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Do you judhe people how they dress, where they live and what they drive.

Pullmyfinger

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A good conversation last night over this topic. Most of my friends said yes they do and also looks and how tall you are comes into the equation. Are we all that blind?.
 
No but I also read that taller people are more successful than short ones. Stereotyping here to stay so don't lie to yourself.
 
judge maybe too harsh of a word...I would say form an initial impression but can easily be changed once you get a chance to know the person.
 
I always try not to judge anyone until I have the entire story.

SOME members excluded here. Let it be known I judged you and passed sentence!:na:
 
Anyone who says they don't is lying. It's not just human nature, it's how we get through life. It's about first impressions, situational awareness, forming expectations, etc.

I've been dressing more casually this year. (OK, on the weaken, I look like a slob.). It's a bit of a kick going to retail stores and seeing what reaction I get. I went to the Apple store yesterday. I let my kid play with the iPad while I waited for a blue shirt. I stood for a good 15 minutes while at least 5 blues walked by to greet other customers at the entrance.
 
Yes we all do, judgement is part of our faculty as a subconscious precondition of reason.
 
Anyone who says they don't is lying. It's not just human nature, it's how we get through life. It's about first impressions, situational awareness, forming expectations, etc.

I've been dressing more casually this year. (OK, on the weaken, I look like a slob.). It's a bit of a kick going to retail stores and seeing what reaction I get. I went to the Apple store yesterday. I let my kid play with the iPad while I waited for a blue shirt. I stood for a good 15 minutes while at least 5 blues walked by to greet other customers at the entrance.

Same thing happens to me RAWD. I 'dress down' when out in public and am often shocked by how poorly I'm treated while shopping.
 
Honestly I see this happen around me often.

That said... If you walk in like you own the world in jeans, a sweat shirt, and sneakers. They will still fall all over you. They assume you must be loaded to walk in like that and think you're the big turd in the toilet bowl of life.
 
Subconsciously we all make judgments even when we don't want to. Simple experiment: walk into a Mercedes or BMW deal in sweats and torn shirt. Then go in wearing a suit a week later. See what kind of different attitude and reception you get.
 
Honestly I see this happen around me often.

That said... If you walk in like you own the world in jeans, a sweat shirt, and sneakers. They will still fall all over you. They assume you must be loaded to walk in like that and think you're the big turd in the toilet bowl of life.

So, what you're saying is, I need to kick up my swag?
 
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