Overnights

[nntsci]

I have a rare opportunity coming up soon where my wife will be out of the country for a week and am planning on enjoying my time.
I'm thinking of spending an over night with a lady.
I haven't actually spent a night with a women other then my wife in 30 years.
Its about time!!! LOL
I previously had a similar opportunity, but the lady who I asked decided a couple days before that her dog needed her to come home (and didn't want to burden her roommate). lol.

Edit: not at my home... at a hotel

My questions:
Is it worth it?
The lady I've asked this time, does not have a listed donation for overnight and we haven't discussed donation at all. Any idea what a decent donation is?

 

[Valid]

Don't do it at home man, just DON'T do it. Happily married or not, keep the hobby away from home. Too many bad things can happen which are too many to mention.

Just my 2 cents.

 

[Guido]

Don't shit where you eat, brother.

 

[justfor]

Been there, done that! But at the end, it is really not worth the risks.

To answer your question, the typical donation is from $1000 to around $2000.

 

[DannyDevito]

Don't you dare ask that question again.

 

[nntsci]

Don't do it at home man, just DON'T do it. Happily married or not, keep the hobby away from home. Too many bad things can happen which are too many to mention.

Just my 2 cents.

No, not doing it at home... renting a hotel... too risky at home [neighbours], but also too inconvenient for her.

 

[Prick]

Masturbate twice then rethink about it. You can have 4 to 5 sp for the price of one.

 

[nntsci]

Masturbate twice then rethink about it. You can have 4 to 5 sp for the price of one.

Thanks, but the money per se, isn't that big an issue for me.

 

[The Voice]

I think @DILLIGAF is well suited to answer your questions. Hopefully he chimes in. I've never done it but if I were to, I'd have a plan lined up. And not just the usual go to sleep after sex plan. Plan some activities that you will both enjoy. Movies, dinner, sport game, etc. Hell maybe a trip to Oasis or some other sex club. Treat it as an opportunity to check some items off your bucket list and make the most of the time you have. Take your time in your research, and don't be afraid to ask lots of questions when booking. I would probably not book someone that I haven't seen before and will likely book someone that I've seen at least 2 or 3 times in shorter dates. This will help ensure compatibility over the course of a longer date.

 

[cristycurves]

I've done it a few times and the rate is from my experience 2000+, depends, some men and women consider all night to be 24hrs, others, 12hrs. Really it doesn't matter what anyone else charges it is what do you find justifiable and what does she find acceptable, and hopefully the two match. This type of encounter is best shared with someone you've met before, there has to be a strong level of trust obviously, since you'll actually be sleeping Enjoy, I hope it goes better than you expect

 

[Madman]

It is expensive and it depends on the fact you are paying for sleep time LOL....

I prefer overnights with ladies outside the industry. It's much more fun with a woman who actually wants to spend the night with you but to each their own.

 

[cristycurves]

It is expensive and it depends on the fact you are paying for sleep time LOL....

I prefer overnights with ladies outside the industry. It's much more fun with a woman who actually wants to spend the night with you but to each their own.

MM, part of an overnights "delight" is to sleep with someone. To fall asleep cuddled next to someone and to wake up in their arms....
I'm saddened to hear that you feel that an escort wouldn't "actually" want to be with her date. I can assure you, there are plenty of us who do choose our dates and do so with pleasure and excitement of whats to come. Some of us do love what we do, we also love the men we do "it" with But then again, I can only speak for myself

 

[nntsci]

I've done it a few times and the rate is from my experience 2000+, depends, some men and women consider all night to be 24hrs, others, 12hrs. Really it doesn't matter what anyone else charges it is what do you find justifiable and what does she find acceptable, and hopefully the two match. This type of encounter is best shared with someone you've met before, there has to be a strong level of trust obviously, since you'll actually be sleeping Enjoy, I hope it goes better than you expect

The lady I plan to over night with is someone whose company I really enjoy and its mutual... we're both artists and she suggested a couple months ago staying up all night painting together... we'll see how that works... especially after a couple bottles of wine... she also wants me to bring my guitar.
We had a date last month where we spent 7 hours together, but ran out of time (partly due to traffic) and didn't have any time to do any painting... we even had fun in the traffic with the two of us singing along to Radiohead.

 

[nntsci]

I think @DILLIGAF is well suited to answer your questions. Hopefully he chimes in. I've never done it but if I were to, I'd have a plan lined up. And not just the usual go to sleep after sex plan. Plan some activities that you will both enjoy. Movies, dinner, sport game, etc. Hell maybe a trip to Oasis or some other sex club. Treat it as an opportunity to check some items off your bucket list and make the most of the time you have. Take your time in your research, and don't be afraid to ask lots of questions when booking. I would probably not book someone that I haven't seen before and will likely book someone that I've seen at least 2 or 3 times in shorter dates. This will help ensure compatibility over the course of a longer date.

Thanks excellent advise... yes dinner and some travel will be involved. We will engage in some songs and some painting. The lady is someone I've seen before about 7 times and we have a great rapport as friends.

 

[bolt.upright]

It is not often that my wife and progeny are away from home overnight at the same time but one night last summer the stars aligned. I spent the night with a very special lady and it's one of the better memories in my life. I'd do it again in a heartbeat if the situation ever arises.

 

[DILLIGAF]

OK
@ nntsci I have a couple of questions for you
First this person you speak of that you want to have the overnight with. is she a friend or an sp or an sp/friend???
As for cost. This really depends on the sp or the agency. Is this a low end lady? is this someone who is not accustomed to multi hour dates?
A lot of ladies and agencies don't publish an extended time rate (10 + hours) but all you have to do is ask. And it should never be the hourly rate x the number of hours!!!
You should also be specific in what you plans are. Is your time going to involve a public outing. Some sp's will not go out in public not even to a restaurant.
You also need to let them know if this is going to be a relaxing GFE date type of night or is it going to be a PSE romper room affair
With respect to the op that said you are paying for sleep time so that would be a no go for him. Well I look at it like Cristy said. Falling asleep entiwined together with someone and then waking up together and maybe a morning playtime???? Again discuss this with your lady prior to setting the date.
Above all -- do your homework. Read ALL the reviews you can about the lady and the agency if one is involved. Read her blog or her twitter or whatever else shows her personality
Talk to the agency. I use Sassy and Cupids and I have had many overnight encounters and most have been first dates.
I have a motto and it goes like this "Plan your work and work your plan" The only time I got messed up was when I deviated from the plan!
If you want to know more ask away!!
Good luck and hope all goes well.

DILLIGAF

 

[nntsci]

OK
@ nntsci I have a couple of questions for you
First this person you speak of that you want to have the overnight with. is she a friend or an sp or an sp/friend???
As for cost. This really depends on the sp or the agency. Is this a low end lady? is this someone who is not accustomed to multi hour dates?
A lot of ladies and agencies don't publish an extended time rate (10 + hours) but all you have to do is ask. And it should never be the hourly rate x the number of hours!!!
You should also be specific in what you plans are. Is your time going to involve a public outing. Some sp's will not go out in public not even to a restaurant.
You also need to let them know if this is going to be a relaxing GFE date type of night or is it going to be a PSE romper room affair
With respect to the op that said you are paying for sleep time so that would be a no go for him. Well I look at it like Cristy said. Falling asleep entiwined together with someone and then waking up together and maybe a morning playtime???? Again discuss this with your lady prior to setting the date.
Above all -- do your homework. Read ALL the reviews you can about the lady and the agency if one is involved. Read her blog or her twitter or whatever else shows her personality
Talk to the agency. I use Sassy and Cupids and I have had many overnight encounters and most have been first dates.
I have a motto and it goes like this "Plan your work and work your plan" The only time I got messed up was when I deviated from the plan!
If you want to know more ask away!!
Good luck and hope all goes well.

DILLIGAF

Thanks a lot.
I agree, we are working out a plan.
She is a SP and someone I know well and I think of her as a friend.
we've had a previous date of 7 hours that was a great success
but we ran out of time to do everything we had planned on doing
we are arranging this between us
definitely more a relaxing GFE...

 

[DILLIGAF]

Thanks a lot.
I agree, we are working out a plan.
She is a SP and someone I know well and I think of her as a friend.
we've had a previous date of 7 hours that was a great success
but we ran out of time to do everything we had planned on doing
we are arranging this between us
definitely more a relaxing GFE...

That sounds great!!!!!
Make your plans and involve her in the plans. The planning is almost like foreplay!!
Book a nice suite type room and live out a dream.

DILLIGAF

 

[Fuggedabouditt]

I've had many overnights and weekends with travel. Sometimes you find out more about a person when you are both relaxed and have little worry of the long hand ticking away the hour or two. It's not for everyone though, this includes client and SP. Very few SP's would be in it because they want to (I find), not all are like @cristycurves xoxo. The ladies that I have chosen to do this with are ones I have a good rapport with and most of all, good relationship with; I would never do a first date overnight or multi-hour.

Good luck with your lady. Partaking in a mutual hobby (not sex) is great, it's like an old couple that wear the same jackets and bowling shirts.

 

[The Voice]

Excellent thread by the way. :YMAPPLAUSE: