Having been married for 18 years, bangin the wife was never a chore (except towards the end... and then only to blow a load... :Thatwas-bad

. For the most part it was intimacy on a level not available from pro's (although I've cum close a few times with a couple special ladies). :blush2:
Having been single again for a few years now, I can relate better to the civvies vs pro's scenario more accurately, since "that" level of intimacy is not there with either. Pro's "act" intimate, civvie girlfriends can "be" intimate, and often times pro's are better actors than civvies in R-L, so its difficult to separate.
Having said all this, and with due all respect to the OP for his original question... it is near impossible to compare one to the other. Bangin pro's while hot and a helluva lotta fun, is ultimately "just sex", ie no "real" intimacy involved. Bangin civvies has an element of real intimacy involved, and real emotion trumps fake emotion every time.
Being a middle aged man (48), I've been fortunate enough to have "banged" some incredibly hot women in my time, both civilian and pro, (since being single again, ages range from 21 to 53!) some of which are a matter of public record on this and other forums, but civilian sex is almost always better. Only twice in all my years has an encounter with an SP, ever cum close to sex with my XW and 2 XGF's.
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