He Has To Pay For Sex

[Baz]

Yesterday a few of my colleagues and myself went out for lunch. One individual is a very good looking young man. A comment was made to him "you lucky b_____ you never have to worry about paying for sex" This had me thinking and I do not discuss this forum with my work colleagues but I did ask the group if any of them had ever paid for play. All 3 of them at the same time said never but from what I've learned right here I tend to believe at least one of them is lying too me. One of the gentleman claimed he would be embarrassed at what the lady would think of him. He claimed she would be snickering after he left how he had to pay for a woman to be with him. Ladies for hire, do you look down on your clients? Once the gentlemen leave and the door shuts closed what do you think of the them? Gentlemen, what do you think the ladies say about you once you leave?

 

[Robintheboywonder]

Dude, we are paying for a fantasy and no strings attached.

Most guys can pick up a civvie, the question is quality and if one wants to go through the head games. We all pay and in most cases an SP is actually cheaper if you add up what one spends on a civvie.

I for one really couldn't care less what she thinks of me once I leave as long as I leave with a smile.

 

[Baz]

I for one really couldn't care less what she thinks of me once I leave as long as I leave with a smile.

I'm surprised at your answer about not caring how another human being felt about your interaction with them. Interesting Robin, thank you for your post.

 

[LickingGravity]

If the woman is a true professional and not a part-timer I suspect that what she thinks of you is based on the following:

• cleanliness/grooming/breath
• politeness/treating her with respect/being on time/not haggling
• being somewhat knowledgeable on how to touch her, particularly her sensitive bits
• personality/interesting or not factor
• last - overall appearance/handsome factor

If they have been doing this for awhile they have probably seen A-Z of most everything and have their favourite clients and their not so favourite ones.

 

[Wanker]

I'm surprised at your answer about not caring how another human being felt about your interaction with them.

Again, that is why you are paying for it. Do you think they care about you?.

 

[Chunky]

Do you think they care about you?.

YES and I expect a call on Christmas!

 

[LadyRaven]

a true Lady does not look down on her clients.. and its not that They HAVE to pay for sex . They choose to .. cuts out all the in between stuff that could end up costing way more in the wrong run and get straight to the sure thing.. and that is what we are here for.. if they do not like me after they leave then they will not come back.. No HAS to do anything but die and well even then I choose to live forever..

 

[Cardinal Fang]

Yesterday a few of my colleagues and myself went out for lunch.

What did you guys order?

Gentlemen, what do you think the ladies say about you once you leave?

"He was awfully nice until he curled up in the fetal position and started crying."

or

"I pictured him to look a lot more ironic."

 

[L._s.]

Yesterday a few of my colleagues and myself went out for lunch. One individual is a very good looking young man. A comment was made to him "you lucky b_____ you never have to worry about paying for sex" This had me thinking and I do not discuss this forum with my work colleagues but I did ask the group if any of them had ever paid for play. All 3 of them at the same time said never but from what I've learned right here I tend to believe at least one of them is lying too me. One of the gentleman claimed he would be embarrassed at what the lady would think of him. He claimed she would be snickering after he left how he had to pay for a woman to be with him. Ladies for hire, do you look down on your clients? Once the gentlemen leave and the door shuts closed what do you think of the them? Gentlemen, what do you think the ladies say about you once you leave?

I think there are many reasons why a guy would see an SP. Accordingly, an SPs opinion of their customer would be different for each customer. I don't think they would look down on every customer - if an SP despised each of their customers so much, it would be hard to do their job. Some SPs have excellent customer service and make you feel like a million bucks so I don't think that they don't like all of their customers.

At the end of the day Baz it is a business transaction and the way guys feel about the sp or vice versa does not really matter that much (ofcourse their are exceptions but it is rare that a true relationship would develop).

 

[Chunky]

I think there are many reasons why a guy would see an SP. Accordingly, an SPs opinion of their customer would be different for each customer. I don't think they would look down on every customer - if an SP despised each of their customers so much, it would be hard to do their job. Some SPs have excellent customer service and make you feel like a million bucks so I don't think that they don't like all of their customers.

At the end of the day Baz it is a business transaction and the way guys feel about the sp or vice versa does not really matter that much (ofcourse their are exceptions but it is rare that a true relationship would develop).

Best answer so far and I like Texas Joe have been asked why I'm paying and my answer has always been I felt like a quick bite without the side dishes of emotions.

 

[socialstrat]

Most of my friends are women. If anything, I think SPs might be more generous than my friends are with the boyfriends and husbands whom they love very much. Women can be beautifully/brutally frank.

 

[a 1 player]

I would like to believe that when I leave the woman would think, 'He was a gentleman and treated me with respect".

 

[peace]

I would like to believe that when I leave the woman would think, 'He was a gentleman and treated me with respect".

Really? I thought the woman would think not to mispronounce or mispell your name in the future....not aplaya..nor a player1. It's a 1 player !:wink2:

 

[a 1 player]

Really? I thought the woman would think not to mispronounce or mispell your name in the future....not aplaya..nor a player1. It's a 1 player !:wink2:

You sir are correct, however a true gentleman never reveals his on-line review board handle.

 

[ralp]

a true Lady does not look down on her clients.. and its not that They HAVE to pay for sex . They choose to .. cuts out all the in between stuff that could end up costing way more in the wrong run and get straight to the sure thing.. and that is what we are here for.. if they do not like me after they leave then they will not come back.. No HAS to do anything but die and well even then I choose to live forever..

++++

Always been my experience; but you have to choose carefully

 

[Baz]

You sir are correct, however a true gentleman never reveals his on-line review board handle.

Interesting, I presumed you all booked using your board handles for discretionary reasons. So when booking an appointment you give your real name and phone number? As per example you are booking one of the ladies advertising on this forum, the board would not come up in conversation??

 

[dreamblade]

To answer your original question, let me ask you: How do you feel about your clients? Some of them suck, some you feel a kinship with, some you would push in front of a bus, some you'll invite to dinner after the work is done. It's the same for Companions. A close friend of mine, working in the industry for a long time now, always says she feels her clients are her friends. There is no pity, no contempt, just a buyer and a provider, and often a genuine affection develops. Not a romantic one, per se, but think more of having beers with your plumber or your mechanic.

Interesting, I presumed you all booked using your board handles for discretionary reasons. So when booking an appointment you give your real name and phone number? As per example you are booking one of the ladies advertising on this forum, the board would not come up in conversation??

Some use real names and real phones, others fake names and burner phones, others a combination. I give my real first name and number, because if something happens to my booking, I'd like to know before I'm knocking at the door. And no, we don't discuss the board. See Fight Club rules. Besides, there's so much more interesting stuff to talk about.

 

[papasmerf]

I never have to pay for sex

but I chose to pay the lady to leave.


Getting laid is the easy part, not getting involved, not so much.

 

[Jerkthis]

Does paying it forward exist in the SP world?:biggrin2:

 

[a 1 player]

Interesting, I presumed you all booked using your board handles for discretionary reasons. So when booking an appointment you give your real name and phone number? As per example you are booking one of the ladies advertising on this forum, the board would not come up in conversation??

Nope, not at all. I have done this in the past but it is not the norm for me. Usually I just call up and say I would like to book an appointment, that's all.