I remember reading reviews from a couple here who would engage in pay for play together. I haven't seen anymore reviews of this nature. I'm assuming the couple in question have changed their lifestyle choices but this is only an assumption on my part. How does a couple practice the pay for play scenario without children and immediate family finding out? I'm curious because last night Ida and myself were out for dinner and we engaged in a conversation with another delightful couple. Ida was shocked when we were asked to join them at their place for coffee and cake. The coffee and cake went over well, the invitation to their boudoir after the coffee was the awkward part and had poor Ida shocked and taken back. We gracefully declined and quickly parted ways. I wasn't shocked as I would have been if I wasn't a member here. I feel guilty a bit because I was more flattered than shocked. This of course was not a pay for play scenario.