2 Women

[-b]

What would make a guy turned off of 2 women having sex?
What would he find so bad about it?
I thought every guy wants a 3some?
Shit I want a 3some...with women thank you gentlemen...:spiteful:
Maybe next year.....:spiteful:

I am being serious, why would the guy then turn it around and make
the woman feel like she has done something wrong, ugly and dirty about it.
Especially when he, set most of them up.....I have been fighting myself
over this one for awhile and I can not go into my counselor to talk to
her about it.......:rofl!: She is not that way.......But feed back would help
me
Feed Back has in help...Not a whole lot of penises ok......:rofl!:

 

[Slick]

Dump the jerk, Bliss. All I can say.

 

[Madman]

There is nothing wrong with having a threesome when all 3 are on board. Two women having sex is a beautiful thing in my eyes. I would actually not mind sitting in a corner and just watching.


ps... stay out of my bumping thread!!:grrrrrr:

 

[-b]

Dump the jerk, Bliss. All I can say.

We are divorcing.....All is good.....
Damn and I would give him a BJ whenever he wanted.....
He did not need to be mean....He could have just left without
making me feel ugly for having sex with women...even if
the women were escorts.....:sorry: Like if he was not sleeping with them too.
It seem double standards really...but I feel ugly by what he said and how he said it.....
I thought I was fore filling his dream......
I am not sure how I can stop feeling that I should be disgusted with myself and
ugly too by what his words and looks were....

 

[Guido]

We are divorcing.....All is good.....
Damn and I would give him a BJ whenever he wanted.....
He did not need to be mean....He could have just left without
making me feel ugly for having sex with women...even if
the women were escorts.....:sorry: Like if he was not sleeping with them too.
It seem double standards really...but I feel ugly by what he said and how he said it.....
I thought I was fore filling his dream......
I am not sure how I can stop feeling that I should be disgusted with myself and
ugly too by what his words and looks were....

You have to move on Bliss!! It's time to party and have fun on your own!!

 

[Maurice Boscorelli]

You have to move on Bliss!!

Gee you think,lol.....But I can just tell in this case it's never going to happen.

 

[SillyGirl]

Gee you think,lol.....But I can just tell in this case it's never going to happen.

sigh...Maurice, you've been very nice to me, and I appreciate it. But if you knew the truth of my life you would probably say the same thing about me...perhaps you have been smart enough to never have (mistakenly) allowed your life to revolve around someone else's, and to have allowed that person's opinion to form the basis for your own opinion of yourself, and to have been thrown away like yesterday's garbage by that person.

Bliss' ex made her feel ugly, mine made me feel stupid. It took two years after the divorce for me to start to think that maybe, just maybe, I'm not a total moron. There are days when I'm still not sure about that, but I am trying to pick myself up off the floor and move forward. So is Bliss, and I applaud her for that.

 

[Jesus Quintana]

IF its not wrong dirty and and ugly then I want nothing to do with it.

Mind you I'm a bit of a prude.

I dumped a girl because she had a MFM 3some while I personally have had 3 FMF 3-somes.

 

[Maurice Boscorelli]

sigh...Maurice, you've been very nice to me, and I appreciate it. But if you knew the truth of my life you would probably say the same thing about me...perhaps you have been smart enough to never have (mistakenly) allowed your life to revolve around someone else's, and to have allowed that person's opinion to form the basis for your own opinion of yourself, and to have been thrown away like yesterday's garbage by that person. .

A friend of mine and his wife along with me and mine at the time were once coming out of a restaurant in Montreal.

When we saw a homeless man going through a garbage can for food.

I said to my friend that I bet he would have a story to tell.

To which he replied ''we all have a story to tell to some degree''.

In this case the OP if I remember correctly once chimed the praises of her ex on this very board and the red one as well.

But when he decided to move on then we started hearing a different version of events.

I always wonder what the other side of the equation would say if they could hear what was being said about them.

Anyways I will continue being nice to you and you can tell me about your life anytime. If that's okay.

 

[Stoner]

sigh...Maurice, you've been very nice to me, and I appreciate it. But if you knew the truth of my life you would probably say the same thing about me...perhaps you have been smart enough to never have (mistakenly) allowed your life to revolve around someone else's, and to have allowed that person's opinion to form the basis for your own opinion of yourself, and to have been thrown away like yesterday's garbage by that person.

Bliss' ex made her feel ugly, mine made me feel stupid. It took two years after the divorce for me to start to think that maybe, just maybe, I'm not a total moron. There are days when I'm still not sure about that, but I am trying to pick myself up off the floor and move forward. So is Bliss, and I applaud her for that.

Both men had insecurity issues. Blame them not you, ladies.

 

[SillyGirl]

In this case the OP if I remember correctly once chimed the praises of her ex on this very board and the red one as well.

But when he decided to move on then we started hearing a different version of events.

I always wonder what the other side of the equation would say if they could hear what was being said about them.

Anyways I will continue being nice to you and you can tell me about your life anytime. If that's okay.

I once sang my ex's praises on a board as well, as he sang mine. We both meant it at the time, at least we thought we did.

I'm sure he speaks differently about me now. Well, he probably doesn't speak or think of me at all. He left and didn't look back.

I hope I'm not sounding like I was perfect and he was a total asshole, that wasn't the case. We both fucked it up, in our own way.

I will continue to appreciate your being nice, but I can't talk publicly about this any more.

And I feel like I'm naked in front of the crowd
Cause these words are my diary, screaming out loud
And I know that you'll use them, however you want to
"Breathe" - Anna Nalick

 

[Philrange]

I once sang my ex's praises on a board as well, as he sang mine. We both meant it at the time, at least we thought we did.

I'm sure he speaks differently about me now. Well, he probably doesn't speak or think of me at all. He left and didn't look back.

I hope I'm not sounding like I was perfect and he was a total asshole, that wasn't the case. We both fucked it up, in our own way.

I will continue to appreciate your being nice, but I won't talk publicly about this any more.

And I feel like I'm naked in front of the crowd
Cause these words are my diary, screaming out loud
And I know that you'll use them, however you want to
"Breathe" - Anna Nalick

I believe if you continue to speak your mind about what happened your mind and soul will benefit.

Just saying.

We are all strangers here but all have hurt at least once so I and mostly we can comprehend and feel the thoughts.

I don't post much here but have been paying attention.

 

[-b]

SG it ok.... I praise my ex yes.....I believed in him.....I believe my friends and I would defend them too..
I understand about moving on....really...I am not sure if you well understand what I am saying...For me to express how I feel to people is hard.....I am not trying to say feel sorry for me...I need some information that some of you guys may have.....being male you may have some input...
I can not form any type of relationship thinking that I am ugly and disgusting....I am trying to take steps forward instead of not trying to find a way to solve this.....

I just wanted some reasons why a guy would do all this and then be disgusted because I was having fun.......I am not perfect....Well they were going to make me into a living Saint but I said NO because Reverse would be pissed and then Italianna...Guido.....Well Madman would be Bumping the Crap out...:toocool:

 

[tboy]

What would make a guy turned off of 2 women having sex?

Speaking of me personally, 2 ugly women having sex would/does turn me right off. For eg: I watch a lot of Girlfriends Films. There is one actress they use a lot who has to lift up her gut so she can line up her pussy so she can grind against another actress' pussy. EWWWWWW if your gut is so big you have to do THAT? I'm not watching TYVM.

What would he find so bad about it?

I can't answer for "he" but to me, it's like some people like to see autopsy videos.....umm not for me thanks.

I thought every guy wants a 3some?

I know LOTS of guys who don't want threesomes. One told me it was because he likes to focus on one woman and one woman only (I really think it was because he had performance issues).

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Now the above are my answers, someone else may have entirely different answers but....you asked.

As for blowjobs whenever he wanted it, were you any good? I had a gf who would blow me (within reason) whenever I wanted but a) she wasn't that good and b) I don't really like them so her doing it all the time meant nothing really to me. Maybe you weren't that good? (not to be insulting, just pointing out a possibility).

As Bosco pointed out, I also recall Bliss raving about Brash and how wonderful he was. People don't change that dramatically. Now some will change, but the basic person is always in there. I find that people tend to look at their partner's through rose coloured glasses and ignore the obvious signs that others point out. How many times have we all seen a man or a woman with someone and said "get away from them, NOW" and been ignored? That's because we don't look at them through rose coloured glasses and see them for who they really are.

I think that's why I have trouble keeping women. I not only see them for all who they are, their good points and bad and accept them for that. I once told an ex who I was madly in love with: I look at you as a princess...pause while she beamed......with a dented tiara that was damaged while she crawled under the fence to get into an AC/DC concert (she didn't like that). I also told her "I'll put you on a pedestal, but that's only so I can look up your skirt"....lol...

Anyhow, deal with it and move on......

 

[SillyGirl]

Anyhow, deal with it and move on......

That's what we're trying to do.

Thank you for the reasonable response.

 

[Insertion]

It's interesting what emotions can do to people. I must be cold hearted because whenever I've been in a break up I just go out, party and forget about it. Mind you, if I divorced I would cry over the loss of income but as for the relationship, people do change over time. The perfect specimen may not be so perfect after living together and actually getting to know the real person.

 

[tboy]

That's what we're trying to do.

Thank you for the reasonable response.

Trying isn't doing.......

 

[HOF]

There is nothing wrong with having a threesome when all 3 are on board. Two women having sex is a beautiful thing in my eyes. I would actually not mind sitting in a corner and just watching.


ps... stay out of my bumping thread!!:grrrrrr:

HAHA, madman go check your bump thread!

 

[Coxwell]

Blissful, don't let anyone make you feel ugly.

Those who continue to do so, including people on here, are actually displaying to the world their own inner disfigurement.
Take pity on them.

 

[Coxwell]

And no, I'm not interested in a 3some with two women. If I'm paying that kind of money, I want all the attention on me.