An interesting article on why you should never pay for sex

[cristycurves]

It's an older article-2013-I believe, still interesting.The author seems to think that one can't have great sex with someone you pay. That those paid don't form emotional connections to their clients, are void of feelings and "used". Geesh, nothing like painting us with the same brush......

https://www.theglobeandmail.com/lif...readers-to-avoid-prostitutes/article12634086/

 

[Madman]

What a bunch of nonsense! I've had both, civvie real dates, escorts and overall I enjoy the sex with the escorts more than most of the civvies I was able to engage with.

 

[oldguyzer]

The bullshit with real people means I would rather pay for escorts...much less bullshit and mind games.

 

[Tommtom]

Well sometimes you spend more with a civvie and don't get anything in return but being cheated and stolen from. Damn you Mary! (Just kidding)

 

[What A Wookie]

At issue is what values embody worthwhile sex, and my philosophy is this: Whether it happens during a one-night stand, a summer fling, a friends-with-benefit arrangement or a life-long marriage, there must be a base human connection – two willing, interested humans agreeing to a good time – and a special, intimate experience.

Written by someone who thinks every sex worker is desperate or coerced; that experience is the sw is a dead fish, staring at the ceiling throughout.

The notion that there's any real intimacy during a druken one night stand or that there's always interest or willingness during marital sex is pretty silly.

 

[Fuggedabouditt]

What a bunch of nonsense! I've had both, civvie real dates, escorts and overall I enjoy the sex with the escorts more than most of the civvies I was able to engage with.

The bullshit with real people means I would rather pay for escorts...much less bullshit and mind games.

Written by someone who thinks every sex worker is desperate or coerced; that experience is the sw is a dead fish, staring at the ceiling throughout.

The notion that there's any real intimacy during a druken one night stand or that there's always interest or willingness during marital sex is pretty silly.

Preach boys.

I'd rather pay and not deal with civilian bullshit any day, although there are times I wish I had a regular civilian relationship, I look at what my friends go through with their spouses and then give my head a shake and go visit an SP.

 

[George Costanza]

I look at what my friends go through with their spouses and then give my head a shake and go visit an SP.

It is too late for most of us.

 

[DannyDevito]

Jerks like this should get their heads examined.

He uses protection, but admits, “when I get to that point and I’m there, I’m not worried about safety.”

 

[Azura Rose]

"No emotional connection"? Riiiight... It's not like the entire GFE thing is BASED on cultivating regulars and a connection. Clearly written by someone who doesn't actually have any familiarity with the industry.

 

[cristycurves]

^ Yes I agree and it is those people, who because of their own misguided moral stance, who spread stupid misnomers, thoughts and make assumptions about everyone in or who partakes in the industry. To them any type of sex, other than "conventional" sex is desired and sought after only by those with issues, and will lead to a persons moral decay. There is nothing more annoying than hearing perceptions of something they know nothing about.

 

[oldguyzer]

^ Yes I agree and it is those people, who because of their own misguided moral stance, who spread stupid misnomers, thoughts and make assumptions about everyone in or who partakes in the industry. To them any type of sex, other than "conventional" sex is desired and sought after only by those with issues, and will lead to a persons moral decay. There is nothing more annoying than hearing perceptions of something they know nothing about.

Praise-Bowing:clapping2:

 

[JessieJames]

^ Yes I agree and it is those people, who because of their own misguided moral stance, who spread stupid misnomers, thoughts and make assumptions about everyone in or who partakes in the industry. To them any type of sex, other than "conventional" sex is desired and sought after only by those with issues, and will lead to a persons moral decay. There is nothing more annoying than hearing perceptions of something they know nothing about.

It's sickening when others try to force their misguided morals on others, it really is.

 

[Jasper]

I think the article makes valid points.
Would you advise your son or daughter to go the pay for sex route? Wouldn't you prefer they found a life companion they loved?

Hmmmmmm

 

[Fuggedabouditt]

I think the article makes valid points.
Would you advise your son or daughter to go the pay for sex route? Wouldn't you prefer they found a life companion they loved?

Hmmmmmm

That's a conventional thought but my two oldest girls have had failed relationship one after the other. The oldest is married now but there isn't a day she doesn't complain about something her spouse. She had this story book future all planned out; life seemed to get in the way of that and was a bit of an eye opener. She settled.

Conventional works for about the first year for me. I had more than one beautiful relationship with open minded civvies and SP's but ultimately, we are who we are and not one person can change that. I pay for sex and companionship; it's what makes me happy. My "friends" think I'm crazy to spend the kind of money I do for this, but then I look at the headaches they have in their relationships and thank myself for my choice. Then I look at how happy they can be and share their lives together and then i feel quite alone for my choice.

 

[cristycurves]

I think the article makes valid points.
Would you advise your son or daughter to go the pay for sex route? Wouldn't you prefer they found a life companion they loved?

Hmmmmmm

If I had children, I would advise them of all the ways of finding a partner, and all that goes with those choices. I'd then hope they'd choose what ever form of dating would make them most happy and fulfilled. I'd never want them to feel oppressed by morality or judged because of their choices. As long as they never sought to cause harm to themselves, or another, I'd be happy.
The only valid points I read in the article were that some make judgements about things they know nothing about