OK, my wife left me.

[Bubba]

I don't blame her. Tough pill to swallow but I knew it was coming.

Gents I am sucking it in. There, I've said it. Don't play unless you have to pay. Paying for sex is not what it used to be. You cannot buy loneliness. Christ, it doesn't help if you have step children that do not have a focus on life.

 

[-b]

I don't blame her. Tough pill to swallow but I knew it was coming.

Gents I am sucking it in. There, I've said it. Don't play unless you have to pay. Paying for sex is not what it used to be. You cannot buy loneliness.

I am sorry Babba....if you need to talk pm me......

Here is a hug.......I feel for you....

 

[Transient]

Sorry to hear that Bubba.
Hang in there.

 

[Maurice Boscorelli]

Bubba she sounds like a real cunt to me.

Hang in there bro I've been there myself and there are brighter days ahead for you.

 

[papasmerf]

it is easy to say accept it and move on.
In practice that is pretty tough to do.

Spend the time thinking about the good times and not the bad.
Not who is at fault but how you both can civil

One thing I learned a long time ago it the stronger the love is the deeper the hate will be.

Ya let all that go and remember the love.

 

[WOLF]

Sorry man. It hurts but may be for the better.

 

[Dan]

Sorry Bubba, was it for another man dude?

 

[WOLF]

Bubba, was your dick too small?.

Sorry, had to say that. Guilty as sin here.

 

[papasmerf]

Sorry Bubba, was it for another man dude?

does it matter?

 

[Dan]

It matters on the hate meter. It is hard to be cordial if there was another man involved.

 

[papasmerf]

It matters on the hate meter. It is hard to be cordial if there was another man involved.

na
it is never worth sacrificing your ability to love with the power of hate.

believe me I know because I did that.

 

[L._s.]

sorry to hear. try to stay positive and move on. Also try to settle the financial stuff - hopefully she will not be a cunt about that.

 

[Danolo]

Hey Bubba, "make a new plan, Stan and set yourself free"...

Don't dwell on the past, but rather focus on the future...do all the things you need so do to make yourself stronger... work out, eat right, plenty of sleep, organize your environment, brush up your resume, do the laundry, cook a healthy meal for yourself, get a haircut, buy some new clothes...

If you do this, you will become stronger and better able to handle the pain. You will also become more attractive and will draw towards you the people you deserve in your life..

be well...

 

[IFUSEEKAMY]

So sorry to hear that Bubba. Don't allow this to destroy you. Try and hold on to and nurture the best parts of yourself. Hugs and kisses

 

[Danolo]

Oh, yes... also, Bubba, I suggest you go see Amy.... She will cuddle you and help you heal...

 

[oldguyzer]

As you can tell from the responses so far, you're not alone in this. Many of us have been through the same, or similar, situations. The one fact that's true for all is that time helps. Short term it'll hurt like a sonofabitch, but it will get better each day.

 

[papasmerf]

also remember that alcohol is not your friend.

A set of golf clubs is

 

[oldguyzer]

also remember that alcohol is not your friend.

A set of golf clubs is

Ot anything that gets you distracted, Activity is good. Sitting at home in the dark is not. Get out, do stuff, stay distracted.

 

[RAWD]

it is easy to say accept it and move on.
In practice that is pretty tough to do.

Spend the time thinking about the good times and not the bad.
Not who is at fault but how you both can civil

One thing I learned a long time ago it the stronger the love is the deeper the hate will be.

Ya let all that go and remember the love.

I would find this hard to do at the early stages. It would drive me crazy. But, if there's hope of reconciliation and you need a "come to Jesus" moment, this might shake you up.

Hey Bubba, "make a new plan, Stan and set yourself free"...

Don't dwell on the past, but rather focus on the future...do all the things you need so do to make yourself stronger... work out, eat right, plenty of sleep, organize your environment, brush up your resume, do the laundry, cook a healthy meal for yourself, get a haircut, buy some new clothes...

If you do this, you will become stronger and better able to handle the pain. You will also become more attractive and will draw towards you the people you deserve in your life..

be well...

Excellent advice. What an opportunity for a fresh start.

also remember that alcohol is not your friend.

A set of golf clubs is

Papasmerf is a wise man. Don't mope or sit alone at home. Get out.



Bubba - if you need some company to hit some balls at the range or to smack some balls around a course when it warms up, pm me.

 

[Madman]

Rawd, that is a nice offer for our friend Bubba. Perhaps after you smack one another's balls you can go for a good waxing too!:LMAO:

Sorry dude but you left the opening and you know I have to cease the moment!

Bubba, trust me brother you will love the freedom. It is the best thing in the world to not listen to the nagging, the mind games and the lack of BJ's!

Look at it as the cup half full and get out there and have fun, keep your cool or the only ones who will make money will be the lawyers!