Invite new members?

[blackram]

You guys have anybody in the other boards that you want to invite in as members of this group?

 

[Skinflute]

No not really, I like this trio.

 

[mmad]

No, other than you two I don't converse with anyone else on a regular basis.
If we do, how do you see it working? Nominate and get agreement or just let a new member join?

 

[blackram]

There's a couple on the other two boards, Ryan1967 & Ukdiamond/Mdelisle6969, who might fit in here. Ryan seems to try out a lot of massage girls. Ukdiamond seems to know how to get a lot of full-service massage. They don't necessarily have Asian GPS like Fraser, but just Generic Massage GPS.

 

[mmad]

I don't have a problem with expanding the group as long as we all understand:
1. Nothing said here goes anywhere else. What happens in DOB stays in DOB. I would not appreciate being open and frank in this group only to find the information repeated elsewhere.
2. Can't think of #2 yet, need some help :slap:

 

[mmad]

Like my new avatar?
Damn, didn't work.

 

[blackram]

1. Nothing said here goes anywhere else. What happens in DOB stays in DOB. I would not appreciate being open and frank in this group only to find the information repeated elsewhere.

It's true, that was one of the problems with the Montreal Massage forums, stuff used to leak out because some members wanted to trade inside info for favours from the MP's. But MM's forums had automatic promotions, based on simple post-count, whereas here we would only let people in who we knew.

But point taken, maybe we should wait to invite people that we might invite to the strip clubs first?

 

[mmad]

But point taken, maybe we should wait to invite people that we might invite to the strip clubs first

Good idea!

 

[Skinflute]

Like MMAD, I converse with only you guys. MMAD has a good point regarding leaks, I can't afford anything going out there. Blackram, Another option to increase your network would be for you to create a private forum with the two members you mentioned, it may be the best way to go.

 

[mmad]

I think creating too many small forums would be a PITA. One private forum is ok as long as we have some way of vetting the members and they understand the confidentiality of what is said here. Maybe something like nominating a new member then the existing members have some time to review their posts and activity on the other boards. If there are no objections we can either meet them in person at some point, for those that wish, then add them as a member if there are no objections. My 2 cent!!

 

[Skinflute]

We are a trio and over time we have learned to trust each other, as Blackram stated regarding the Montreal forum, members on the private forum were used as bargaining chips to exchange information. We share our intimate visits with MA's in detail, you know where I live, I know where you live not to mention other personal info. With new members in the private forum, we have no guarantee that info would not be shared or used against us.
The bigger the network, the risk of information leaking out may have life changing consequences is much greater. Loose lips sink ships.

 

[Skinflute]

We are a trio and over time we have learned to trust each other, as Blackram stated regarding the Montreal forum, members on the private forum were used as bargaining chips to exchange information. We share our intimate visits with MA's in detail, you know where I live, I know where you live not to mention other personal info. With new members in the private forum, we have no guarantee that info would not be shared or used against us or the nature of or activities. The bigger the network, the risk of information leaking out is much greater.

 

[blackram]

Speaking of new members, maybe we should invite a few more people to the Playmate gatherings some day? I was thinking of Slurp, because he and I used to both know Erica pretty well, and he also seems to have an Asian GPS like Mmad, but he seems to be mostly out of town these days and not as active in these forums anymore. Another possibility is Ryan1967, who I mentioned before.

Obviously inviting somebody to the PM would not automatically mean inviting them to this group right away.

 

[mmad]

Based on Slurp's posts I have no problem at all, would like to see him at the PM one day !!
As for Ryan, I'll have to check his posts.

 

[blackram]

Okay, I'll get in contact with Slurp and Ryan and see if they're interested in joining our PM Wednesdays.

 

[mmad]

For sure, I just checked out Ryan's posts on **** and it would be a pleasure to meet him, especially if he has a liking for Asians :writing:

 

[blackram]

Yeah, you can't say T-erb or C-erb without obfuscating it a little first. Otherwise the automatic site filters blank them out, like this **** & cerb.

PS-looks like it's only T-erb that gets filtered out.

 

[Skinflute]

I remember Slurp from C+ERb........he also has a Asian GPS.

 

[Skinflute]

Now I remember SLURP more in detail, I recommended to SLURP the MA by the name of EWA on Canotek, he got the whole 9.9 yards. :biggrin2:

 

[blackram]

Yeah, Slurp seems to have a way with the Asian ladies, even gets them to buy him dinner sometimes, or so he says. :wink2:

BTW, haven't had a chance to contact Slurp yet, but Ryan seems to be quite interested!