A reflection thread

[bluebro69]

What's cis-male?.

From urbandictionary.com: cis -- Short for "cisgender" (opposite of "transgender"), used to describe someone whose gender identity matches their anatomical gender at birth.

 

[papasmerf]

From urbandictionary.com: cis -- Short for "cisgender" (opposite of "transgender"), used to describe someone whose gender identity matches their anatomical gender at birth.

So in short a male or a female.

 

[demien3k5]

So in short a male or a female.

Why do you always need to get so technical!? Male, Female....who can keep up with you young whipper-snappers and your cool lingo anymore!? :LMAO:

 

[cristycurves]

I guess that explains why the first few SP's that I saw didn't like me. No I didn't bargain but they claim that my sex drive is too atypical and "vanilla" for them and that I'm too indecisive. I'm not a cis-male that's why.

However, I truly think that you and me are both on to something. Why is that female clients are less preferable than male clients from female SP's? You mentioned wanting relationship, free time, and bargaining, and I figured it's pretty much the same mentality that I had when I made that thread a while ago about wanting to see restrictive GFE SP's in exchange for less payment - that sexual acts doesn't matter to me as long as we have the emotional connection and intimacy. Yes, makes perfect sense why I'm not a cis-male.

Honestly the more I think about this the more I consider that hobbying is definitely not for me. I already get into enough shit for me saying I'm not into receiving blowjobs.

So now I'm thinking - why the hell did I even consider hobbying in the first place? Oh right because it's new for me, that I might enjoy it, like going bungee jumping.

If I may point out a couple of things.....Not all sp's prefer females because some of us simply aren't into women, nor could we "pretend" to be into women for the sake of some $$. As far as any sp not liking you because of your sexual needs, while I do find that odd, as an sp, I do understand we all choose and enjoy different types of clients. The trick for you is finding an sp that is comfortable providing what you require and the trick for sp's are attracting the types of clientele we enjoy and wish to spend time with. Both take effort, time and come with some regrets. But when you find whom you seek, it doesn't get any better and it's time very well spent As I've said before, when anyone seeks out an sp for an "experience" and by that I mean making a connection that surpasses just the sexual act, they typically seek out those types of sp's who don't list menus, or services, as it is those sp's who typically offer and seek clients to form a connection with beyond just sexual gratification and or $$.
But I think it best to not always judge or compare the experience someone has as being the general rule to all experiences, IE: all women clients are this way, all bi clients are this way, all straight male clients are this way, etc, etc, everyone is different and what one client is to one sp, that same client may be totally different to another......