Compensated Restaurant Time

[Thomas Crown]

Jessie just so you know you can treat me to dinner any time and I wont charge you a dime :biggrin2:

 

[JessieJames]

Or, you could look at it from her side. She's a working girl and gets paid for providing companionship. You don't want to pay for her time.
you want a girlfriend to go out for dinner with. Get a girlfriend. Leave the working girl to work for her money.
i do paid dinner dates. Some girls will reduce the rate for paid outside time. Some would want full rate for ALL time no matter what the event.
yes, I've had some ladies go out to eat 'for free' after a session, but then later I heard from her that I owed her because of 'all that free time'.
i don't expect any freebies, would never expect it, I thought I was being a nice guy offering to feed her, on my time, but a working girl will never see it that way.

The difference is she asked me and at least 50% of the time she would ask me if she could tag along. The movie nights were her idea and I always just paid. You don't invite yourself and then expect comp time. After the initial request then I once and a while I would ask and state if you're bored and nothing better to do would you like to ....... of course I didn't expect to be charged for social time when she actually enjoyed coming out.

I did receive a text apologizing and requesting we go back to the way things were but I've got a sour taste in my mouth so I'm going to ignore the text and move on as planned.

 

[IFUSEEKAMY]

Since you're still in contact with her, why don't you ask her about the reasons?

 

[Madman]

Since you're still in contact with her, why don't you ask her about the reasons?

I believe Jessie is hurt and going forward it will not be the same, he is better off to let it go and move on.

 

[IFUSEEKAMY]

I believe Jessie is hurt and going forward it will not be the same, he is better off to let it go and move on.

Oh I absolutely agree! But he did start this thread baffled and she is the only person who can give him clear answers that may help.

 

[JessieJames]

Oh I absolutely agree! But he did start this thread baffled and she is the only person who can give him clear answers that may help.

The problem is I've lost faith in her and any answer I hear I won't know if it's the truth or not so it's best we move on. I know the only reason I'm getting contacted is the realization of losing a substantial part of her monthly income. If she had just said, sorry I'm too busy I would have booked her as usual but showing me I'm an ATM killed the goose and I don't care why she did it.

 

[peace]

The problem is I've lost faith in her and any answer I hear I won't know if it's the truth or not so it's best we move on. I know the only reason I'm getting contacted is the realization of losing a substantial part of her monthly income. If she had just said, sorry I'm too busy I would have booked her as usual but showing me I'm an ATM killed the goose and I don't care why she did it.

I need a loan. Help out? Hmmmmmm



Ps. Madman would be willing to hug you.