A very interesting conversation took place at a dinner party at my home last night. Ida and I were entertaining Linda and her new beau as well as a friend I grew up with and his wife. The topic of pay for play arose and my friend who I went through high school and University with admitted prior to his marriage he had used several pay for play ladies, especially when vacationing abroad. We also established his wife knew about it and was fine with it as it all happened prior to their relationship.
Of course since this was out in the open Ida expressed her concern for my participating on this very board and that she believes I have a hidden curiosity/agenda to actually partake in the pay for play hobby more so than just posting. Linda's new friend suggested to Ida to allow me a hall pass. At the time I knew nothing of what a hall pass is but later it was explained to me that I get one day to be single and do whatever I want to do. Then the movie Hall Pass all came back to me and I knew exactly what was being proposed. Ida being the sharp witted woman she is quickly retorted back, she will if Linda and the other lady would also do the same.
The three ladies are going out for brunch today to discuss it further while the men enjoy the games on TV. Although I can't say I will act on it if I receive the green light I am very curious to hear the outcome of their meeting. I need some opinions on this, please share with me what would you do and the pitfalls I may encounter in this scenario. I do know my old friend is very keen on the idea as he's been through the experience previously but Linda's new friend like me is very hesitant about it, even worried about the ladies going out to brunch today. He shared with me he's sure the outcome will be if the hall pass is granted it shall go both ways. He’s regretting suggesting it and feels Linda will make him pay for it. In this scenario I know I cannot do it or accept it. I couldn't fathom the thought of my lovely wife with another man.
Of course since this was out in the open Ida expressed her concern for my participating on this very board and that she believes I have a hidden curiosity/agenda to actually partake in the pay for play hobby more so than just posting. Linda's new friend suggested to Ida to allow me a hall pass. At the time I knew nothing of what a hall pass is but later it was explained to me that I get one day to be single and do whatever I want to do. Then the movie Hall Pass all came back to me and I knew exactly what was being proposed. Ida being the sharp witted woman she is quickly retorted back, she will if Linda and the other lady would also do the same.
The three ladies are going out for brunch today to discuss it further while the men enjoy the games on TV. Although I can't say I will act on it if I receive the green light I am very curious to hear the outcome of their meeting. I need some opinions on this, please share with me what would you do and the pitfalls I may encounter in this scenario. I do know my old friend is very keen on the idea as he's been through the experience previously but Linda's new friend like me is very hesitant about it, even worried about the ladies going out to brunch today. He shared with me he's sure the outcome will be if the hall pass is granted it shall go both ways. He’s regretting suggesting it and feels Linda will make him pay for it. In this scenario I know I cannot do it or accept it. I couldn't fathom the thought of my lovely wife with another man.