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How can you tell if a person respects others?.

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What traits do they have to have?.

I was driving making a left turn on a major street. I see this lady walking on a green light but rushed to get across so I can make my turn before the upcoming traffic blocking me.

Some may think nothing of it but it got me thinking to myself. She is one person I would not mind having as a friend.

Any other character traits you can think of that will make them above the rest?.
 
How can you tell if a person respects others.

When their behavior exhibits an appropriate acknowledgement and consideration of others in a particular situation.
 
What traits do they have to have?.

I was driving making a left turn on a major street. I see this lady walking on a green light but rushed to get across so I can make my turn before the upcoming traffic blocking me.

Some may think nothing of it but it got me thinking to myself. She is one person I would not mind having as a friend.

Any other character traits you can think of that will make them above the rest?.

i dunno if that is so much respect as consideration.....or in military parlance "situational awareness"....meaning she knew that you wanted to make a left so hurried so you could....I just love the pedestrians who just sauntered along like they owned the world meanwhile you're trying to get where you're going......

There is a shitload of lack of respect where I work....if I was the site boss I'd be putting a stop to it poste haste. It only dampens production and morale. Not everyone is like this, but too many are.

I think one sign of respect is how someone treats others...as the saying goes, do unto others as you would have them do unto you.....
 

First you need to show kindness and courtesy
. Always consider the next persons position and feelings before reacting. Offering a seat to the elderly, crippled, or simply helping a child to cross the street is a simple act of kindness and courtesy.
Stand in a well-mannered position during a conversation: Always stand in a well-mannered position during a conversation (Ex:you are having a conversation with one of your friends ). Also maintain a eye contact as these two things are one of the important aspects of showing respect. These also tell how much you are interested in the conversation.

You need to have manners; to be respectful because manners are a part of being respectful. Good manners include not speaking unless spoken to, showing regard and concern for the elderly etc. Offering a guest something to eat or drink also reflects good manners and upbringing.

You should ask permission before using someone's property. If you don't, this can be considered as stealing. It is also considered rude and inconsiderate to help yourself freely to anything that does not belong to you.

Think before you speak. Always contemplate if your words are going to hurt someone. We sometimes tend to speak out of turn, which is entirely not a good thing to do.

Always use the basics: please, thank you, and so on. This forms a great part of being polite and at the same time helps create warmth and compassion.

Try to have respectful friends. Always remember we are judged by the company we keep.

Be respectful to others even if they're not respectful to you. Show patience and humility. The other person may learn something from you. This does not imply becoming a doormat.

The first step of being respected is respecting yourself. Be respectful to yourself, or others will not respect you or take advantage of you.

Never insult anyone or say something that may offend them. Even when angry, keep your hostility in check. You do not want to have regrets later, when the damage has already been done.

Do not insubordinate or disobey a figure of authority. Authority is there for a reason. We need to relish and feast on the wisdom of authority figures.
 
If they cheat on their income tax they will cheat on anything.
 
Easy Word to throw around.....

It takes a lot for me to respect someone....
Just because they are someone of importance does not make me respect them....
It is like trusting someone it takes time.....

I respect a few members on here who kick my ass.......but come back on a different
thread to have fun with me......Just I need to be respectful to others.....

I respect those I may not get along with....for they are straight forward say it as
it is but with grace not with a fist and a hammer......I respect people who explain things
take their time and teach instead of saying people are stupid etc....because people learn
in different ways....on different levels and in different situations.....

I respect people who give of themselves without asking for anything in return or thinking that
because they did something nice then the favor should be return.....I respect those who give
their lives for us, who put themselves in harms way to make us safe.....I respect those who do thing
out of the kindness of their hearts and not to show people what a great person they are....I respect those I know who give and give without others knowing or wanting the attention....

For me I feel,like I need to always grow and be respectful.....because if I respect these people I know or learning to respect I need to live up to their standards so I can be respected.....
 
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