I don't, because when I have in the past, I've screamed my head off, scrambled to the other side of the bed, cried while moaning. I take full responsibility. The amount of time for proper prep frustrates me and halfway I have given both boyfriends I tried anal with to go ahead and.... I know a part of me needs it once in a blue moon but I will only ever consider it with a bf or a close friend who knows my body and mind well. Most men feel horrible when their partner is making enough noise to give the impression they're being broken in half.
I agree... IT FUCKING HURTS!! And until and unless I am with a "Significant OTHER" who wants to be gentle, and slow and careful with the experience.... then the back door is OFF limits!!! Particularly to clients! Besides, after 3 kids, pregnancy and persistent hemorrhoids... please leave that area alone! Thanks....