You're right, as the first thing an addict has to do is admit they have a problem, and only they have to decide they really want help and actually do it, and not just talk about doing it. Drugs and alcohol sure have ruined a lot of decent people's lives, and indirectly including their friends and family. I wonder how many girls wouldn't be sp/mp if they didn't have a drug problem to support...probably a lot more than we think, as many hide it well, and all those ads would be greatly reduced if they weren't.