For The Women

[Ang]

Isn't that what we do here, why we search for reviews and see who we can see next?.

Guess she forgot how much she was hurt :sad:

I always vowed NEVER to screw around on my wife....my Father had an affair when I was young, and I know what we all went through....................... NUF SAID........LEAVE HIM ALONE BLISS!!

 

[Ms.FemmeFatale]

I think you might be jumping to conclusions about many of the members here. Not all obviously but quite possibly more than you think. Plus the concept of someone else doing something wrong making it right or ok for you was always a bit confusing for me.

Ummm .... Did you miss this part?

I just wanted to see how long it would be before someone called it out like you have. Not at as long as I thought.​

And I think there are more attached men on this board looking for sex outside their current relationship, then single men or men who have open relationships. You are more then welcome to correct me with stats if you like.

It was just really nice to see the men change the opinion when it is a woman doing the dirty.

 

[Dan]

When a partner decides to cheat and many do regardless of it being female or male, they will find someone to cheat with. I agree if you are going to cheat with a married person do it once and as Melanie mentioned get out before feeling get in the mix.

 

[LickingGravity]

Ummm .... Did you miss this part?

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And I think there are more attached men on this board looking for sex outside their current relationship, then single men or men who have open relationships. You are more then welcome to correct me with stats if you like.

You could very well be right, but the point I was trying to make was that it may not be as many as you think. Its an expression that I'm sure you have heard before. Since only you know what you were really thinking that's going to tough prove for those that insist on a literal intepretation of eveything. If I were a lawyer I would ask Your Honour for permission to "Rephrase" and say " There are many members , your honour, who are single and some who are married but do not even see sp's or MPA's. Quite possible all who have ventured opinions in this thread may fall into that category" :biggrin:

It was just really nice to see a men change the opinion when it is a woman doing the dirty.

I'm a firm believer in what is good for the goose being good for the gander but I think that was part of this whole discussion. Here you have a woman who went through a situation of being cheated on receiving sympathy and now considering doing it herself.

I would also like you to consider whether there is a difference between your average non-professional affair and visiting a sp or an mpa. In my opinion there both is and isn't. I mean, yes, you are still guilty as charged but you are usually innocent of seeking anything beyond the physical act. Something akin to the difference between involuntary manslaughter and first degree murder if you will.

On top of all that there is the very human practice of advice despensing using to philosophy " Do as I say and not as I do " because we all know that we are imperfect creatures. So seeing a sp and while simultaneously recommending that someone else not cheat in a non-professional scenerio when there are alternatives is quite a normal response. Not necessarily a sexist thing.

 

[Maurice Boscorelli]

That is why I am not stupid enough to have a husband.

I do love how if it was the reverse, guys would be all for bangin' the wife if she was willing to cheat.

How many men here are married and cheat?

But I am wrong for making the same type encouragement post?

I just wanted to see how long it would be before someone called it out like you have. Not at as long as I thought.

I got news for you. I have been married twice and didn't cheat on either one of them.

Now sometimes as Auggie stated there are extraneous circumstances such as illness or an arrangement that have to be considered.

But from my point of view if I make the commitment to marry someone and she expects me to be faithful then be darned I'm not going break my vows.

You see that's just called integrity plain and simple.

Saves a hell of a lot of money and stress in divorce court in the end as well. Plus the kids don't end up hating you.

And who knows the marriage just might even last, God forbid.

 

[tboy]

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But from my point of view if I make the commitment to marry someone and she expects me to be faithful then be darned I'm not going break my vows.

You see that's just called integrity plain and simple.

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Exactly......hence why I have never married. If I am going to say "until death do us part" I bloody well mean it!!!,

 

[tboy]

Think of his wife being deceived and cheated on, weren't you in that position?
There's plenty of fish in the sea.

No, she was having a 3way with a neighbour and her ex chose the neighbour over her....least that's what I recall.....I seem to remember she had a thing for the neighbour too and the neighbour chose her husband over her so she got the double whammy.....

 

[Maurice Boscorelli]

I guess you and Tboy can't be accused of trolling against Blissful now can you?

I don't think anyone can be considered to be trolling against her,lol. I mean how many bans had she had now? Come on you can do better than that logic can't you?

Why is it everything I say is trolling,.

Gee maybe because all you try to do is stir the pot...Duh. Or are you just as negative and selfish as your posts indicate? My guess is that you don't do a lot of business as your hatred for men must filter through in your act.

 

[Ms.FemmeFatale]

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You could very well be right, but the point I was trying to make was that it may not be as many as you think. Its an expression that I'm sure you have heard before. Since only you know what you were really thinking that's going to tough prove for those that insist on a literal intepretation of eveything. If I were a lawyer I would ask Your Honour for permission to "Rephrase" and say " There are many members , your honour, who are single and some who are married but do not even see sp's or MPA's. Quite possible all who have ventured opinions in this thread may fall into that category" :biggrin:



I'm a firm believer in what is good for the goose being good for the gander but I think that was part of this whole discussion. Here you have a woman who went through a situation of being cheated on receiving sympathy and now considering doing it herself.

I would also like you to consider whether there is a difference between your average non-professional affair and visiting a sp or an mpa. In my opinion there both is and isn't. I mean, yes, you are still guilty as charged but you are usually innocent of seeking anything beyond the physical act. Something akin to the difference between involuntary manslaughter and first degree murder if you will.

On top of all that there is the very human practice of advice despensing using to philosophy " Do as I say and not as I do " because we all know that we are imperfect creatures. So seeing a sp and while simultaneously recommending that someone else not cheat in a non-professional scenerio when there are alternatives is quite a normal response. Not necessarily a sexist thing.

Why should I rephase? I asked a question, didn't make a statement.

Another part you missed.

How many men here are married and cheat?​

I got news for you. I have been married twice and didn't cheat on either one of them.

Now sometimes as Auggie stated there are extraneous circumstances such as illness or an arrangement that have to be considered.

But from my point of view if I make the commitment to marry someone and she expects me to be faithful then be darned I'm not going break my vows.

You see that's just called integrity plain and simple.

Saves a hell of a lot of money and stress in divorce court in the end as well. Plus the kids don't end up hating you.

And who knows the marriage just might even last, God forbid.

I got news for you too. My father was cheated on and never cheated. My brother was cheated on and never cheated. I have been cheated on and never cheated. Doesn't mean I am still stupid enough to get married.

Just because you are the faithful one, or the one with integrity, doesn't mean the marriage is going to last at all. So again, I am not stupid enough to take on a husband. So in case is does go to shit, like 50% of them do - I am not stressed out in divorce court, losing money and hopefully the kids still don't end up hating me.

Well at least after their teen years. While they are teens, it doesn't matter - they always hate you.

 

[tboy]

I can't speak for bosco but if I understand his point, the marriage may NOT last forever but he (like me) is sure as hell not going to break his committment.

I recall one time during a messy breakup with a GF and as always, her family got involved. Her sister said to me "you're stalking her" I said "umm no, we both promised when we started getting serious that (and our exact words were) "I'll never leave you"......and then her sister said "what the fuck are you doing here, she was doing fine without her, why are you bothering her..." Then the GF said "umm I called him and asked him to come over ".... lol.....

(her family was THE biggest issue we had)

 

[Ms.FemmeFatale]

I can't speak for bosco but if I understand his point, the marriage may NOT last forever but he (like me) is sure as hell not going to break his committment.

I recall one time during a messy breakup with a GF and as always, her family got involved. Her sister said to me "you're stalking her" I said "umm no, we both promised when we started getting serious that (and our exact words were) "I'll never leave you"......and then her sister said "what the fuck are you doing here, she was doing fine without her, why are you bothering her..." Then the GF said "umm I called him and asked him to come over ".... lol.....

(her family was THE biggest issue we had)

So there is 3 of us in the world.

and since 2 is a crowd - I will bow out and you let boys have fun.




OH Wait, you won't suck dick unless things have changed. :toocool:


Jokes. Total jokes I swear.

 

[a 1 player]

I have never cheated while in a committed relationship. Ever.

 

[train]

Another part you missed.

Don't be coy. You were clearly evoking the "double standard " defense or deflection however you want to term it. There were a few comments on this thread and you jumped to the indefenseable conclusion that because the opinions came from men on an escort review board that they were all themselves cheaters and therefore were throwing the penalty flag and claiming a double standard.

You gloated with little or no justification.

You were called on this rather sexist practice of extrapolating the characteristics of hobbyists in general back to individuals . Yes men do that with women but in this instance you are every bit as guilty as they.

LG called you on it and you have been backtracking and splitting hairs ever since.

Unless you have specific knowledge that the people that advised against the prospective cheating were cheaters themselves you have no logical basis for cotinuing this particular aspect of this discussion. The faults of the general population are simply in no way relevant to this specific discussion Not that it is all that important to the original point of the thread which was to, in fact, solicit advice.

You are simply and effectively demonstrating that certain women have their on criteria for evoking not only gross generalizations but double standards.

If you have a different opinion on the advice and wish to provide your own to Bliss then by all means do so instead of highjacking the thread.

 

[tboy]

So there are 3 of us in the world.

....

fixed your post for you :spiteful:

 

[Melonballs2]

I was faithful to my wife until the day of her passing and I know beyond a shadow of a doubt she was faithful to me as well. It is something I'm very proud of and would do it all over. Blissful, let him go, you are far too sensitive to deal with the ensuing drama it will undoubtedly bring upon you.

 

[a 1 player]

...as your hatred for men must filter through in your act.

Few things are better than angry sex!

 

[Jesus Quintana]

Few things are better than angry sex!

If you're just angry at the other gender than I can't think of anything that could be worse.
If you are angry because she burned your dinner then that's different.

 

[Smooth]

Trust me. Leave the married ones alone!

 

[peace]

Hey Smooth,
DId you solve your issue with your wife's best friend?

 

[Ms.FemmeFatale]

Don't be coy. You were clearly evoking the "double standard " defense or deflection however you want to term it. There were a few comments on this thread and you jumped to the indefenseable conclusion that because the opinions came from men on an escort review board that they were all themselves cheaters and therefore were throwing the penalty flag and claiming a double standard.

You gloated with little or no justification.

You were called on this rather sexist practice of extrapolating the characteristics of hobbyists in general back to individuals . Yes men do that with women but in this instance you are every bit as guilty as they.

LG called you on it and you have been backtracking and splitting hairs ever since.

Unless you have specific knowledge that the people that advised against the prospective cheating were cheaters themselves you have no logical basis for cotinuing this particular aspect of this discussion. The faults of the general population are simply in no way relevant to this specific discussion Not that it is all that important to the original point of the thread which was to, in fact, solicit advice.

You are simply and effectively demonstrating that certain women have their on criteria for evoking not only gross generalizations but double standards.

If you have a different opinion on the advice and wish to provide your own to Bliss then by all means do so instead of highjacking the thread.

I wasn't invoking anything. I am point blank saying it and since some clearly missed that part as well I will slow it down a bit.

1) this opinion has nothing to do with the hobby - that is very important to understand.
2) and most importantly my main point, it is a widely known fact that it is okay for men to cheat but not for women in general society opinions.

So while in the company of men, most men....like pretty damn close to all will say it is okay. Even go as far as bringing in stats that it is biologically programmed in their DNA. While most and again pretty damn close to all, women on the other hand will say it is equally wrong for both sexes to cheat in any way, shape or form.

And I wish to point out - I am guilt of nothing. I am not a hobbyist, an escort, or a personal cheater in my real life.

The splitting of hairs, ya busted - that is just bored board fun.

My advice to Bliss is still the same. It seems to work for men so well, that maybe it is time for women to try it out. Maybe she will find herself along the way. Who knows. It is up to her, but she only has one life and she should live it for her.

Maybe if I really wanted to invoke the true generalization of hobbyist's as you think, I should have replied differently. So being on this type of board, now that I think about it. Let me try again.

This thread is useless without pics and contact info Bliss. Be sure to pass it on, and I will give him a test drive for you. How else would I be able to give my best and most informed advice unless I TOFTT? Full cock shots only please!

Thanks so much Train. That was much more of an appropriate reply for an escort board. :toocool:

BTW - is it too coy if I use the bubble gum snapping smilie?