Have you ever been caught cheating?.

[Wanker]

To see if they can get away with it?. Really, guys just do it to test if they can get caught?.

 

[RAWD]

Wow, 8 out of 10. Pretty good list.

Good list for women to learn as well.

 

[Oilcan]

I don't find cheating boosts my ego. It kind of makes me feel guilty.

 

[RAWD]

Cheating is with reference to your SO. That is the guilt part.

Ego erection is with reference to your mistress.

 

[Oilcan]

Cheating is with reference to your SO. That is the guilt part.

Ego erection is with reference to your mistress.

Thanks for clarifying that for me :biggrin2:

 

[RAWD]

Thanks for clarifying that for me :biggrin2:

That took many sessions in therapy. I can now proudly say that I can compartmentalize with the best of them

 

[-b]

That took many sessions in therapy. I can now proudly say that I can compartmentalize with the best of them

:NoNoNo: :LMAO:

 

[Admiral]

Wow, 8 out of 10. Pretty good list.

Good list for women to learn as well.

Which two did you flunk.

 

[RAWD]

Which two did you flunk.

I flunked 8. :blush:

Interestingly, "why" is often a very important question to get answered for someone who has been cheated on. Yet, many women are frustrated by the inability of their partner to give them a "good" answer.

It sounds trite, but I think that #1 is the real answer. Men cheat because we can. Because we have the time, money and opportunity. That explanation sucks because it also means that the woman allowed it to happen, by tacit acceptance or otherwise.

 

[Perry77]

I don't cheat. I just contribute to make the economy grow.

 

[Dan]

Stay single and you will never be accused of cheating, except maybe by the CRA!:grrrrrr:

 

[Alomar]

I am going to hell.


But with a smile.

 

[tboy]

I flunked 8. :blush:

Interestingly, "why" is often a very important question to get answered for someone who has been cheated on. Yet, many women are frustrated by the inability of their partner to give them a "good" answer.

It sounds trite, but I think that #1 is the real answer. Men cheat because we can. Because we have the time, money and opportunity. That explanation sucks because it also means that the woman allowed it to happen, by tacit acceptance or otherwise.

The thing is, I have found with the big changes in the male/female relationship over the years that many women feel that once they've gotten the guy via the L word, a ring, an engagement, or even a wedding, the time has come to stop trying to "keep" her man......

For example: when single, a woman will put on the lingerie, the hot clothes, the cfms, etc and say and do a LOT to get him.....It has been my experience that once gotten, those things start to wane. Gone are the VS nighties, come are the 20 yr old torn and ripped panties and an old moth eaten sweatshirt.

Don't get me wrong, I think it goes both ways as well. Couples have to continually try to "woo" their partners, hence why many therapists talk about "asking your wife out on a date" weekly......

I think they missed one on that list: when your partner becomes a MOM and forgets about being a sexual being.......

 

[RAWD]

The thing is, I have found with the big changes in the male/female relationship over the years that many women feel that once they've gotten the guy via the L word, a ring, an engagement, or even a wedding, the time has come to stop trying to "keep" her man......

For example: when single, a woman will put on the lingerie, the hot clothes, the cfms, etc and say and do a LOT to get him.....It has been my experience that once gotten, those things start to wane. Gone are the VS nighties, come are the 20 yr old torn and ripped panties and an old moth eaten sweatshirt.

Don't get me wrong, I think it goes both ways as well. Couples have to continually try to "woo" their partners, hence why many therapists talk about "asking your wife out on a date" weekly......

I think they missed one on that list: when your partner becomes a MOM and forgets about being a sexual being.......

Well said. Not in my case, but very common from talking to friends. With a young family and busy professional and social calendars, it's tough to have a weekly date night. But even if its stopping for a coffee or dessert, alone time is nice.

I remember reading somewhere that sex doesn't have to be candlelight or ropes every time. Insisting that it be some grand romantic affair is a convenient excuse to put it off altogether. Sometimes its just a quickie in the laundry room. It's important to keep it going.

 

[Baz]

Very well said Rawd and again I find myself agreeing with Tboy. It's true and I will be the first to admit to keep a relationship well oiled and spontaneous enough to create excitement for both people is not easy but it can be achieved thus not having any excuse for either partner to wander. Ida and myself spend at least 3 evenings a week alone. We will walk the beaches area, find a cozy restaurants, enjoy dinner and a fine glass of wine and walk or drive home always holding hands. It's very important to always feel one another's touch. Gentleman, find your soul-mates, nurture the relationship and will find true happiness.

 

[Jesus Quintana]

Very well said Rawd and again I find myself agreeing with Tboy. It's true and I will be the first to admit to keep a relationship well oiled and spontaneous enough to create excitement for both people is not easy but it can be achieved thus not having any excuse for either partner to wander. Ida and myself spend at least 3 evenings a week alone. We will walk the beaches area, find a cozy restaurants, enjoy dinner and a fine glass of wine and walk or drive home always holding hands. It's very important to always feel one another's touch. Gentleman, find your soul-mates, nurture the relationship and will find true happiness.

And don't forget to hide from your wife that you cruise the hooker boards.

 

[Baz]

Quintana, you do know what they say about one who ass u mes. Ida is aware of my being here and is also aware of Linda's participation. She has more of a problem with the latter, so please no need to be concerned about me.

 

[thesun]

The thing is, I have found with the big changes in the male/female relationship over the years that many women feel that once they've gotten the guy via the L word, a ring, an engagement, or even a wedding, the time has come to stop trying to "keep" her man......

For example: when single, a woman will put on the lingerie, the hot clothes, the cfms, etc and say and do a LOT to get him.....It has been my experience that once gotten, those things start to wane. Gone are the VS nighties, come are the 20 yr old torn and ripped panties and an old moth eaten sweatshirt.

Don't get me wrong, I think it goes both ways as well. Couples have to continually try to "woo" their partners, hence why many therapists talk about "asking your wife out on a date" weekly......

I think they missed one on that list: when your partner becomes a MOM and forgets about being a sexual being.......

This is true. Once we become complacent with each other, the relationship, including sex, isn't the same as before.

 

[T.A.F.K.A. Prince]

This title could also be changed to TOP 10 REASONS WHY (WO)MEN CHEAT

 

[thesun]

Yes. Many women out there do cheat. It is not like the 1950s where they often stayed home and rarely socilaized with people outside of their homes.