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Have you ever wondered what the "Q" in LGBTQ stands for?

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Good article.

Or what the other letters mean? Just as language constantly evolves, the words we use to describe ourselves and other facets of identity are changing, too. Here are some terms you should be familiar with, based on resources from the American Psychological Association; NLGJA: The Association of LGBTQ Journalists; National Center for Transgender Equality. After you read them, test your knowledge using the memory game below.

LGBTQ: The first four letters of this standard abbreviation are fairly straightforward: ?Lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender.? The Q can stand for ?questioning? -- as in still exploring one?s sexuality -- or ?queer,? or sometimes both.

QUEER: Once considered a demeaning slur for being gay, ?queer? is being reclaimed by some as a self-affirming umbrella term, especially among those who consider other labels restrictive. Some still believe it?s a homophobic slur, so it?s always best to ask or wait for the person whom you?re speaking with to use it.

SEX: The scientific community views sex as different from gender. Sex is assigned at birth based on a newborn?s physical and biological characteristics, such as chromosomes, hormone prevalence and anatomy. Generally, a newborn?s sex is assigned male or female, though some states and countries provide a third option for those who are intersex.

INTERSEX: People born with sex chromosomes, external genitalia or an internal reproductive system that is not considered standard for males or females. Parents and physicians usually choose the sex of the child, resulting in surgery or hormone treatment. Some intersex adults want this practice to end because one?s sex at birth may not align with their own sense of gender or identity.

GENDER: The socially constructed roles, behaviors and attributes that serve as cultural indicators of someone?s personal and social identity. Typically, these roles are grouped into one of two categories: male or female. That?s starting to change, as society grows more comfortable with the idea of gender as a spectrum and not binary.

GENDER IDENTITY: A person?s emotional and psychological sense of their gender, which may not align with the sex they were assigned at birth. The most common examples of gender identity are male and female, but there are several terms for people who don?t fit into those categories, such as the following?

NON-BINARY: One of the more common terms to describe people who don?t identify as male or female. Some may have a gender that blends male and female elements, or they may not identify with any gender. Common synonyms or alternatives to non-binary terms include genderqueer and gender nonconforming.

TRANSGENDER: Unlike non-binary people, transgender people may identify as male or female. What the two groups share is the innate sense that their gender identity does not match the sex they were assigned at birth.

CISGENDER: The prefix ?cis? means ?on this side.? Adding it to the suffix ?gender? creates a word for someone whose gender identity aligns with the sex they were assigned at birth. In other words, someone who does not identify as transgender.

SEXUAL ORIENTATION: One?s innate sexual attraction to other men, women or others who identify as non-binary. Not to be confused with gender, sex or gender identity.

LESBIAN: A noun and an adjective for women who are attracted to other women, although some women prefer to be called gay or queer ? it?s always best to ask!

GAY: An adjective and not a noun, most often used to describe men who are attracted to other men (except in the aforementioned cases).

BISEXUAL: Someone who is attracted to more than one gender.

ASEXUAL: Asexuality is a sexual orientation characterized by a lack of sexual attraction, but it doesn?t rule out romantic attraction.

PANSEXUAL: The prefix ?pan? says it all. Pansexual is an adjective for those who are attracted to all types of people, regardless of their gender or sexual orientation.

Got it? Time for a memory game! Click on a card to turn it over and find its corresponding card.

https://www.cnn.com/interactive/2019/06/health/lgbtq-explainer/
 
Prim0;n1472097 said:
I don't care as I think everyone should be equal under the law. The rest of what people do should be their own business.

And kept to themselves.

And,... what happened to the term,... hemaphrodite,... which has been around for ages, or do some feel that they are special, and need to have more attention brought to their disorder/birth defect.
 
ROBERTSON;n1472101 said:
And kept to themselves.

And,... what happened to the term,... hemaphrodite,... which has been around for ages, or do some feel that they are special, and need to have more attention brought to their disorder/birth defect.

Oh Robbie... the same Robbie as always - pretending to be an expert on LGBTQIA+ people when he's not queer himself. You'll never change nor listen.
 
Crimson Angel;n1472199 said:
Oh Robbie... the same Robbie as always - pretending to be an expert on LGBTQIA+ people when he's not queer himself. You'll never change nor listen.

You are correct on the 1st comment, I am not queer.

But being queer,... does not automatically make a you an expert in ANYTHING.

As confirmed by your none response, to my comment about the term,...hemaphrodite.
 
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ROBERTSON;n1472203 said:
You are correct on the 1st comment, I am not queer.

But being queer,... does not automatically make a you an expert in ANYTHING.

As confirmed by your none response, to my comment about the term,...hemaphrodite.

Oh yes yes hermaphrodites. What about them? Are you attracted to hermaphrodites or something?
 
Crimson Angel;n1472217 said:
Oh yes yes hermaphrodites. What about them? Are you attracted to hermaphrodites or something?

I have no issues with them, but the question is,... just were is that term used in your alphabet soup nonsense of sex abnormalities ?
 
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ROBERTSON;n1472220 said:
I have no issues with them, but the question is,... just were is that term used in your alphabet soup nonsense of sex abnormalities ?

So you're saying you have to be a hermaphrodite in order to identify as LGBTQIA+ people?

LGBTQIA+ is based on gender identity which have nothing to do with what's in between their legs. Your genitalia-centric view on queer identity is the reason why your posts are so offensive.
 
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ROBERTSON;n1472220 said:
I have no issues with them, but the question is,... just were is that term used in your alphabet soup nonsense of sex abnormalities ?

Why do you continually have a need to display your ignorance and bias towards things that you don't understand or like. You name call and berate like a school kid. Btw the term hermaphrodite is outdated, stigmatizing and specious. Intersex is now used and anyone born different than you couldn't be considered abnormal, but fortunate imho:)
 
I'm surprised Robbie Boy didn't take his opportunity to let out his "IT" farts. Come on boy... you know you don't want to hold it in. :rofl!:
 
Crimson Angel;n1472227 said:
So you're saying you have to be a hermaphrodite in order to identify as LGBTQIA+ people?
Never stated that, asked you a simple question about a relative term.

LGBTQIA+ is based on gender identity which have nothing to do with what's in between their legs. Your genitalia-centric view on queer identity is the reason why your posts are so offensive.

You might want to do some research on the subject you claim to be an expert on, as that statement is incorrect.
 
cristy;n1472229 said:
Why do you continually have a need to display your ignorance and bias towards things that you don't understand or like. You name call and berate like a school kid. Btw the term hermaphrodite is outdated, stigmatizing and specious. Intersex is now used and anyone born different than you couldn't be considered abnormal, but fortunate imho:)
I fully understand, actually more than the other insulter.
And never stated that I didn't like the latest alphabet soup of abnormalities.
Also, I do not name call, except in return to insults.

So hermaphrodite is incorrect ?

Gay and queer was stigmatizing, but now acceptable, but not hermaphrodite ?

A question, is some one's preference to having sex with children,... normal ?

Bearing in mind a culture that has a need to parade their abnormal life style, might have a different opinion than those who who are normal.
 
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ROBERTSON;n1472339 said:
I fully understand, actually more than the other insulter.
And never stated that I didn't like the latest alphabet soup of abnormalities.
Also, I do not name call, except in return to insults.

So hermaphrodite is incorrect ?

Gay and queer was stigmatizing, but now acceptable, but not hermaphrodite ?

A question, is some one's preference to having sex with children,... normal ?

Bearing in mind a culture that has a need to parade their abnormal life style, might have a different opinion than those who who are normal.

"Sex abnormalities"??? Says you..What is normal, a 60 + married man that peruses escort review boards?..You've spoken generally, and by doing so you include more than one person. So who are all these people who've insulted you,and so what if someone did, that doesn't mean you have too.... or are you insisting that people who identify differently than you are an insult to your sensibilities? If so buck up, it's a big. big world, things change. And now you are now comparing how someone sexually identifies, to child molestation?:banghead::don'twantto-see:/This discussion with you is pointless. Some people are set in their backward ways of thinking, sorry to see..
 
cristy;n1472353 said:
"Sex abnormalities"??? Says you..What is normal, a 60 + married man that peruses escort review boards?..You've spoken generally, and by doing so you include more than one person. So who are all these people who've insulted you,and so what if someone did, that doesn't mean you have too.... or are you insisting that people who identify differently than you are an insult to your sensibilities? If so buck up, it's a big. big world, things change. And now you are now comparing how someone sexually identifies, to child molestation?:banghead::don'twantto-see:/This discussion with you is pointless. Some people are set in their backward ways of thinking, sorry to see..
A little bit of education for YA.

The sexual urge in man and animals, is to insure procreation, not to make income, not discounting the fact that prostitution is the oldest occupation.

For procreation to take place, a male would have sex with a female, that would be a NORMAL sexual activity.

A male's sexual urges to stick his penis in another males anus, is NOT a NORMAL sexual activity, as explained to you above, and for the same reasons, an adult preference to have sex with children, is also NOT NORMAL.
An other example would be a women who's preference would be to have a butch lesbian fuck her with a dildo, again, NOT NORMAL

Now your example of a male seeing a female prostitute for sex, that would be a NORMAL sexual activity, remember, a male and a female of the species.

A culture that feels it has to make a spectacle of its self in the streets of Toronto, that's not normal either.

That culture is simply displaying its insecurities, and the end result is a further degrading of the same people that culture claims to support.

Much like the religious, that has to continually try to convince the non believers they are right, but in reality, they are actually trying to convince themselves, because of their insecurities about their life style.

Note that I have NOT insulted anybody, sex with a goat is NOT NORMAL either, for all of the same reasons,... :biggrin2:
 
ROBERTSON;n1472383 said:
A little bit of education for YA.

The sexual urge in man and animals, is to insure procreation, not to make income, not discounting the fact that prostitution is the oldest occupation.

For procreation to take place, a male would have sex with a female, that would be a NORMAL sexual activity.

A male's sexual urges to stick his penis in another males anus, is NOT a NORMAL sexual activity, as explained to you above, and for the same reasons, an adult preference to have sex with children, is also NOT NORMAL.
An other example would be a women who's preference would be to have a butch lesbian fuck her with a dildo, again, NOT NORMAL

Now your example of a male seeing a female prostitute for sex, that would be a NORMAL sexual activity, remember, a male and a female of the species.

A culture that feels it has to make a spectacle of its self in the streets of Toronto, that's not normal either.

That culture is simply displaying its insecurities, and the end result is a further degrading of the same people that culture claims to support.

Much like the religious, that has to continually try to convince the non believers they are right, but in reality, they are actually trying to convince themselves, because of their insecurities about their life style.

Note that I have NOT insulted anybody, sex with a goat is NOT NORMAL either, for all of the same reasons,... :biggrin2:

A little education for you.... You have insulted many, your train of thought, and posts are insulting to the whole LGBTQ+ community. Not that you care, nor understand... You should go back to 1950, they're waiting for you:biggrin2:
 
cristy;n1472404 said:
A little education for you.... You have insulted many, your train of thought, and posts are insulting to the whole LGBTQ+ community. Not that you care, nor understand... You should go back to 1950, they're waiting for you:biggrin2:

If you call stating the facts of life insulting, then you should keep out of discussions you are not capable being a part of.

Again, I have insulted nobody, by simply stating the facts of life.

Read Primo's posts for more help.
 
ROBERTSON;n1472339 said:
I fully understand, actually more than the other insulter.
And never stated that I didn't like the latest alphabet soup of abnormalities.
Also, I do not name call, except in return to insults.

So hermaphrodite is incorrect ?

Gay and queer was stigmatizing, but now acceptable, but not hermaphrodite ?

A question, is some one's preference to having sex with children,... normal ?

Bearing in mind a culture that has a need to parade their abnormal life style, might have a different opinion than those who who are normal.

Wow that's just offensive to both LGBTQIA+ people AND victims of child rape. Jeez Robbie why do you have to prove how big you are by insulting two marginalized groups of people?

First it's not "hermaphrodite" it's "intersex" educate your sorry ass please. Second, why do you keep harping on and on about the identities of "hermaphrodites" in the LGBTQIA+ community when clearly you don't give two shits about queer people? Like you're dwelling on this one little thing like you're so concerned about them or something (which is funny because you call them "hermaphrodites"). To answer your question - yes we accept intersex people with open arms. Do you?

But what's your point exactly? That the existance of queer people are offensive to your imaginary army of "hermaphrodites"? Geez I feel sorry for them. Or are you just trying to take cheap shots at our people like the ignorant childish bastard you are?
 
ROBERTSON;n1472383 said:
A little bit of education for YA.

The sexual urge in man and animals, is to insure procreation, not to make income, not discounting the fact that prostitution is the oldest occupation.

For procreation to take place, a male would have sex with a female, that would be a NORMAL sexual activity.

A male's sexual urges to stick his penis in another males anus, is NOT a NORMAL sexual activity, as explained to you above, and for the same reasons, an adult preference to have sex with children, is also NOT NORMAL.
An other example would be a women who's preference would be to have a butch lesbian fuck her with a dildo, again, NOT NORMAL

Now your example of a male seeing a female prostitute for sex, that would be a NORMAL sexual activity, remember, a male and a female of the species.

A culture that feels it has to make a spectacle of its self in the streets of Toronto, that's not normal either.

That culture is simply displaying its insecurities, and the end result is a further degrading of the same people that culture claims to support.

Much like the religious, that has to continually try to convince the non believers they are right, but in reality, they are actually trying to convince themselves, because of their insecurities about their life style.

Note that I have NOT insulted anybody, sex with a goat is NOT NORMAL either, for all of the same reasons,... :biggrin2:

Have you thought of living in a cave eating lichen for the rest of your life? Clothing is not normal. Houses are not normal. Clean water is not normal. Living past the age of 35 is not normal. Fuck, the internet and browsing HUBGFE is not normal.

What gives you the right to tell us what's "normal" or not when clearly you and all of us are not living "cavemen dwelling" lifestyles? Because we're not heterosexual cis-gender male? All you're doing here is 'splaining to us why cis-gender heterosexual people should be superior to everyone else and that makes you an extreme heterosexist, cis-sexist by the book.
 
ROBERTSON;n1472418 said:
If you call stating the facts of life insulting, then you should keep out of discussions you are not capable being a part of.

Again, I have insulted nobody, by simply stating the facts of life.

Read Primo's posts for more help.

"Again I have insulted nobody, by simply stating the facts of life" - Very typical of Robbie boy. What's new here?
 
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