I am posting this in the Lobby because by no means is this meant to be a review. This was a research and discovery mission conducted by myself with the approval and support of a very understanding wife. I could not express the gratitude I have for my lovely wife Ida, I’m truly blessed.
We've been in deep discussion over the last several weeks. When I initially proposed my idea my wife quickly shut me down. Through communication, revealing to her the scope of my intentions Ida finally capitulated and allowed me to go through with my plan in an attempt to understand the lure of pay for play. I believe much of this community’s displeasure in my posts arise from being looked upon as an outsider. I also wanted to understand on a personal level why so many are bitten by this bug and are seemingly addicted to the euphoria achieved from being with many different sexual partners.
There is a spa near our home and this is where my quest for knowledge begins.. I won’t mention the spa or the attendant but I expressed to Ida that I would like to enter the spa, choose an attended and proceed to a room where I would receive a massage only. No nudity, no touching of sexual parts but strictly a back massage for 30 minutes and an opportunity to discuss the “hobby” with a lady on a personal level. I was also very curious to see if I myself had the will power and self control to resist any advances. I have always been confident I do but to be actually put to the test in the field is an entirely different proposition.
Upon entering the establishment I was approached by a young lady. I was then introduced to several attractive young women. I chose one that seemed very friendly and I was escorted to the room, handed a towel and instructed to shower. I was asked for $40 and left to freshen up. I did not shower because I had done prior to arriving. I disrobed into my briefs only, laid face down on the bed and placed the towel on myself only exposing my back as this is what I had promised my lovely wife I would do.
I waited approximately 10 minutes for the arrival of the attendant. She walked in carrying some towels. Placed the towels down and commenced massaging my back with gentle light strokes, not really the type of massage I’m used to receiving from a professional. She asked me what type of session I was looking for and it was evident she was taken aback when I stated only a massage on my back and to please keep all her clothing on. I quickly saw her demeanor changing and so I began by asking why she appeared to be upset. She expressed her dismay at not being compensated for the type of session I chose. I was surprised to learn that the attendant does not receive any money from the door fee. I reassured her I would happily give her $50 for some good conversation and a decent back massage. This quickly cheered her up she continued to caress my back. She attempted on several occasions to seduce me by slipping her hand into the towel and offering me to touch her body which on all occasions I refused and restated my service requirements.
I learned she is doing what she does by choice and enjoys the extra money as opposed to working for minimum wage. Her words not mine. I also realized why so many of you are drawn to this mode of self gratification. It’s simple provided one has several hundred dollars in their pocket. I see how one can lose their self control especially if they do not have a significant other or live in a marriage where the love has diminished.
The young lady was warm hearted, well spoken and I’m sure once she completes her education she will land a much more satisfying career. She did promise me that was her goal and this was a temporary career choice, this claim warmed my heart. She also disclosed to me the differences in many of the clients are night and day. Some gentlemen are understanding and generous while others are demanding and very cheap, again her words not mine.
Perhaps now when I make suggestions it will come from a point of little more understanding on my part.
We've been in deep discussion over the last several weeks. When I initially proposed my idea my wife quickly shut me down. Through communication, revealing to her the scope of my intentions Ida finally capitulated and allowed me to go through with my plan in an attempt to understand the lure of pay for play. I believe much of this community’s displeasure in my posts arise from being looked upon as an outsider. I also wanted to understand on a personal level why so many are bitten by this bug and are seemingly addicted to the euphoria achieved from being with many different sexual partners.
There is a spa near our home and this is where my quest for knowledge begins.. I won’t mention the spa or the attendant but I expressed to Ida that I would like to enter the spa, choose an attended and proceed to a room where I would receive a massage only. No nudity, no touching of sexual parts but strictly a back massage for 30 minutes and an opportunity to discuss the “hobby” with a lady on a personal level. I was also very curious to see if I myself had the will power and self control to resist any advances. I have always been confident I do but to be actually put to the test in the field is an entirely different proposition.
Upon entering the establishment I was approached by a young lady. I was then introduced to several attractive young women. I chose one that seemed very friendly and I was escorted to the room, handed a towel and instructed to shower. I was asked for $40 and left to freshen up. I did not shower because I had done prior to arriving. I disrobed into my briefs only, laid face down on the bed and placed the towel on myself only exposing my back as this is what I had promised my lovely wife I would do.
I waited approximately 10 minutes for the arrival of the attendant. She walked in carrying some towels. Placed the towels down and commenced massaging my back with gentle light strokes, not really the type of massage I’m used to receiving from a professional. She asked me what type of session I was looking for and it was evident she was taken aback when I stated only a massage on my back and to please keep all her clothing on. I quickly saw her demeanor changing and so I began by asking why she appeared to be upset. She expressed her dismay at not being compensated for the type of session I chose. I was surprised to learn that the attendant does not receive any money from the door fee. I reassured her I would happily give her $50 for some good conversation and a decent back massage. This quickly cheered her up she continued to caress my back. She attempted on several occasions to seduce me by slipping her hand into the towel and offering me to touch her body which on all occasions I refused and restated my service requirements.
I learned she is doing what she does by choice and enjoys the extra money as opposed to working for minimum wage. Her words not mine. I also realized why so many of you are drawn to this mode of self gratification. It’s simple provided one has several hundred dollars in their pocket. I see how one can lose their self control especially if they do not have a significant other or live in a marriage where the love has diminished.
The young lady was warm hearted, well spoken and I’m sure once she completes her education she will land a much more satisfying career. She did promise me that was her goal and this was a temporary career choice, this claim warmed my heart. She also disclosed to me the differences in many of the clients are night and day. Some gentlemen are understanding and generous while others are demanding and very cheap, again her words not mine.
Perhaps now when I make suggestions it will come from a point of little more understanding on my part.
