How do you tell a $3K per session escort she's no longer delivering a $3K experience?

[demien3k5]

Complacency breeds contempt. After a couple years of regular encounters, it seems that a favorite young lady has apparently lost that 'eye of the tiger' mentality when it comes to 'customer experience'.

Is it worth even broaching the subject to see if the service dedication can be re-ignited? If so, how would you approach that conversation?

Or is it simply better to quietly move on and call it a day to avoid the possibility of hurt feelings or drama?

Maybe it's inevitable that even with paid professionals, that spark and passion however contrived will always dwindle and fade over time?

From a financial perspective, one thing is certain - the current level of customer satisfaction is not equal to the investments being made, so something's got to change somewhere. Hmmmmmm

 

[Madman]

Cut and run is the best policy. If you're not satisfied with your investment, you take your losses and go home.

 

[RED]

yes, keep quiet and move on. I am sure she knows it but trying to deceive her clients.

 

[Jessica Rain]

Personally I would move on. I think that escort is not a wife or girlfriend. You talk to to wife/girlfriend about re-ignating that flame. Escorts not to much.

If she notices your absence and makes a comment, then you speak up. But in this case, unless she is taking a customer survey - I say just quietly move on.

 

[demien3k5]

Personally I would move on. I think that escort is not a wife or girlfriend. You talk to to wife/girlfriend about re-ignating that flame. Escorts not to much.

If she notices your absence and makes a comment, then you speak up. But in this case, unless she is taking a customer survey - I say just quietly move on.

Well said. Thx!

 

[nntsci]

Complacency breeds contempt. After a couple years of regular encounters, it seems that a favorite young lady has apparently lost that 'eye of the tiger' mentality when it comes to 'customer experience'.

Is it worth even broaching the subject to see if the service dedication can be re-ignited? If so, how would you approach that conversation?

Or is it simply better to quietly move on and call it a day to avoid the possibility of hurt feelings or drama?

Maybe it's inevitable that even with paid professionals, that spark and passion however contrived will always dwindle and fade over time?

From a financial perspective, one thing is certain - the current level of customer satisfaction is not equal to the investments being made, so something's got to change somewhere. Hmmmmmm

LOL... well not having ever experienced a 3k experience. I wouldn't know... but I guess like marriage... it gets stale after a while... maybe you and her could see a counselor to help you get the spice back in your experience. lol.


"Complacency breeds contempt." that is true for sure... I had that experience... a lady who was taking me for granted (big time)... not returning emails for 10 or more days.
I have a wife for that... does a great job of taking me for granted, but never that bad; actually you know there is something wrong when communication with your wife is less frustrating then your SP. Came up with various excuses, including not having a data plan -- so I said ok, I'll give you $20 per visit to get a data plan... she didn't.

 

[Thomas Crown]

With all due respect to the op I think the question should be WTF are you doing seeing a 3k a session call girl. Damn-Not too smart

 

[demien3k5]

With all due respect to the op I think the question should be WTF are you doing seeing a 3k a session call girl. Damn-Not too smart

I'm too young to get into the really good movies, and have a lot of extra time on my hands! :wink2:

 

[demien3k5]

...but I guess like marriage... it gets stale after a while...

I think this was somewhat where I was going with this thread.

When you court high end, and VIP type escorts it has been my experience that the level of professionalism is very very high, across the board. This being the case, I guess I was wondering if such an escort would take it personally if the subject of perceived apathy in certain areas were to be broached, or whether they would indeed react in a more professional manner and look to make changes in their behavior.

It has nothing to do with personal emotions or 'being in a relationship' whatsoever as I don't view the industry that way and never have. More to do with focus, attention to detail, presence, and degree of effort expended.

 

[nntsci]

I think this was somewhat where I was going with this thread.

When you court high end, and VIP type escorts it has been my experience that the level of professionalism is very very high, across the board. This being the case, I guess I was wondering if such an escort would take it personally if the subject of perceived apathy in certain areas were to be broached, or whether they would indeed react in a more professional manner and look to make changes in their behavior.

It has nothing to do with personal emotions or 'being in a relationship' whatsoever as I don't view the industry that way and never have. More to do with focus, attention to detail, presence, and degree of effort expended.

I don't know... its an unusual sort of "professional" arrangement and you can't divorce it completely from emotion.
I am a strong believer in communication, so talk to her about your experience.
Maybe she is stressed out or something.
Also consider the possibility that its not just her, but that you maybe losing interest in her.

Anyway, if you want to keep seeing her talk to her in a non-confrontational manner.
Otherwise move on.

 

[cristycurves]

Escorts get bored, especially with certain types. Some will still see their date and accept his gift, because they continue to want the gift, the clients company, not so much Perhaps you could ask her to join here and take part in the discussion I saw this a lot running services, had a client who bought a girl a car, house and furnished it, she used him terribly, he knew it but continued on seeing her regardless.....Maybe try buying her a house and a car

 

[demien3k5]

Thanks for that valuable input but as I said at the start, she's a young, very high end, and a true VIP companion - things that you clearly are not, so I don't fault you for not understanding the dynamic at play, or the nature of the issues at hand. It's not the typical run-of-the-mill escort-to-retard type of setup that you are accustomed to in the Maritimes, so I can see why you'd be out of your depth commenting in this thread. But to help you out, maybe I could indeed get an actual high end, VIP Courtesan to join this conversation and see if she could explain to you what it's like to be a relevant, in demand provider in the industry.

 

[demien3k5]

I am a strong believer in communication, so talk to her about your experience.
Maybe she is stressed out or something.
Also consider the possibility that its not just her, but that you maybe losing interest in her.

So, this is interesting advice...if it were you, how do open that discussion? What's your recommended approach to easing into that conversation?

Also, it's not that I am losing interest in her as much as I'm growing irritated and somewhat frustrated by a lack of attention to many of the little things/details that contribute heavily to making a high-end session actually 'high end'.

Kinda' like going to a 5+ star resort only to find over time a significant erosion in the qualities, services, and amenities that actually differentiate a 5+ star resort from the average all-inclusive vacation package.

 

[nntsci]

So, this is interesting advice...if it were you, how do open that discussion? What's your recommended approach to easing into that conversation?

Also, it's not that I am losing interest in her as much as I'm growing irritated and somewhat frustrated by a lack of attention to many of the little things/details that contribute heavily to making a high-end session actually 'high end'.

Kinda' like going to a 5+ star resort only to find over time a significant erosion in the qualities, services, and amenities that actually differentiate a 5+ star resort from the average all-inclusive vacation package.

Difficult to say, because I don't know you or her or your history or what is missing, but start with positive things about how great it was in the past and ease into the conversation about how lately that something is missing in the interactions.
Given that you are posting here its apparent you do want to keep seeing her, so tell her you want to keep seeing her and talk to her about the situation...
she's a professional and might appreciate the feedback, especially if you keep focusing on the positive as well (e.g., why you want to keep seeing her).
and avoid being confrontational... that never works.
or move on.

good luck

 

[demien3k5]

Difficult to say, because I don't know you or her or your history or what is missing, but start with positive things about how great it was in the past and ease into the conversation about how lately that something is missing in the interactions.
Given that you are posting here its apparent you do want to keep seeing her, so tell her you want to keep seeing her and talk to her about the situation...
she's a professional and might appreciate the feedback, especially if you keep focusing on the positive as well (e.g., why you want to keep seeing her).
and avoid being confrontational... that never works.
or move on.

good luck

Very helpful, pragmatic advice! Thanks!~ :writing: :good:

 

[nntsci]

Very helpful, pragmatic advice! Thanks!~ :writing: :good:

You are welcome. My wife's a social worker lectures me, on ithe topic of communication & conflict resolution every now and then.... LOL... Usually followed by some statement that I'd make a terrible therapist... Which is good... My job pays better. Lol.

 

[cristycurves]

Thanks for that valuable input but as I said at the start, she's a young, very high end, and a true VIP companion - things that you clearly are not, so I don't fault you for not understanding the dynamic at play, or the nature of the issues at hand. It's not the typical run-of-the-mill escort-to-retard type of setup that you are accustomed to in the Maritimes, so I can see why you'd be out of your depth commenting in this thread. But to help you out, maybe I could indeed get an actual high end, VIP Courtesan to join this conversation and see if she could explain to you what it's like to be a relevant, in demand provider in the industry.

:LMAO::LMAO: Then what may I ask is she doing seeing you, lol and please do get "a high end courtesan" to join, apparently your retort statement wasn't made to only insult me as it clearly infers there are no "high end courtesans" on this board, lol!!
Well, and again when someone steps on your toes you get all :Crying2::aggressive2: don't you, lol. Demien stop hurting my feelings, you mean so much to me after all.....:na:
I found your post moronic, unbelievable, and at best, just more of your blowhard pomp. You've *preached* about how "informed and experienced" you are within this industry, that you've been involved in it for a veryyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy long time, that you're a high roller, with loads of success, a loving wife, tons of kids and again a busy and hectic lifestyle that I especially should be envious of. *YET* you take time, lots of time, to post on HUBGFE asking for advice on how to react to a 3000$ an hour "courtesan":LMAO:.......okay!!!!!:rofl!:/-Thumbs-up::/
I can't help but wonder.....with all your supposed experience, all your supposed success and world views, high opinions of yourself and your accomplishments, wouldn't you already know how to react/handle/approach a "young courtesan" by now, after all you've been through, seen and supposedly experienced? With all your supposed experiences with high end courtesans and all your self perceived intellect, wouldn't you, shouldn't you know. Or is this just another opportunity you've chosen to brag about how much you supposedly spend. And how on earth do you find the time to grace us on this board with so much of yours, lol. It is laughable to say the least to pose such a question on a forum where you constantly make fun of many of those who flank it, yet here, you still pose your questions, and make your threads and posts, lol. Oh yes Demien, it must be so wonderful to be you....

More good advice.... buy her a Birkin bag, or two...I've got a friend in Atlanta who could give you some buying tips, lol.

 

[demien3k5]

:LMAO::LMAO: Then what may I ask is she doing seeing you, lol and please do get "a high end courtesan" to join, apparently your retort statement wasn't made to only insult me as it clearly infers there are no "high end courtesans" on this board, lol!!
Well, and again when someone steps on your toes you get all :Crying2::aggressive2: don't you, lol. Demien stop hurting my feelings, you mean so much to me after all.....:na:
I found your post moronic, unbelievable, and at best, just more of your blowhard pomp. You've *preached* about how "informed and experienced" you are within this industry, that you've been involved in it for a veryyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy long time, that you're a high roller, with loads of success, a loving wife, tons of kids and again a busy and hectic lifestyle that I especially should be envious of. *YET* you take time, lots of time, to post on HUBGFE asking for advice on how to react to a 3000$ an hour "courtesan":LMAO:.......okay!!!!!:rofl!:/-Thumbs-up::/
I can't help but wonder.....with all your supposed experience, all your supposed success and world views, high opinions of yourself and your accomplishments, wouldn't you already know how to react/handle/approach a "young courtesan" by now, after all you've been through, seen and supposedly experienced? With all your supposed experiences with high end courtesans and all your self perceived intellect, wouldn't you, shouldn't you know. Or is this just another opportunity you've chosen to brag about how much you supposedly spend. And how on earth do you find the time to grace us on this board with so much of yours, lol. It is laughable to say the least to pose such a question on a forum where you constantly make fun of many of those who flank it, yet here, you still pose your questions, and make your threads and posts, lol. Oh yes Demien, it must be so wonderful to be you....

More good advice.... buy her a Birkin bag, or two...I've got a friend in Atlanta who could give you some buying tips, lol.

*sigh*

Cristy, I really don't understand why you insist on publicly humiliating yourself with these kinds of posts. They do not present a very flattering public view of your character and personality as a provider of intimate services.

But, whatever you feel you need to post is fine with me, if it makes you feel better about yourself.

 

[cristycurves]

Thank you, I'm glad you appreciate my efforts And don't forget the Birkin bag, unless you've already decided to buy her a house and car, but then again, get her all three, she's young and probably could use the help.

 

[demien3k5]