For the men that hobby - change your phone passwords or use a hobby phone

[Maurice Boscorelli]

As for the provider receiving a call from the SO of a client.

Professionalism must come first.

Believe me there is no sisterhood between the provider and the SO.

The provider is engaging in adulterous act with her husband/boyfriend and will be viewed as such by the SO.

So throw the ''human empathy'' scenario out the window.

Deflect, mislead and deny.......

 

[cristycurves]

As for the provider receiving a call from the SO of a client.

Professionalism must come first.

Believe me there is no sisterhood between the provider and the SO.

The provider is engaging in adulterous act with her husband/boyfriend and will be viewed as such by the SO.

So throw the ''human empathy'' scenario out the window.

Deflect, mislead and deny.......

But you can't, because you don't know the situation.....until it arises. To predict how anyone will react to an event that hasn't occurred is silly.....and presumptuous, but then again, lying is easier for some than it is for others.

 

[Maurice Boscorelli]

But you can't, because you don't know the situation.....until it arises. To predict how anyone will react to an event that hasn't occurred is silly.....and presumptuous, but then again, lying is easier for some than it is for others.

Cristy both the hobbyiest and the provider has to prepare for this possibility ahead of time. Not so much together but individually as well. There is a lot at stake so all the bases should be covered.

And lying in this case is not a bad thing.

Think about it, you are giving his SO reasonable doubt. Which she will welcome. As she will want to believe the best possible case scenario rather than the worst. And you are protecting your client as well. which help your future earnings with him.

 

[demien3k5]

Lol, no I'm not, sorry, should have quoted..... I thought most knew who I think is the asshole.

...yes, and I think most know who I think is the miserable cunt.

 

[demien3k5]

Lol..... and you are the reason many escorts are thankful review boards exists, they help us, the escorts, weed out the assholes from the gentlemen. You need to stop worrying about and following all my posts, your obsession with me is getting tiring, old and very boring. Move on little man .

What does this ^^^ have to do with what I posted? As usual, if someone doesn't agree 100% with what you've posted, and kiss your ass like a pandering fool for the privilege, you fall back to slinging personal insults.

When are you going to get it through your thick head that the forum is open to EVERYONE. EVERYONE is allowed to comment on other posts, and share an opinion. You do not get to arbitrarily decide who can post in your threads, or who can address/post an opinion/respond to something you post, and when they do, just because they disagree with your opinions it doesn't automatically make them an asshole or a troll.

I'm a troll because I don't always agree with you.
Prim0 is a troll because he doesn't always agree with you.
Papa is a troll because he doesn't always agree with you.
TRZ is a troll because he doesn't always agree with you.
Canada-Man is a troll because he doesn't always agree with you.
Thomas C. is a troll because he doesn't always agree with you.

Everyone is a fucking troll but you. The biggest offender on this board. It's getting pretty tired...and it's the same story every time...someone posts a counter to something you posted and rather than just address the post content, or simply ignore it, you fall back to personal insults followed by

Pathetic.

 

[Jessica Rain]

Who said anything about not being a human being to the woman crying? There is nothing wrong with being polite and directing her to actual people who can help her. There is no reason to have a gab-fest and make suggestions of how to spice of the relationship. I am sorry, but reality is I am not able to help no matter what I say to her. Why? Because I am or did or would have fucked her husband! So I am in no position to be wiping her tears. Period.

I would also cut off said client because it is very true that he should have protected me as much as I do for him. He is responsible for keeping me out of his drama and bullshit at home and if the wife is contacting me, then clearly he didn't do his part of the job so I would let him go.

Both parties would get a polite and professional "Good-bye and Good Luck" from me with no other conversation to either.

 

[Jessica Rain]

@Jessica Rain I really do not care what you and the private escort boards are discussing about me with everything that has happened in the last couple of days. I just can't

Just to be clear - we were not discussing you. I don't work that way. I posed a question in general about how others handle being contacted by the wife. We all go through it at some point in our careers and I wanted to make sure that I was not alone in my thinking. Had I have been, I would have been apologizing to you for what would have appeared to have been a harsh difference of opinion. Since I am not alone in my thinking, I feel I was ok in questioning why you would behave the way you did as it goes against the grain.

If I could ask some escorts why they flake out all the time, or why they give mechanic services, or why they use fake pics, I would as that goes against the grain as well. In the opinion of most companions. It makes me curious and as I said in my first post to you. I was curious as to your reasons, even if I disagree with them.

Thank you for answering.

 

[cristycurves]

What does this ^^^ have to do with what I posted? As usual, if someone doesn't agree 100% with what you've posted, and kiss your ass like a pandering fool for the privilege, you fall back to slinging personal insults.

When are you going to get it through your thick head that the forum is open to EVERYONE. EVERYONE is allowed to comment on other posts, and share an opinion. You do not get to arbitrarily decide who can post in your threads, or who can address/post an opinion/respond to something you post, and when they do, just because they disagree with your opinions it doesn't automatically make them an asshole or a troll.

I'm a troll because I don't always agree with you.
Prim0 is a troll because he doesn't always agree with you.
Papa is a troll because he doesn't always agree with you.
TRZ is a troll because he doesn't always agree with you.
Canada-Man is a troll because he doesn't always agree with you.
Thomas C. is a troll because he doesn't always agree with you.

Everyone is a fucking troll but you. The biggest offender on this board. It's getting pretty tired...and it's the same story every time...someone posts a counter to something you posted and rather than just address the post content, or simply ignore it, you fall back to personal insults followed by

Pathetic.

:SayWhat?::LMAO: Talk about the pot calling the kettle black........:LMAO: get over yourself Demien, you're a narcissistic needy goof and remember you can cut the head off of someone but that won't make you taller and Demien you are a troll because you act like a troll.

Who said anything about not being a human being to the woman crying? There is nothing wrong with being polite and directing her to actual people who can help her. There is no reason to have a gab-fest and make suggestions of how to spice of the relationship. I am sorry, but reality is I am not able to help no matter what I say to her. Why? Because I am or did or would have fucked her husband! So I am in no position to be wiping her tears. Period.

I would also cut off said client because it is very true that he should have protected me as much as I do for him. He is responsible for keeping me out of his drama and bullshit at home and if the wife is contacting me, then clearly he didn't do his part of the job so I would let him go.

Both parties would get a polite and professional "Good-bye and Good Luck" from me with no other conversation to either.
@jessica.....I dunno Jessica, who said.......... I can reiterate what I said, and that was that I'm a human being first and an escort secondly, so if you found that insulting to you, sorry, if you took that to mean you weren't human, then that is you twisting my comment into something else and into something it is not meaning. And you are right there is nothing wrong with directing her to someone else qualified to handle her issue, no one said or implied any different What you do is your business, how you handle your business too is up to you....and if I might point out if you were to redirect her, that sort of would involve having a gab fest, as you call it, as you'd have to understand her issue, why she was calling, what type of person would be best suited to help her, etc, etc, to know those things a conversation/gab fest, would have to take place. And I'm glad to see that you've added that some of the onus is on the client.

 

[nntsci]

Can't we all just get along?

"Life is very short, and there's no time
For fussing and fighting, my friend"

 

[JustRiley]

The grain is for growing rice.

Making sure my hair cut is lined up properly and my Brazilian wax looks beautiful.

 

[Jessica Rain]

The grain is for growing rice.

Making sure my hair cut is lined up properly and my Brazilian wax looks beautiful.

LMAO! Wow - ok. So Ya, I get it now. I couldn't figure out why you were so mad at my comments, but I guess I would be too when my "getting back into the business so need to post a bunch of threads" backfires in my face. You went for "look at me I am helping" to "Look at me, I am so nice I help the crying wife" to "Oh well, fuck you all - l gotta make sure my hair and nails are did!"

I shouldn't be surprised, you're the "are you fucked?" chick after all, right? :rofl!:

 

[Maurice Boscorelli]

I shouldn't be surprised, you're the "are you fucked?" chick after all, right? :rofl!:

Look at the memory on you............LOl.

 

[Demonhunter]

This is exactly the reason clients need to be very VERY careful about who they decide see and trust.

In this industry, discretion is THE cardinal rule. There is no wiggle room whatsoever; virtually every hobbyist and SP knows this from Day 1, and it goes both ways.

If a client (male or female) or SP cannot expect 100% absolute discretion at all times, they shouldn't ever trust that provider/client.

For most who engage the industry, there is simply far too much at stake to risk.

I agree that discretion is paramount but when you make statements / threats towards an escort such as this one

[/COLOR] kind of interesting things begin show up online.Guide yourself accordingly.

Your concerns regarding discretion and professionalism become mute. You don’t get a pass because you feel slighted. Either you”re professional and discrete or you’re not . Clearly you’re neither.