Friends

[Blank_Dave]

I've gained much more insight, guidance and comfort from having a friend who has proven that she puts my well-being first and gives me frank but thoughtful advice.

Which is good and fine when you have a friend(s) like that. For me, I trust most peoe as far as I can throw them.

 

[a 1 player]

Which is good and fine when you have a friend(s) like that. For me, I trust most peoe as far as I can throw them.

That is really sad. I have very few true, dear friends, but they are with me through thick and thin.

 

[HOF]

I have one friend who knows most of my secrets. A couple friends who know some of them. No one knows all of them.

The bigger the secret, the less likely I am to tell anyone.

I don't share men, hairbrushes, toothbrushes or razors. If I wore panties I wouldn't share those either.

I know your secrets, you have to tell someone! HAHAHA, I know your big secrets too! I think:wacko:

 

[SillyGirl]

I know your secrets, you have to tell someone! HAHAHA, I know your big secrets too! I think:wacko:

Yea, I know you do. It's kind of cute. :na:

 

[Blank_Dave]

That is really sad. I have very few true, dear friends, but they are with me through thick and thin.

Well just sum it ip to trust and intimacy issues....On hindsight, they're really one and the same aren't they?

 

[Madman]

Dave there has to be one person in your group of friends or family that you can completely trust, if not it's a hard way to live bud.

 

[tboy]

^^^^^^^ Hey, it's not that uncommon. I think I can trust my parents but don't tell them everything, hell, they are too quick to criticize so I just avoid the whole situation completely.

I mean, what is trust anyways? To think securely that they won't tell anyone else what you've told them? Hell, I don't think I've known anyone who doesn't gossip.

I mean hell, I was working on an old friend's deck this past summer and he had a friend helping me. He asked me on the friday what I was doing that weekend and I said "I'm trying to get in touch with a young lady I know to see about going out"....well, that was at 2 pm and when my buddy and his wife got home at 7 he said "so I hear you have a date tonight"?

The guy told his wife, his wife told my buddy's wife, she told him........and the kicker was the story got changed from me TRYING to get in touch with her to me having a date with her......

 

[Auggie]

Well just sum it ip to trust and intimacy issues....On hindsight, they're really one and the same aren't they?

You've shared secrets with us that you wouldn't tell your family or friends, others on here have done the same.
You aren't unique in this regard, I think a lot of people wouldn't open up to those around them for several reasons.
You seem to know yourself well and are able to handle this, you've been the same way all your life and you're a functioning person.

 

[-b]

Which is good and fine when you have a friend(s) like that. For me, I trust most peoe as far as I can throw them.

Secrets what are they anyway......What kind of secrets too, ones of passion, crime, ones of hurt, hatred, anger....feelings....I realize that you may feel like you can not trust but it is good to share......It helps your health both physical and mental.....

Reality even if someone shares your secrets, is that such a bad thing......finding out others have issues too...that you are not alone.....I found when I held things in then the just seem to build.....

Trust is that when I need help I TRUST my friends even if it is just one will show up...I have many friends...I share totally.....I come to learn that you can not just count on one person.....because you will be disappointed....I trust many, I am open and in the sorrow, pain, deep sadness ......I tell and my friend which ever it may be comes to comfort me........

I do keep secrets because I realize that even though I think this way, others want their secrets kept.....They trust me and it about them and their feelings....

 

[tboy]

,,,,,,Reality even if someone shares your secrets, is that such a bad thing...... ....

In your case, I highly doubt that you have any sort of an idea of what reality is! :bs:

 

[-b]

In your case, I highly doubt that you have any sort of an idea of what reality is! :bs:

And you only do big fat Northern women.....Cabin fever already tboy.....or did you not clean your wood stove...too much smoke...:na:

 

[Guido]

My gosh, T if you and bliss ever got it on, it would be the roughest, raunchiest sex imaginable!! Picture it buddy,

thump thump slap slap
fuck u,
NO FUCK U,
stick it here,
no fuck u I'm sticking there,
fuck that, no way I said HERE
slap thump
FUCK OFF already I cuming!!!

* I apologize if the visual offends anyone, this was meant for educational purposes only*

 

[SillyGirl]

thump thump slap slap
fuck u,
NO FUCK U,
stick it here,
no fuck u I'm sticking there,
fuck that, no way I said HERE
slap thump
FUCK OFF already I cuming!!!

:rofl1::rofl1::rofl1::rofl1:

That's funny! :tongue:

 

[a 1 player]

I would pay to see that video.

 

[Dan]

My gosh, T if you and bliss ever got it on, it would be the roughest, raunchiest sex imaginable!! Picture it buddy,

thump thump slap slap
fuck u,
NO FUCK U,
stick it here,
no fuck u I'm sticking there,
fuck that, no way I said HERE
slap thump
FUCK OFF already I cuming!!!

* I apologize if the visual offends anyone, this was meant for educational purposes only*

:rofl!::rofl!:

OMG, is T Bliss's hot date tonight? T are you here?:shocking:

 

[-b]

:rofl1:

That's funny! :tongue:

He would be a pussy..........probably a virgin teen......I would have to teach him what to do...:neutral:
I don't do guys who are very Vanilla.........

 

[tboy]

My gosh, T if you and bliss ever got it on, it would be the roughest, raunchiest sex imaginable!! Picture it buddy,

thump thump slap slap
fuck u,
NO FUCK U,
stick it here,
no fuck u I'm sticking there,
fuck that, no way I said HERE
slap thump
FUCK OFF already I cuming!!!

* I apologize if the visual offends anyone, this was meant for educational purposes only*

OMFG don't even go there.....seriously, I'd amputate my dick before I'd do bliss.....(I think I just threw up in my mouth a little at the thought)......

 

[Blank_Dave]

Dave there has to be one person in your group of friends or family that you can completely trust, if not it's a hard way to live bud.

In my family, forget it. They either won't listen, shut up or care. As for friends, I have two. One I haven't seen in say 15 years, and the other in a year and a half. After I finished university and returned home, I never bothered establishing a social circle.

 

[-b]

In my family, forget it. They either won't listen, shut up or care. As for friends, I have two. One I haven't seen in say 15 years, and the other in a year and a half. After I finished university and returned home, I never bothered establishing a social circle.

Dave most people have 1 true friend......that they can count on....A lot of others don't have anyone....you are not alone.....
I always say I have lots of friends.......I call them Sunshine Friends......They are there when everything is going well ....they are there when they need me.....but if I am having issues.....well they are busy.....Not everybody is the same.....I like making lots of friends because I know out of the ones I make at least 1 well help...........I do not expect anymore that when a person calls you their friend that they are......

You may have a different definition for friend than they do........I have come to expect nothing from anyone now.......the last person totally destroyed what confidence I had.....so now I have lots of friends...but not by my definition.......

Do what you feel is comfortable:wink:

 

[Auggie]

In my family, forget it. They either won't listen, shut up or care. As for friends, I have two. One I haven't seen in say 15 years, and the other in a year and a half. After I finished university and returned home, I never bothered establishing a social circle.

That's more common than you might think.
I know many guys who depend on their mate to keep them within a social scene, if they were single they would be hermits.

You're not as different as you might believe.