Can men and women be just friends?.

[RAWD]

Female friends are great. I just find them so much easier to talk to, and give useful advice.

But yeah, the hot ones I just want to fuck the shit out of.....

 

[Ang]

Dude just because she is a friend doesn't mean you can't rate her,lol.

You a true white knight and you did pussy out.

My guess is that your wife is better looking.

White knight to the rescue!!!....LOL:biggrin:

In my books my wife is pretty close to perfect in every aspect, heart, soul, personality, looks & body.....so I think I'll keep her for a while:heart:......just last night I went to the greek islands:clapping:

 

[IFUSEEKAMY]

I said this before to someone on here and he thought I was being funny but I'm dead serious...I don't believe in having friends male or female that I can't have sex with even if it's just once in a blue moon. I think it's crucial in my case to having a healthy relationship with each other...to shed all those inhibitions from time to time. I'm always gonna be a person with a lot of flaws and frailties. If my friends can't help me heal once in a while so I can be the person they need me to be the rest of the time, they're not really friends.

 

[RAWD]

If there were more girls like you, Amy, we could all be friends

 

[Smooth]

I 've had friends that have turned out to be friends with benefits if there was an attraction of course. My answer is no with an attraction and yes if there is no attraction.


Amy can you please be my friend!

 

[IFUSEEKAMY]

Haha you guys are cute

 

[Auggie]

I'm just friends with one attractive woman, two average and two who are less than average.
I would look like an idiot to everyone if I made sexual advances to any of them.

 

[Guido]

Some of them , yes I would. The other one, not a chance in hell would I turn her down. She is a 12/10 in every aspect.:heart::heart:

Can you please send the 12/10 to me then, thank you!

Not a chance in hell

You're an honest man MB!

I'm just friends with one attractive woman, two average and two who are less than average.
I would look like an idiot to everyone if I made sexual advances to any of them.

... but given the chance would you bang them silly?

 

[Auggie]

No, I'd look like an idiot to people I know.

 

[tboy]

No, I'd look like an idiot to people I know.

TOO LATE!!!! lol

(just kidding, you know I couldn't just let that hang out there and not swat it outta the park lol)

 

[Blank_Dave]

I said this before to someone on here and he thought I was being funny but I'm dead serious...I don't believe in having friends male or female that I can't have sex with even if it's just once in a blue moon. I think it's crucial in my case to having a healthy relationship with each other...to shed all those inhibitions from time to time. I'm always gonna be a person with a lot of flaws and frailties. If my friends can't help me heal once in a while so I can be the person they need me to be the rest of the time, they're not really friends.

I know you have said similar to me. Myself, I'm pretty much the polar opposite of you, in that I cannot make that kind of 'investment' in intimacy with others. Hell, I can't do that with myself. (And that's not a masturbation reference either) I can be a friend as well, in my broken and flawed way, but I doubt like that.

 

[Cycleguy007]

Can men and women be just friends?.

Yes, they can, but if the woman is hot, and is found attractive by that man, he will secretly wanna do her regardless.

I have a friend of the opposite sex and we chat every day and we do lunch......and I've never made a move :anangel:

Hhhhmmmm, I can't really rate her becasue she is a friend, but ask Cycleguy he knows her too!!

And this particular case is no exception... :blush:

 

[Auggie]

I said this before to someone on here and he thought I was being funny but I'm dead serious...I don't believe in having friends male or female that I can't have sex with even if it's just once in a blue moon. I think it's crucial in my case to having a healthy relationship with each other...to shed all those inhibitions from time to time. I'm always gonna be a person with a lot of flaws and frailties. If my friends can't help me heal once in a while so I can be the person they need me to be the rest of the time, they're not really friends.

I've never met anyone like this but it sounds fine if it works for you.
If a friend gets jealous, do you work at soothing their feelings or is it left to them to become more mature? Maybe a bit of both?
Do you have friends who might be attracted to you but they're already in a more monogamous relationship? Or would you tend to not include them in your circle because of this?
It seems to be a fuller life to have a variety, some where sex isn't involved at all, but maybe that's just my own upbringing.

 

[Madman]

I do have many female friends especially through work. We all go out to lunch or a few drinks together but that's where it ends. I've always had a rule of not engaging in sexual activities at work or with co-workers. I know it can be fun but it can also put you on the unemployment line very quickly.

 

[a 1 player]

I've always had a rule of not engaging in sexual activities at work or with co-workers. I know it can be fun but it can also put you on the unemployment line very quickly.

Excellent advice.

 

[Ang]

Yes, they can, but if the woman is hot, and is found attractive by that man, he will secretly wanna do her regardless.





And this particular case is no exception... :blush:

So who is she, do tell :bs:

 

[IFUSEEKAMY]

Bump

 

[Cardinal Fang]

I said this before to someone on here and he thought I was being funny but I'm dead serious...I don't believe in having friends male or female that I can't have sex with even if it's just once in a blue moon. I think it's crucial in my case to having a healthy relationship with each other...to shed all those inhibitions from time to time. I'm always gonna be a person with a lot of flaws and frailties. If my friends can't help me heal once in a while so I can be the person they need me to be the rest of the time, they're not really friends.

Amy you're a far bigger person than I am and I'd like to agree with you but I think you're the exception rather than the rule. :wink2:

I have four female friends in my life currently. Three of them I deal with daily and those three I would never consider having sex with because I'm not sexually attracted to. The fourth friend is different. I am and have been sexually attracted to her for quite some time. She and I have flirted but nothing more than that. I would definitely kick her out of bed to fark her on the floor silly but it's never going to happen. She and I deal with things more intensely than I would with the other three and that's the benefit that goes with it. But I can't it lasting if sex were involved no matter how much I pray for it.

And believe me I've broken quite a few rosaries praying over it. :biggrin2:

 

[Cardinal Fang]

Bump

Furthermore, I would like to formally submit my application to be your friend complete with all the benefits and privileges you mentioned. Feel free to text and email me if you have an "itch" you want scratched. And by that I mean it literally. I have this amazing back scratching device that would give you an orgasm if used properly.

References available upon request

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[RAWD]

She and I deal with things more intensely than I would with the other three and that's the benefit that goes with it. But I can't it lasting if sex were involved no matter how much I pray for it.

That is so true. I have a ladyfriend with whom I can talk to about anything. It probably helps that it's largely a "virtual" relationship based largely on messaging. Sometimes talking face to face can be too intense.

I'm not sure that sex by itself is the problem. I think it's the emotions that go along with intimacy that complicate. Once you become emotionally vested in someone, you lose objectivity.