Looking For Advice ~ Red Headed Bombshell ~ Elite Courtesan~ Humbly Asking

[Luscious Liv]

To Whom That Cares


I am an elite courtesan looking for some information regarding marketing and promotion. I am interested in meeting clients who are interested in exclusive one on one appointments. That is more interested in quality and mutual pleasure. I am hoping to find gentleman that understand that is takes a long time to look my best.... Honestly it takes me 45 minutes to diffuse my hair, not to mention choosing an outfit that I think is flattering and appropriate, as well as make up that is neither too much nor too little. It takes me 20 mins to wash and conditions my hair so actually getting ready takes forever!! I really care about every detail... even if you think you don't notice it makes a big difference. It makes me feel prepared, sexy and properly groomed.

I want to find gentlemen that are more interested in a woman that is fully into the experience their having than than the exact services and procedure commonly followed. I want every experience to be unique and exciting. I enjoy what I do as long as the other person appreciates it as much as I do.... Takes the time to share his interests and desires.

So before I ramble on and on, the question I am asking is how does one market towards this clients? Any advice on what to say or where to say it? I know it is not the general market and that I am catering to a specific type of gentleman but if you could help me clarify and define my focus that would be greatly appreciated. I LOVE making people fulfilled, but to make someone really satisfied you need to give them your full undivided, attention. If I have other clients on the same day I am not able to give them what they deserve and need completely.

Just sme helpful hints... Please no criticisms... Thank You
:-D

 

[papasmerf]

no mater how you look at it there is a concept of market rate.
If this is your only means of income you need to adjust to that.

If this is a supplemental income you have the edge.
Seek older and mature men who understand that their pleasure is increased by giving you pleasure.

 

[Thriller]

There are many men that would want to meet and spend time with a woman as you. I know as between conversations with my friends this is what they are looking for. All are married and do not want the quickies but also don't want an affair. I just cruise in here for entertainment. But trust me there are guys what you are seeking for out there.

Good luck.

 

[meist]

It's like any retail marketplace, say for example purchasing a hat.

You have shoppers that care only about pricing bargains (Wal-mart) regardless of quality or ethics; selective shoppers; comparative shoppers; brand loyalty shoppers; regional shoppers; etc., etc.


I guess the question is how do you see yourself?
If you see yourself as an Elite Courtesan, then you will have to stick to your guns as market yourself as an Elite Courtesan. Don't start offering 30min/$65 specials (thereby cheapening your brand).

Study your competition that market themselves as Elite Courtesan. There's a reason why they are still active. They offer impeccable service and experience, and they continue to get return clients.

It's a competitive marketplace, especially in the GTA.
So figure out what your strengths are that makes you distinguishable.

Hope this helps.

:good:

 

[ChaosTheory]

To Whom That Cares

I care

Hi Liv, welcome to HUBGFE. I must say you are extremely beautiful, intelligent and hot!

I wish I could help you in this area but I lack the true practical experience of SP marketing (I should have been an agency owner..sigh..lol) and any advice I could give would be a product of conjecture.
However,
I notice you are a twitter: https://twitter.com/Luscious_Liv
I have followed you

There seems to be many SPs ("elite" and otherwise) and other providers (MPs, strippers etc) on twitter in varies degrees of activity. It seems to be a practical and effective way to market/interact/make yourself visible and on the forefront of a clients mind when they are looking for some provisions of the sexual nature..lol.

I wish you the best of success Liv.

 

[Firefox]

It's like any retail marketplace, say for example purchasing a hat.

You have shoppers that care only about pricing bargains (Wal-mart) regardless of quality or ethics; selective shoppers; comparative shoppers; brand loyalty shoppers; regional shoppers; etc., etc.


I guess the question is how do you see yourself?
If you see yourself as an Elite Courtesan, then you will have to stick to your guns as market yourself as an Elite Courtesan. Don't start offering 30min/$65 specials (thereby cheapening your brand).

Study your competition that market themselves as Elite Courtesan. There's a reason why they are still active. They offer impeccable service and experience, and they continue to get return clients.

It's a competitive marketplace, especially in the GTA.
So figure out what your strengths are that makes you distinguishable.

Hope this helps.

:good:

Good suggestion. So is the one to market yourself on Twitter.

 

[-b]

You are doing great now....Hi....:wink2:

Research some of the other Elites or pm them....Good luck...

 

[God]

Charging $400 per hour is a good start, weeds out kids and those that just want a quick fix.

 

[RAWD]

Price high to weed out the cheap guys.

To be frank, the prep time is not really something we care about. We also pretty much assume that any lady at an "average" market segment or above will be properly groomed (hygiene, etc). What will set you apart as an elite courtesan is your service, attitude and discretion.

I hope you don't mind a bit of constructive criticism. Your post sounds like you are trying hard to use big words and fancy language to convey an impression of sophistication. Unfortunately, your grammar and syntax is wrong in many instances. Respectfully, using simple language and being yourself will go a lot farther in impressing guys who are looking for a genuine and sincere companion. All the best!

 

[dreamblade]

Hello Liv, it's a pleasure to meet you.

Unlike others, I don't think price point is a determining factor in what type of clientel you may find interested. In fact, you may find many an entitled jerk quite willing to pay you 500$+ /hr when what you seem to want is a date with a gentleman suitor.

An eloquent description of your preparatory ritual, like the one you wrote above, on your website will set the tone. Having a 2hr minimum will guarantee more of a date experience than a quick vulgar bang. A list of favourite alcohols (be it wine, scotch, liqueurs), and an expectation that the gentleman suitor bring one for your date will help, too.

Vocabulary is also a key. Refer to your clients as gentlemen suitors sets a a different tone than the generic "client"... Equally, you do not have appointments, you offer dates or rendez-vous. Offer themed packages in the vein that you enjoy.

Use that vocabulary in your twitter posts. Find interesting things your clients, past, present, and future, may want to know about you, or your passions.

Finally, be the sexiest, sultriest version of you that you can be. Let it be your mindset when composing on your website, twitter, or in a rendez-vous.

 

[dreamblade]

On a silly note:

Honestly it takes me 45 minutes to diffuse my hair

Hire a bomb squad, they'll do it in 5. :biggrin2:

 

[Borey The Bald II]

Hello Liv, it's a pleasure to meet you.

Unlike others, I don't think price point is a determining factor in what type of clientel you may find interested. In fact, you may find many an entitled jerk quite willing to pay you 500$+ /hr when what you seem to want is a date with a gentleman suitor.

An eloquent description of your preparatory ritual, like the one you wrote above, on your website will set the tone. Having a 2hr minimum will guarantee more of a date experience than a quick vulgar bang. A list of favourite alcohols (be it wine, scotch, liqueurs), and an expectation that the gentleman suitor bring one for your date will help, too.

Vocabulary is also a key. Refer to your clients as gentlemen suitors sets a a different tone than the generic "client"... Equally, you do not have appointments, you offer dates or rendez-vous. Offer themed packages in the vein that you enjoy.

Use that vocabulary in your twitter posts. Find interesting things your clients, past, present, and future, may want to know about you, or your passions.

Finally, be the sexiest, sultriest version of you that you can be. Let it be your mindset when composing on your website, twitter, or in a rendez-vous.

+ 1

 

[a 1 player]

Making me wish I want a beer and ribs kinda guy.

 

[Bridgette_xo]

Step 1: Start thread listing what sets you apart and toss in a question to make it relevant.

Step 2: Wait.

 

[papasmerf]

Step 1: Start thread listing what sets you apart and toss in a question to make it relevant.

Step 2: Wait.

Step 3. Serve bacon

 

[Shiek]

Welcome to HUBGFE Liv, You are on a site with what I consider to be the best reviewers around. I organize private Indy events that are RSVP only and plan to have one in late June. Please get in touch with me and I'll pass you the information you need.

 

[Bridgette_xo]

Step 3. Serve tempeh bacon

Correct. :biggrin2:

 

[papasmerf]

Correct. :biggrin2:

:SayWhat?::slap:

 

[Luscious Liv]

I really appreciate all the suggestions everyone has made, I didn't expect so many so quickly. As per the word choices I make, I really enjoy writing and happen to be a bit of nerd like that. I truly enjoy writing essays(I don't even know anyone else that does) and looking into a thesaurus to find different words to use, that I feel represent what I am saying as accurately as possible. I really dislike repeating the same words over and over finding that it makes boring and not very artistic. I will go out of my way to prevent it, thus making it appear that I am trying too hard, or have a haughty attitude. Grammar is not my strongest area and when I am writing I usually tend to get other people to read it over so they can point out my errors. I also have a very conversation style of writing which does not always translate well into I will keep that in mind when I am writing. Although one could say that it does give a very sincere and genuine window into my personality since it shows I care about the small details, keeping it interesting, and not being afraid to learn new ways to express myself. Your advice is very insightful so thank you RAWD.

About Twitter if only I really understood it well enough to use it to to the greatest advantage. I am not the type of person that likes to sit in front of the computer and spend a great deal of time on social media websites. I know I should read up on it but I prefer personal encounters as opposed to learning from a screen, it will just take time. The comment about not caring about the amount of time it takes to get ready is exactly why I stated it, guys don't understand the work that gets put into it, especially when you are a bit of an artistic perfectionist like I tend to be. Yeah you expect it but do you really realize the amount of time it takes, unless your wife is in a profession where her looks are critiqued and consistently scrutinized. T.V. and Film have people doing their hair and make up so it is just so. I want my appearance to be better than that, since we are meeting face to face and everything you are is completely revealed.

Okay last question..... I have been told I am a genius when it comes to cooking, not formally trained but passionate and intuitive when it comes to flavour matching. So the question is should I offer to do a dinner date in my home where I am the one cooking us a romantic meal served to your tastes? Do you think there would be interest in an experience like that

Feed back??

 

[Shiek]

I think you just captured Papa's heart....