Need help from the ladies on board

[shakeandbake]

Okay so I was having sex with the SO last night and all was going well. I was on the side then moved to on top. I was thrusting deep but not hard or fast just slow and easy. After 10 mins or so she said ouch and said it hurt. Moved to the side and continued. Another couple minutes go by and she says get off and is almost in tears. I didnt know what to think or say. I could hear her weeping from the bathroom. She came back and said "sorry but it just really hurt for some reason" I said no worries and we went to bed. In the morning she said she was over tired etc and said she will make it up to me.

My question for the ladies is : Is this a common thing to happen? I have never had this happen before.

To be honest my mind keeps going to thoughts of perhaps i was doing something that reminded her of a really bad sexual experience in the past... I am very perceptive and this is what my gut is telling me.

Please offer any thoughts or wisdom

 

[IFUSEEKAMY]

It has happened to me before when the person I'm with hasn't been careful enough to restrain his thrusts and I haven't been able to push away fast enough. Sometimes it just takes one touch too deep and if you hit the very back in just the wrong way, it's immensely painful. Except for one time, when it's happened to me, I just wince and bear it. Wait until the person has left, to curl up into a ball and console my body haha. I don't want him feeling guilty cuz there's nothing he did wrong per se. It's not like he's an SO and knows my physical thresholds that well.

I think she's most likely correct in that she was overtired and so the wrong movement from you, felt exponentially worse to her physically.
But there is also a slim chance that you are correct and something in the circumstance triggered an earlier negative occurrence. I would never put anything past the human mind.

 

[shakeandbake]

Thanks Amy,

I do recall hitting the very back when I was on top and had her legs up . That was the "ouch" so it is definitely possible that she was experiencing what you did. Perhaps its just the time of the month or slight variation in position... I hit the back every time we have sex and its hasnt been a big issue ....

The other stuff may very well just all be in my head ...

 

[IFUSEEKAMY]

It IS possible to hit the back but not with as much force. Men underestimate the power of their pelvic bone

 

[Cardinal Fang]

Men underestimate the power of their pelvic bone

And we overestimate the size of our exterior bone.

 

[SillyGirl]

I agree with Amy. Indoor plumbing is very complicated...what feels great one day can hurt like hell the next.

As to your other thought, well yes it's a possibility. But if you are correct, she obviously doesn't want to discuss it. You should leave it alone and accept the explanation you were given.

 

[Boing]

I never had that problem :sorry2:

 

[shakeandbake]

I agree with Amy. Indoor plumbing is very complicated...what feels great one day can hurt like hell the next.

As to your other thought, well yes it's a possibility. But if you are correct, she obviously doesn't want to discuss it. You should leave it alone and accept the explanation you were given.

I will leave it and respect her choice (assuming of course that my hunch is right)

As far as plumbing you ummm hit the nail on the head here because I can clearly recall other times hitting the back , Although is think it was in doggie , and he actually pushing back .... anywhooooo like you said , what feels good one day may not the next.

 

[shakeandbake]

This sounds more like bragging than a question! Praise-Bowing

My SO has no worries about me going too deep but sometimes the lube has stickied up or she sometimes has issues with internal dry spots that seem to make her uncomfortable (at least that is what she tells me). Just make sure that you take good care of her and give her time to "heal" up. One bad experience can ruin a sex life if it starts to repeat itself.

No bragging here , I am average in size. She is height challenged and 5 foot 3 where I am 6 foot 1. So when tab A goes in slot B it hits the back.

 

[User-E]

I will leave it and respect her choice (assuming of course that my hunch is right)

As far as plumbing you ummm hit the nail on the head here because I can clearly recall other times hitting the back , Although is think it was in doggie , and he actually pushing back .... anywhooooo like you said , what feels good one day may not the next.

That changes everything ...

 

[HOF]

I'd have to meet your SO to find out more about the problem!Hmmmmmm:wink2::-Cool/";/Waving://:LMAO:

 

[Senor Gomes]

I never had that problem :sorry2:

Tough life having small dicks :aggressive2:

 

[Madman]

I've never hit the back either. OH NO, tell me it ain't so!!:Crying/:

 

[Cardinal Fang]

One bad experience can ruin a sex life if it starts to repeat itself.

This is so true and I would add that the psychological ramifications of it can last longer than any physical pain.

 

[shakeandbake]

That changes everything ...

LMFAO , typo dear , my SO is definitely a she

 

[shakeandbake]

This is so true and I would add that the psychological ramifications of it can last longer than any physical pain.

I agree and this is why the crying kinda made me think there is more to it. I get if it hurts and she says " sorry this really hurts, we have to stop" But this was more like an " i cant" ... maybe my mind is now adding to the story as I reflect back but I cant say for sure.

One thing i can say is she said that she will make it up with a great bj and I will cash that one in tonight..

 

[shakeandbake]

I'd have to meet your SO to find out more about the problem!Hmmmmmm:wink2::-Cool/";/Waving://:LMAO:

And then you woke up

 

[papasmerf]

And then you woke up

ahhh come on share the Boy Wonder with HOF

I too saw what you wrote.

 

[shakeandbake]

ahhh come on share the Boy Wonder with HOF

I too saw what you wrote.

Last I checked HOF doesn't need help to get some man ass ....ZING