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Do you know the connection between blue balls and sex? Have you ever heard someone ask you, "What are blue balls?" "Blue balls" is a slang term referring to testicular aching that may occur when the blood that fills the vessels in a male's genital area during sexual arousal is not dissipated by orgasm.
When a man becomes sexually excited, the arteries carrying blood to the genital area enlarge, while the veins carrying blood from the genital area are more constricted than in the non-aroused state.
This uneven blood flow causes an increase in volume of blood trapped in the genitals and contributes to the penis becoming erect and the testicles becoming engorged with blood. During this process of vasocongestion the testicles increase in size 25-50 percent.
If the male reaches orgasm and ejaculates, the arteries and veins return to their normal size, the volume of blood in the genitals is reduced and the penis and testicles return to their usual size rather quickly.
If ejaculation does not occur there may be a lingering sensation of heaviness, aching, or discomfort in the testicles due to the continued vasocongestion. This unpleasant feeling has popularly been called blue balls, perhaps because of the bluish tint that appears when blood engorges the vessels in the testicles


Yes I know this now, but like you I didn't have the internet back then, and really I never would have done what I did if I had realized I was inflicting actual pain.

Now I really try not to rub the lamp if I don't want the genie to come out. :tongue:
 
When I look back, it seems that most of my favorite bj memories involved the possibility of getting caught. A hotel stairwell at an industry party, in the car in the theater parking lot, in his office in the middle of a workday...somehow the risk just raises the Heat level, doesn't it? :tongue:

It certainly does!

A good BJ is good, but a really memorable BJ needs a little something extra. :)
 
BJ's are like any other part of sex, there are those who are good at it and those who are not so good. I would also consider it if not sex, a part of it. I define sex as any sort of erotic touching of the genitalia, or any action where one party is attempting to blow a load. Having said that, I have probably had well over 2,000 BJ's in my life, (not to be confused with 2,000 partners), and while the majority of them have been good, it is rare to fine one that is great. A few have been downright awful as well. What works well for one man might not work well for another, the same as women.
 
What works well for one man might not work well for another, the same as women.

I just wish women (in general) realized this when they are bitching about how good, or how awful, their guy is in bed.......oh and I wish women realized that, when a guy gives them a little hint as to what they're doing wrong, they would take it and run with it instead of getting all upset that "they aren't doing it right" or "how to do it better". Just like I have NO problem when a woman tells me "that feels good" or "do this instead of that"....

Recently, I was going down on someone and they said to me in a cross voice: YOU CAN LIKE MY HOLE ALL YOU WANT BUT IT DOESN'T DO SHIT FOR ME.....really, just totally turned me off....a perfect example of how NOT to voice your preferences lol....
 
I can't stand it when a woman pulls my skin too far back OUCH! I like it slow and deep with alot of tongue twirling.
 
Thanks for the reminder PrimO, just in-case I ever think of getting married I just have to remember the lack of blowjobs a marriage license means.:lol:
 
Sillygirl the time will come when we meet one day so show me then what a good blowjob is :tongue::go:
 
All talk and no action!

All talk and no action!

Gotta hand it to you, SillyGirl.

You said "Let's talk about blowjobs" and that's all these guys have been doing.

Talk, talk, talk.

Surprisingly, no one has yet said "pictures or it didn't happen."

Now is time to lead by example. Here's some action:



[video]https://www.youporn.com/watch/605721/xart-more-than-just-friends[/video]
 
Gotta hand it to you, SillyGirl.

You said "Let's talk about blowjobs" and that's all these guys have been doing.

Talk, talk, talk.

Surprisingly, no one has yet said "pictures or it didn't happen."

Now is time to lead by example. Here's some action:



[video]https://www.youporn.com/watch/605721/xart-more-than-just-friends[/video]


:shock::shock:

Actually I think Esco was kind enough to provide video earlier.

This is off-topic but it's been on my mind...for the single guys and girls...do you think the hobby has skewed your attitudes toward civilian relationships? Has it changed the way you look at/deal with civvies?

I'm asking because it was suggested to me that perhaps it's not a good thing that I know what Mr. SheetBurners jizz tastes like but I don't know his last name. Although it seems perfectly normal to me, apparently there's something in the Civvie Rule Book about that. :neutral: and it made me wonder if it's a bad thing that I'm so casual about all of it, but at the same time I don't want the capital-R Relationship so many are looking for, so what's a girl to do?

sigh...I suppose I could start by finding out his last name. Is it twisted that it seems such a personal thing to ask?
 
There are no rules, stick to the ones you make for yourself but feel free to change them.
I don't see anything wrong with not wanting a relationship and still enjoying sex with strangers that you've screened first.
You're being very honest with yourself and with your partner of the moment. :great:
 
sigh...I suppose I could start by finding out his last name. Is it twisted that it seems such a personal thing to ask?

It is a personal thing. And what purpose would it serve you to know it anyhow? Are you going to doodle his name all over your binder? :tongue: You are forgetting that he may have equally enough hangups about divulging that information.
 
It really depends if it is just casual sex or a relationship. If it's casual FB sex a last name is not important at all.
 
Thank you, of course you are right and I'm glad, because I don't feel the need to know his last name. This isn't a relationship.

Amy, LOL about the doodle. :tongue:
 
It's nice when she (giver) cares, considerate, worships, takes pride in her BJ skills :)
 
This is off-topic but it's been on my mind...for the single guys and girls...do you think the hobby has skewed your attitudes toward civilian relationships? Has it changed the way you look at/deal with civvies?

Well my view on relationships is rather skewed to begin with, so I doubt the hobby has had too much of an impact.

I'm asking because it was suggested to me that perhaps it's not a good thing that I know what Mr. SheetBurners jizz tastes like but I don't know his last name. Although it seems perfectly normal to me, apparently there's something in the Civvie Rule Book about that. :neutral: and it made me wonder if it's a bad thing that I'm so casual about all of it, but at the same time I don't want the capital-R Relationship so many are looking for, so what's a girl to do?

sigh...I suppose I could start by finding out his last name. Is it twisted that it seems such a personal thing to ask?

I'm with the others, if what you have is working for you, then why change it? What I got mightn't be working how I'd like, but I look at how it could be working, and....
 
So is she:

[video]https://www.youporn.com/watch/514596/xart-beautiful-blowjob/[/video]
 
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