Do your friend change when they get a girlfriend or wife?

[Candyman]

Nothing pisses me off more than this. A guy I used to hang out with back in school a year ago was cool. He had a place within walking distance to all the fun places. We'd pregame at his place, have some people over and haul ass to the bars and back when they closed.

Then he started dating this fat girl who went to school and lived 5 hours away back in his hometown. Every other weekend he would drive or take the train all that distance to hang out with the beast for a few days then come back for classes. On the weekends he would be here we'd pregame at his place then he'd be like "I'm tired man, gotta work in the morning (Saturday!) I don't think I'm going out". THEN it turned into him going to see her EVERY weekend.

Good god the things people do is insane whenever some girl comes into their life!!

 

[FUKUMAN]

Someone stole your boyfriend :rofl1:

 

[Fullthrottle]

and she's fat too, not good. If he's your friend, grab him and shake him up man. Don't let him get lost in the folds of fat lands, be a pal man!

 

[Auggie]

You can win him back, Candyman! Tell him how much you care. :heart:

 

[UncleBob]

You can win him back, Candyman! Tell him how much you care. :heart:

Pussy always wins at the end.

 

[tboy]

Pussy always wins at the end.

true dat.....this is a prime example of what I stated in Bliss's thread about guys are lead by their dick and quest for pussy....I can't tell you HOW many friends live by the motto "hos before bros"........

Candyman: you have two choices:

1) be happy for him and when the bitch dumps him, be there for him.
2) Tell him directly you're not happy about how he simply dropped you (as a friend) because he's suddenly got this chick in his life.

If he's like most of my guy friends who forgot I existed once they found a chick, he'll resent you "not being happy for him...." problem is, guys like him are to dense to see what they're doing.....there is no reason a guy can't get a girlfriend AND keep in touch with his buddies. I always did and where possible, combined both worlds......

 

[Bellboy]

lMAO

 

[HOF]

Nothing pisses me off more than this. A guy I used to hang out with back in school a year ago was cool. He had a place within walking distance to all the fun places. We'd pregame at his place, have some people over and haul ass to the bars and back when they closed.

Then he started dating this fat girl who went to school and lived 5 hours away back in his hometown. Every other weekend he would drive or take the train all that distance to hang out with the beast for a few days then come back for classes. On the weekends he would be here we'd pregame at his place then he'd be like "I'm tired man, gotta work in the morning (Saturday!) I don't think I'm going out". THEN it turned into him going to see her EVERY weekend.

Good god the things people do is insane whenever some girl comes into their life!!

Candychild, your ex-friend is getting sex from this girl that's alot more than you do from your history. You wouldn't put out all those weekends you spent partying at his place, so he went back home for a sure thing. You would pregame or freeload at his place. Here's some 411 for you, people do have to work and
some on Saturdays.

You place too much emphasis on the girl's appearance and size. What is fat to you may not be to your ex-friend. Maybe you should go to his hometown and have his friend introduce you to a nice woman.

You're hurt and jealous of your ex-friend's success with the ladies.:rofl1:

 

[HOF]

true dat.....this is a prime example of what I stated in Bliss's thread about guys are lead by their dick and quest for pussy....I can't tell you HOW many friends live by the motto "hos before bros"........

Candyman: you have two choices:

1) be happy for him and when the bitch dumps him, be there for him.
2) Tell him directly you're not happy about how he simply dropped you (as a friend) because he's suddenly got this chick in his life.

If he's like most of my guy friends who forgot I existed once they found a chick, he'll resent you "not being happy for him...." problem is, guys like him are to dense to see what they're doing.....there is no reason a guy can't get a girlfriend AND keep in touch with his buddies. I always did and where possible, combined both worlds......

This explains a great deal of why you are so miserable. Your guy friends dropped you like a hot potato for a woman, and there is always an ex before the word girlfriend in your stories. Beck wrote a song about you.

Candyman is more like New Edition's song titled Candygirl.

You two could share a box of kleenex.:wacko:

 

[HOF]

You can win him back, Candyman! Tell him how much you care. :heart:

His ex-friend will tell him, "It's not you; it's me!"

 

[Swagger]

there is no reason a guy can't get a girlfriend AND keep in touch with his buddies. I always did and where possible, combined both worlds......

You live in the wrong world TB. Once the pussy smells good your friend become secondary.

 

[tboy]

This explains a great deal of why you are so miserable. Your guy friends dropped you like a hot potato for a woman, and there is always an ex before the word girlfriend in your stories. Beck wrote a song about you.

Candyman is more like New Edition's song titled Candygirl.

You two could share a box of kleenex.:wacko:

See, you bring this up quite often, the ex gf part, so if I'm so bad and you're so good, how many ex gfs do YOU have and or are you married now? If not? STFU.......everyone on this site including you has ex gfs, ex wives, ex husbands, so climb off your high horse, you are no different than the rest of us, other than the fact you like taking a strap on up the arse that is......

 

[SillyGirl]

This is an interesting thread...I didn't know guys do this to their friends too, I thought it was a Girl thing.:dontknow:

 

[a 1 player]

Oh (some) guys do it alright. I expect my friends to set aside a certain amount of time for a woman, but like everything else there should be a balance.

 

[-b]

Time to grow up Dear........your friendships don't always last forever......GF/BF always win out.
Find yourself a GF/BF :anangel:

 

[RAWD]

Time to grow up Dear........your friendships don't always last forever......GF/BF always win out.
Find yourself a GF/BF :anangel:

Yup. People do what they want to do. Their actions reflect their values. It sucks to realize you weren't on the same page, but that's just life. Accept it and you'll be happier.

 

[Dan]

I've lost a few good friends to GF that eventually became SO's. As Rawd said, nothing much to do but accept it.

 

[tboy]

I've lost a few good friends to GF that eventually became SO's. As Rawd said, nothing much to do but accept it.

The thing that kills me is when the relationship turns to shit (like most do) all of a sudden they remember your phone number.....I had a couple of good buddies who did that and when they called they were amazed when I said "so you guys broke up"??? How'd you know that? Umm you called? DUH....lol...

 

[Kylie Daniels]

I thought it was more a female thing too. I've had several girlfriends over the years put the friendship completely aside as soon as a new guy comes along. I just make it very clear that if that's how you do things, do not call me crying every time there's a fight or when you break up, and expect me to play therapist or listen to you mope and whine.

 

[TINY]

I thought it was more a female thing too. I've had several girlfriends over the years put the friendship completely aside as soon as a new guy comes along. I just make it very clear that if that's how you do things, do not call me crying every time there's a fight or when you break up, and expect me to play therapist or listen to you mope and whine.

It's a man thing when one is young but once you hit a certain age you say fuck it who cares.