ANAL anticipation

[Hector17]

Damn, getting this anal business done, is consuming my dreams every night now! Damn-Not too smart

Careful....I have been told by 2 ladies I trust that in most cases with guys, they are so amped up and excited about doing anal, that they pop almost as soon as it starts or even sooner....the mind plays tricks, and it is tighter than you would be used too.
I suggested I might like to try it once and she told me about this variable...
She also told me that, at least with her, that if a guy starts out "all about the anal" in his talk, demeanour and actions, that it wont happen. ...she told me (at least for her) it was fine, but it had to sort of evolve normally to get there to avoid a creepiness feeling.
I took it to mean that she knows me well enough, and knows I'd regret a fast pop, so it was sort of a warning, or favour to tell me of that pitfall.

I guess practice makes perfect, but your first foray(s) may do you in

 

[blackram]

Careful....I have been told by 2 ladies I trust that in most cases with guys, they are so amped up and excited about doing anal, that they pop almost as soon as it starts or even sooner....the mind plays tricks, and it is tighter than you would be used too.

Believe me, I know, I've gone through all of this myself in the past, that's why it hasn't happened for me all of this time. But this time I think I've finally found the ideal combination of comfort level and partner to do it with. I've known Angie for ages, so we're both comfortable with each other. I've known other girls for ages too, but it's never happened with them because some of them weren't interested in exploring their anal side, and I was satisfied with them even without the anal side. But Angie has shown some interest in exploring her anal side, very recently. I think the timing is right. I actually think it's not really going to happen at our next meeting, at least not the full act. This may just be our first exploratory act finding the right way of easing into it.

 

[blackram]

I got my appointment made for tonight with Angie! As usual, will let you know how it went.

 

[Hector17]

Thanks...and good luck with that!Look forward to hearing about the results...and whether it fulfilled any fantasy. It's been 35 years since I did that, as a young man I recall pullling 2 gals back to my place , after the bar, where I did one anally without a safe....and then her friend sucked me off ....without my having washed or showered....whoaaa
I might try it again...well without the second part

 

[blackram]

Well, just got back from it. The final outcome did not happen -- for now -- but I'm still happy with the results. Angie was positively orgasmic the whole time with me. She absolutely enjoyed it, and now I know for sure that she's an out-of-the-closet anal freak! I brought a medium sized crystal dildo with me to get her dilated. She was not yet ready to receive the dildo fully. If the dildo didn't fit in, then I wasn't going to be able to fit in either. Anything more than a thumb is too much for her still, but she did not shy away from trying everything. She wants to try it some more next time, and keep trying it until it finally fits in. We finished off in our traditional (vaginal) way -- can't complain about that. :biggrin2:

 

[blackram]

It's been 35 years since I did that, as a young man I recall pullling 2 gals back to my place , after the bar, where I did one anally without a safe

I wish I had done this when I was younger. I tried to a few times, but I didn't really pursue it, as it didn't seem all that interesting, I preferred the vagina back then (still do). I'm just now really fascinated by it, in a way that I wasn't when I was younger. When I was younger, I used to really get off on watching lesbians, but now it just annoys me. Times change, and preferences do too.

I know that Angie wasn't into anal many years ago, but now she's just fascinated by it, like me. It's like we're on a journey of exploration together now.

 

[Skinflute]

blackram=

She was not yet ready to receive the dildo fully

You forgot to use KY Jelly !!!

 

[blackram]

Nope, used quite a bit of lubricant.

Actually it was fascinating, I first tried the dildo inside her pussy. She started somewhat tight down there too, so things weren't going in. Then with a little bit of wiggling, the dildo got sucked inside like a vacuum cleaner sucking up paper! I only pushed it in slightly with the open palm of my hand, but when the tip entered her cavern, the dildo nearly disappeared into her pussy on its own! :biggrin2:

I was hoping to see the same thing in her backdoor, but it remained pretty firmly closed.

 

[Skinflute]

blackram=

but when the tip entered her cavern, the dildo nearly disappeared into her pussy on its own!

BTW is your watch missing!? :LMAO:

 

[paul mott]

Each of those holes are one way streets, one is for stuff coming out and the other is mainly for something going in! So your're problem is that your're trying to go up the one way street and its resisting entry, and the other helps you go in as its the right direction.

 

[blackram]

Yeah, but the whole point here is to go down the wrong way of a one-way street! :good:

 

[blackram]

Bucket List: check! :good:

Finally checked this one off of my bucket list. I do believe that I've now finished up my entire list!

It was a really sweet moment between Angie and I (i.e. if you can call anal sex, sweet)! Since it was both our first times doing this, at the end of the session, we both told each other how glad that our first time was with each other. :kissing:

The glass dildo really did its job properly, I was able to penetrate her with it this time, and that opened her up wide enough for me to go in with my own member later. We spent a good 1hr+ together, it took that long just to get her loose enough. We did not rush anything, made sure that I wasn't hurting her, and everything went so well. I was able to get inside her backdoor 2 or 3 times, but we finished off face-to-face vaginally.

Now that I've done it, I think I can say that the vagina is still the best place of all. I might try backdooring with her again another time in the future, but not immediately.

 

[mmad]

I never did understand the fascination with anal when the front looked so much more appealing!! Glad you got your bucket list cleared, I'm sure you'll be adding more to it shortly; always seems there's something else that comes up worth trying.
Hope none of you guys are frozen yet :wink2:

 

[Skinflute]

blackram=

Finally checked this one off of my bucket list. I do believe that I've now finished up my entire list!

Congratulations !! :YMAPPLAUSE: I am sure you will find something else worth trying, maybe join the mile high club or in some strange place. :-Cool/"

I have never done Greek, the front door always was more appealing.

 

[Skinflute]

MMAD=

Hope none of you guys are frozen yet :wink2:

Yes we are freezing our nuts off. This weather really kicks in my arthritis.

 

[blackram]

The expressions on Angie's face were priceless, wish I could've filmed them for you guys. Just a constant O-face for a good half-hour or more straight!

 

[paul mott]

Blackram I'm happy for you that you got to try what you've wanted to do for so long, even though I, like the others, prefer the other vertical smile to penetrate. Life would be boring if we all liked the same things though, and as they say use it or lose it. It's been a drought lately for me now that Mimi can`t risk seeing me anymore at my place. This time of year there doesn`t seem to be much selection, but if we ever get some warm weather, then the girls will start to emerge from hibernation...I hope

 

[blackram]

I never did understand the fascination with anal when the front looked so much more appealing!! Glad you got your bucket list cleared, I'm sure you'll be adding more to it shortly; always seems there's something else that comes up worth trying.

Well yeah, it's not something I was looking forward to doing because I just had to have it, but it was just something I wanted to know about. All things considered, the pussy is still a much better place that I'd rather be in.

As for adding more to the bucket list, I can't think of anything left to try, without going into homosexual territory, and that's not going to happen. :no: I can think of maybe getting into an orgy or a gangbang, but those are really just higher variations on the duo thing, which I've also checked off the bucket list. Besides, I'm more of a one-on-one kind of guy, paying enough attention to both girls in a duo are difficult, and they'd be non-existent in an orgy.

Congratulations !! I am sure you will find something else worth trying, maybe join the mile high club or in some strange place.

I have never done Greek, the front door always was more appealing.

I might still play with Angie anally because she seems to love it so much (OMG, the expressions on her face are just priceless). But as for entering her anally again, I can take it or leave it. I'm just happy that there's a pussy there.

As for the mile-high club, have you seen how small airplane bathrooms are these days? I can barely fit by myself in there, not to mention fitting two in there. I don't know if the airplane bathrooms were more spacious in the 70's, because that's when I remember when they used to show a lot of those mile-high scenes.

Blackram I'm happy for you that you got to try what you've wanted to do for so long, even though I, like the others, prefer the other vertical smile to penetrate. Life would be boring if we all liked the same things though, and as they say use it or lose it. It's been a drought lately for me now that Mimi can`t risk seeing me anymore at my place. This time of year there doesn`t seem to be much selection, but if we ever get some warm weather, then the girls will start to emerge from hibernation...I hope

Who's Mimi, and why can't she be seen around your place?

 

[paul mott]

Mimi is the cute asian from 162 who I convinced to see me at my place. Unfortunately the "boss" there keeps her and Luci under tight control even after their work hours, which is 12 hrs a day, 7 days a week, plus they live with him. Anyway I used to pick her up early on weekend mornings before the place opened, but Luci saw her in my car, so that put an end to it.

She and Luci don't get along, as she's jealous Mimi is more popular, so that didn't help much either, although Luci did the same thing seeing me once. A girl working most other spas can do whatever she wants when she's not on shift, but asians it's not the same. She wants me to go back and see her at the spa, but I refuse to give that controlling boss one cent in door fees, so it's over.

I had seen Victoria who worked at Paradise when she went indy, and she was agreeable to come over, but she's disappeared and doesn't seem to be working anymore, thus the drought for me. This hobby is perpetual feast or famine.

 

[blackram]

Mimi is the cute asian from 162 who I convinced to see me at my place. Unfortunately the "boss" there keeps her and Luci under tight control even after their work hours, which is 12 hrs a day, 7 days a week, plus they live with him. Anyway I used to pick her up early on weekend mornings before the place opened, but Luci saw her in my car, so that put an end to it.

So how come we're just hearing about this right now? :biggrin:

Actually, I now remember you mentioned Mimi before, just didn't realize that she had become such an early morning regular of yours.

I had seen Victoria who worked at Paradise when she went indy, and she was agreeable to come over, but she's disappeared and doesn't seem to be working anymore, thus the drought for me. This hobby is perpetual feast or famine.

I always keep at least 3 long term regulars around, just for this reason, never settle with just one. Sometimes, even that's not enough. Just a year back, I had been seeing 3 girls: Mariane, Laurie, and Sabrina R at Angels. Now, by far, I was more regular with both Laurie and Mariane, because they were much hotter than Sabrina, who is a BBW. Sabrina was really more my fallback than my regular.

Things were running well, until Mariane went nuts one day and decided to withdraw services that she'd been giving me long-term (dropped FS, sent me back to the kiddie table with BBBJ). I'm not sure why she decided to withdraw those services, but I think it had something to do with a joke I said to her, and she may have taken it seriously. Because after that day, she became colder, stopped making time for me. Then when I did finally saw her a couple of weeks later, she announced she was dropping FS for me. After that, I stopped seeing her, never even emailed her, texted her or phoned her: complete boycott. She caved a couple of months back and tried to reconnect with me, and I shot her down, told her that I didn't appreciate her treatment of me. I don't care how hot you are, I'm not going crawling back to you, and even if you crawl back to me, I'm not a forgiving type! :grrrrrr:

Anyway, I also didn't mind losing Mariane, because I still had Laurie at the time, and she was as hot, if not hotter. Things were going well with Laurie, until one day, her boyfriend found out about us! Well, he already had known about us, but he didn't realize how far we went with each other, as Laurie never gave the full details to him. He thought it was just massage with a tug in the end! :LMAO: Well, that was the end of the road with Laurie.

So I was just down to BBW Sabrina. I hadn't seen Sabrina in months, and I'm sure she realized that I was her fallback, so she also became coldish. My fault in that case. So I hooked back up with two older girls that I'd known from before, ebony Angie (Mariane's colleague from Studio 2000 days), and cougar Lilly from Studio Illona. So they both stepped upto the plate and began offering me very discounted FS services to me, with prices from the good old days.

Ebony Angie is the girl that I just had the trip down to the Greek islands with. So she did Greek with me for the same flat fee that she is doing FS or BBBJ with me. I like the concept of flat fees, as I don't believe that these girls should be charging more for the extra fun that they're receiving from us. I knew Angie from when she was very young, when she was just out of high school, barely legal, and working at Studio 2000. She eventually got married, and has had two kids, so she's not quite as hot as she used to be, but still good enough.

Cougar Lilly is also much older than she used to be when I first met her. But she's giving me FS for $100, which is the cheapest bargain I have nowadays.