cristycurves said:
I'm not sure who the "Daddy" is.....
but I'll answer your questions, my twenty something me would have wanted to date him, then I was into big physically intimidating guys. Bikers, mob guys, you know the types.
Now I like men who are kind, considerate, confident and who have goals and achieve them. Their physical stature and looks are irrelevant. So since I don't know this guy, I can't say if he'd turn me on or not
and he's too young for me anyways
Cristy, your response is exactly what I would expect, from most women who answer the question honestly. This is an important point to consider:
Women are attracted to the 'bad boy' types during their youth, based on evolutionary biology: ie: your eyes are attracted to the guy with the six-pack abs, and V shaped torso, in the same way that the young man is attracted naturally to the woman with a classic hourglass figure. These are seen as being beneficial for procreative sexual partners' ie: Each would like their offspring to have similar physical traits. The type of person who is best suited for genetic attraction, however, is often not the best choice for nurturing children, who may or may not carry his genes, (there is never any doubt as to a child's maternity).
Each of us is descended from individuals who did not go 'extinct'. Any man or woman who is infertile 'goes extinct'. Any man or woman who choses not to reproduce 'goes extinct'. Any monogamous man/ woman with an infertile spouse 'goes extinct'. Certain types of people are common, because that type of person is biologically successful. They may have horrible traits in addition to their 'sex appeal', but from an evolutionary point of view, they are successes. Apparently, something like 20% or more of the population of much of Eurasia carries the genes of Genghis Khan's grandfather, because the Mongols conquered much of that area, killing the men and male children, and raping the women, who later bore children, fathered by the invaders. While that may be seen as morally reprehensible, from a biological point of view, it was a winning strategy. The Khans were fruitful, and they multiplied.
We see this as well in the animal kingdom, for example, when a lion supplants the previous male head of a pride, all of the lion cubs from the previous alpha are killed, because the females will not go into heat, while nursing. The lion, or the sexual predator, don't care about nurturing young, they just care about passing on their genes. Morality is not a component of biological imperative.
In recent years, where the focus has been more on recreational sex, rather than procreative, there are interesting 'winners and losers'. The biggest loser, in this scenario, is the common 'fat chick'. The reason why is that fat equals fertility. Very thin women have a lot of difficulty becoming pregnant. That makes them excellent choices when one wishes to avoid an 'accidental pregnancy'. 'Fat chicks' are abundant, because they have all of the natural advantages for conception and bringing a baby to term: Their wide hips make them less likely to die during childbirth. Their extra pounds mean that they can 'feed' a child, in utero, even if food is scarce. The urge to 'eat for two' exists, whether or not they are pregnant. If they are a mother, they can flaunt that, over thin women, who are unable to conceive.
The problem is, guys know this, too. They avoid sex with fat chicks, specifically because they don't want their offspring to be undesireable to the majority. If your daughter is physically attractive, traditionally, a wealthy suitor will pay a dowry for her reproductive rights, and she will not lack for food and shelter. If your daughter is unattractive, she is less likely to move away from home soon, and will be a drain on one's resources, long after attaining puberty. If a man's son is a 'stud', his father has some assurance that his line of extent will not go extinct. If his son is a pussy, that man may well consider himself to be 'next to last', on his individual family tree.
As an Escort, however, 'dating' him can be a single tryst, Cristy. 'Fess up, would you want a night with a 'young greek god' type, who may have a MILF fetish, or would you just like to look at the pictures? I've never met the guy, but I'm sure he has his admirers, who think of him when they close their eyes to kiss someone else, and he'd have plenty of detractors, who are jealous that he won in the genetics lottery, and they didn't.
