeting, but I guess were too busy to let me know, with all of this transpiring over about a 10 minute time period, almost beating a New York minute.

b) asking about my availability and no matter what time I tell them, they want a hh earlier (there have been about 4 - 5 such enquiries in the last 2 days) , which begs the question, why not just ask if I am available at the specific time you want instead of asking when I am available in general.

c) etc.

I think you are getting my point about the craziness!

:dontknow:

 

[Sophia Sinclair]

Sophia ...beauty brains & class. I could not agree with you more.

One thing you might try ... leave your telephone number out of your backpage ad. If it's on your site it will force them there before they call you. Try it for a day and see if things improve ... if not you can always change back.

Happy Valentines Day

Thanx Grasshopper, Happy V-Day to you too!

 

[jumpingjackflash]

I see why you're frustrated and I don't blame you. It seems like back-pages brings out the shmucks.

 

[sycophant]

Gentlemen & Ladies,

I have found lately that everyone seems to be in a big hurry! Maybe it's where I am advertising as of late (BP) :SIGH:, but in my opinion you cannot rush good service.

The reason I charge the prices that I do is because I am taking my business in the direction that I want it to go in, which is to see fewer clients a day, in a non rushed, laid back, more enjoyable way. You can be assured with me that I do not cram a bunch of clients into my day, one right after the other, meaning that you get the full time you are paying for and that I have properly freshened up both myself and my incall location. If you want sloppy 5ths or 6ths, etc. I am not the Lady for you. If you want to see someone in an upscale, clean as a whistle, non rushed setting, then I am the Lady for you! This means that I cannot always be ready on a dime. Although I advertise being available during certain hours on certain days, despite what some people might think, I do not sit by the phone day in day out waiting for that call. I very much have a life outside of my work, which I do thoroughly enjoy, but I also need to nurture my soul in other ways to be a healthy and balanced person. I am sure that many of the ladies on here can relate to what I am saying.

Sorry for the rant, but sometimes things just need to be brought to light/readdressed. I know that we all lead busy and hopefully productive lives, but some things just should not be rushed, and in my opinion, spending 'Quality' time with a Lady is not one of them!

On that note: Happy Valentines Day Everyone and Enjoy the one you Love/Lust after!

Sincerely,
Miss Sinful Sophia

do not stop or change what you are doing in any way!!!

 

[Art Mann]

. . . Most clients who put that much effort into arranging a rendezvous are as serious as I am about enjoying it.

And as a result are seldom disappointed in that rendezvous, with you or any other lady equally as serious about mutual enjoyment.

 

[Robintheboywonder]

And as a result are seldom disappointed in that rendezvous, with you or any other lady equally as serious about mutual enjoyment.

You're smooth dude, must be the slick stache! LOL

 

[Sophia Sinclair]

Who's been bothering you. Want me to send Guido after .

What's he going to do, use his Speedo as a slingshot and hurl crosses at them like an Italian "Robin Hood"?

 

[Madman]

What's he going to do, use his Speedo as a slingshot and hurl crossed at them?

LMAO, more like he'll chase them off with his 3 inch salami! :rofl!:

 

[Sophia Sinclair]

I know a lot of ladies use that site so I hate to bash it but I do tend to agree. My experience is this... I used to use it frequently, I even used Craigslist back in the day and I met a great many very nice gentlemen... but I had many, many more callers that were just not serious. Lowballers, service negotiators, cancellations and no shows. I pretty much never use it now, except in areas that have very little board representation like the Soo. I also switched to only taking appointments that are prebooked, preferably by email. I enjoy the email foreplay if you will .. and many clients seem to also. I still get the occasional cancellation but the amount of bs I deal with now is minimal. Most clients who put that much effort into arranging a rendezvous are as serious as I am about enjoying it.

Hmmm, an interesting suggestion, email that is.

I stopped prebooking because I found that after chatting with them several times on the phone, inevitably they would cancel the day of, notably always by text and never a call, due to an accident 2 hrs before our get together, a family emergency 1 hr before our meeting, or my favourite, their wife going into premature labour, etc. These are all feasible/valid reasons, but when it happens 8 out of 10 times you have to question the authenticity of it all. I usually ask that they call me so that I can garner a sense of who is walking through that door. No, I do not discriminate, which is what I think some guys feel I am doing. They have to realize that they have the advantage of my site including a bio, pics, reviews, etc. whereas I have little idea who they are or their likes/dislikes, etc. I have a form on my site, that has an area for additional requests, information about themselves, etc., but I find few utilize it, with a lot not even filling it out properly.

Maybe I should consider some email banter if you have found that to work in your favour and to simplify and enhance the booking process. This will however require some additional hardware on my part (i.e. web enabled cell, etc.) My guess is that we attract a similar clientele.

Thank you for your advise and support!

I threw this out there to hopefully provide the gentlemen with some insight into how we view things and with the hope that someone like yourself may have suggestions based on experience, etc.

 

[FineWineDiva]

I know a lot of ladies use that site so I hate to bash it but I do tend to agree. My experience is this... I used to use it frequently, I even used Craigslist back in the day and I met a great many very nice gentlemen... but I had many, many more callers that were just not serious. Lowballers, service negotiators, cancellations and no shows. I pretty much never use it now, except in areas that have very little board representation like the Soo. I also switched to only taking appointments that are prebooked, preferably by email. I enjoy the email foreplay if you will .. and many clients seem to also. I still get the occasional cancellation but the amount of bs I deal with now is minimal. Most clients who put that much effort into arranging a rendezvous are as serious as I am about enjoying it.

I agree Jessica .... I find alot of gentlemen are also looking from work , BP & DL are title as a NON Adult site.
So it safe to look from from work

 

[Wilsonjso]

do not stop or change what you are doing in any way!!!

+1

 

[FineWineDiva]

Gentlemen & Ladies,

I have found lately that everyone seems to be in a big hurry! Maybe it's where I am advertising as of late (BP) :SIGH:, but in my opinion you cannot rush good service.

The reason I charge the prices that I do is because I am taking my business in the direction that I want it to go in, which is to see fewer clients a day, in a non rushed, laid back, more enjoyable way. You can be assured with me that I do not cram a bunch of clients into my day, one right after the other, meaning that you get the full time you are paying for and that I have properly freshened up both myself and my incall location. If you want sloppy 5ths or 6ths, etc. I am not the Lady for you. If you want to see someone in an upscale, clean as a whistle, non rushed setting, then I am the Lady for you! This means that I cannot always be ready on a dime. Although I advertise being available during certain hours on certain days, despite what some people might think, I do not sit by the phone day in day out waiting for that call. I very much have a life outside of my work, which I do thoroughly enjoy, but I also need to nurture my soul in other ways to be a healthy and balanced person. I am sure that many of the ladies on here can relate to what I am saying.

Sorry for the rant, but sometimes things just need to be brought to light/readdressed. I know that we all lead busy and hopefully productive lives, but some things just should not be rushed, and in my opinion, spending 'Quality' time with a Lady is not one of them!

On that note: Happy Valentines Day Everyone and Enjoy the one you Love/Lust after!

Sincerely,
Miss Sinful Sophia

Confidence & classy .. your a true lady, Well said Sophia