HUBGFE.cc Tutorial - Do's and Dont's

[Gooby]

Cleanliness is probably the biggest issue for me

- Don't have bad breath - I have had numerous sessions go south right after the first kiss when I realize that the SP has bad breath, smoke breath, coffee breath etc. I have mouthwash if it's an outcall and for incalls there should be no excuses.

- Don't have any other body odors - I do my best to be clean before a session and I expect the SP to be clean as well. Try not to smell of body odor, smell like you came from the gym or any other bad smell. I remember one winter when I was with an escort and she kicked of her boots... now I know some guys out there like stinky feet but that just killed the mood for me. I had to tell her that I liked her with her boots on and made her put them back on. Similarly please get any yeast infections or fungus down there under control.

- Don't dress over the top for outcalls - If you are showing up to my place please dress discretely if I ask. Please don't make it obvious to my neighbours by showing up in giant heels, a really short skirt, skin tight top etc. Dressing casually is fine with me.

- As others mentioned, try not to make other appointments while in the middle of a session

 

[IFUSEEKAMY]

Do freshen up when you arrive. Even washing your hands and using mouthwash is better than nothing at all.

Don't spray cologne directly on your goodies if you intend to have them in someone's mouth.

 

[IFUSEEKAMY]

Do reply to respectful emails you receive as promptly as possible if it is a method of communication you allow. Even a short one saying "I have received your email. I'll get back to you as soon as I can." is better than no reply at all.

Don't accept blocked calls. Please. It is not worth it. Someone who can't even trust you with a phone number is not someone you should be trusting with your body.

 

[Charley LaRoux]

DO:

Shower at her incall - even a quick 5 minutes will make all the difference, and don't forget to soap up those jewels and use the mouthwash.

Communicate with her before you get together to explain your desires and what you are hoping to experience.

Bring a bottle of something she would like to share with you. It is such a nice gesture and will be appreciated.

Do be respectful of her boundaries, expect to have fun and have a good time!

Finally, have a great experience that both of you will enjoy and will want to develop further in the future!

xoxox Charley

 

[spamit]

If he is over 30 consider body language.
1) After appearing from behind the door, you have 3 seconds to make the impression that will be associated with you no matter what service level is given, it's a human thing, make the most of it. Direct eye contact maintain it, smile and pause (1 one thousand , 2 one thousand. Go)
it is a display of confidence, and is attractive to most men .
2) When you break the eye contact or begin speaking do not look over his head, this is a universal sign of women to show they are not interested, a man's conscious brain may not pick it up, but it will be recorded in the unconscious and will make a difference. Looking down is acceptance , left or right is "Try harder, i'm not convinced". Master that and you can brain fuck a guy before his shoes are off. and it sets the tone.

3)Invite me inside and walk in front of me , i don't know where i am going, be a hostess , most places have a long hallway with the bathroom on the right , stop and point it out , good time to mention where a clean towel can be found , and that there is mouthwash on the counter.

Don't speak over your shoulder , stop turn eye contact again turn and keep going , if you are going to get down to brass tax right away , mention where the bedroom is , point out where i can put my clothes when i come out of the shower. And ask if i would like a glass of water a simple courtesy costs nothing and implies that i matter.

"You can also mention in however legally acceptable way , that if i have something for you i can leave it where ?"

None of this has anything to do with sex, but it's effect on a man is tangible.

You will have established that you are confident, courteous , and attentive.
You will have shown a level of respect that most likely will be reciprocated.
And have given signals to a man that go beyond tits and ass, men will return to a woman that makes him feel like a man.

Beyond that do your thing , i wouldn't dream of offering advice to women on sex .. they own it we are just tourists.


If he is under 30 , you can probably answer the door bent over..
However a display of confidence and courtesy is intimidating to young men , and might help to ensure that no overly aggressive behavior, and demeaning attitude is welcome.

 

[blackram]

If he is under 30 , you can probably answer the door bent over..
However a display of confidence and courtesy is intimidating to young men , and might help to ensure that no overly aggressive behavior, and demeaning attitude is welcome.

Hell, she can bend over and answer the door for me, it would still impress me. And I'm well over 30! Praise-Bowing

 

[spamit]

Yeah i cant deny , i always have a funny mental picture in my mind when i go to the condo's of me getting naked in the elevator , and running down the hallway with a hard on .
The door swings open as i get close and a woman is bent over wearing a mouth guard , and a sign overhead says "Bring it".

Better yet , she hands me a mouth guard and says "You're going to need this"

 

[IFUSEEKAMY]

:LMAO:

 

[Sebelle Knowswell]

Great idea for a thread,may i add...

Do's

Be on time,i understand,SOMETIMES,things do happen but being on time shows respect.
Have an unscented liquid soap for the guys,that might avoid some questions...
Clean up after each guy,the next one do not need any reminders many has passed before him.

Don't s

Do not pick up your phone while with a gentleman,be respectul of HIS time,the call/text can wait...
Do NOT put parfume with a strong scent,a body lotion with a nice scent will suffice and will go away as soon as he jumps in the shower.

Thats what i have on the top of my head...

 

[dreamblade]

The legendary Nina Hartley gives advice to new Adult Performers. Most of this is very much applicable to being a Sex Worker as well:

 

[Mariner]

Prick, if you only knew what Ida was saying about you.:shout:

You should hear what she has to say about you. Gives lie to much of your sanctimony.

 

[HOF]

The legendary Nina Hartley gives advice to new Adult Performers. Most of this is very much applicable to being a Sex Worker as well:

Great advice and I'd still love to shag Nina Hartley

 

[JDHomersimpson]

i would also think that those thinking of digits, trim those fingernails down...(personally I cut all the white tips off).

long fingernails inside must be like the SP scraping her teeth on ur junk. ouch!

 

[kellymartin612]

Don't forget she is human and don't pressure her on something she doesn't want to do. Even for double the money. and behave like a good person.

 

[IFUSEEKAMY]

When were the two threads merged? Good gosh I've been out of it

 

[Cardinal Fang]

Don't forget she is human and don't pressure her on something she doesn't want to do. Even for double the money. and behave like a good person.

Couldn't agree more.