Professionalism and Twitter

[Fiddy]

They make SP's lounges for a reason. They offer a place where you can vent about different client issues with your peers. Using your advertising space to vent about clients is just a bad idea. It's likely costing you lots of business.

There's actually a lot ladies with great Twitter pages who are absolutely hitting it totally out of the park. They communicate both personally and professionally. They never post anything about client or use their Twitter page to vent about client or bash people's cities.

I saw one page where a lady had 20 tweets bashing different things about Toronto over a few months. A couple of weeks later she complains about not making any money on her recent visit to Toronto. She Tweets how it was a total waste of time. She talked about how hot she is and how people should be lined-up out the door to see her. What can you say? Would it resonate?

You see ladies venting about different time wasters by posting they chats or Text messages. I totally understand the anger and fustration when someone waste your time. Twitter is a public marketing space. It may be the first and last impression a new potential client may have of you.

You might assume the person will feel your pain and understand your situation. More often than not they only see a provider posting private communications on her Twitter feed. They move on to the next Escort who's using Twitter more effectively and professionally.

 

[cristycurves]

Everybody has different tolerance levels and different ways in which they feel it appropriate to act in life and on line. Why or how anyone does what they do is none of my business, unless I'm involved in the conversation or incident. My twitter account has been critiqued because the majority of my posts involve animal issues, activism and other stuff non-escort related. I also post ads, selfies and what I think are poignant quotes. Some think I shouldn't mix it all, but I say it's all of who I am, so why not. Those who vent and rant about clients, perhaps that is who they are, who knows. But it's very easy to just avoid those who you don't find appealing.
Thank though Fiddy, for your business insight ,I always find it interesting and helpful

 

[Analme]

The twitter feed is very indicative of how many actually screen the ladies. We know many men are complete jerks, it doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure this out but an SP is selling herself as a fantasy and the constant belly aching resembles a wife.

Then lets not get started on the moronic white knights that fuel this behavior which in the end actually hurts their business.

 

[Fiddy]

Everybody has different tolerance levels and different ways in which they feel it appropriate to act in life and on line. Why or how anyone does what they do is none of my business, unless I'm involved in the conversation or incident. My twitter account has been critiqued because the majority of my posts involve animal issues, activism and other stuff non-escort related. I also post ads, selfies and what I think are poignant quotes. Some think I shouldn't mix it all, but I say it's all of who I am, so why not. Those who vent and rant about clients, perhaps that is who they are, who knows. But it's very easy to just avoid those who you don't find appealing.
Thank though Fiddy, for your business insight ,I always find it interesting and helpful

That's the professional web designer and Marketer in me speaking.

It it will always come down to what audience your looking to attract. Some guys will appreciate it and see it as "keeping it real" and other people will see it as unprofessional or a lack of professional discretion.

If I only look at it from the perspective of a client, I love Twitter. It actually helps me decide which ladies I want to spend time with.

I never really used reviews to determine which provider I see. Reviews would only tell me if the provider is legitmate and safe to see. It's next to impossible to use reviews to accurately derteimine a ladies personality.

Everyone has their own perception. People also tend to gravitate towards personalities they have something in common with.

With Twitter, I can say, "this girl is really hot but we will likely have a personality conflict." "This is girl is really sweet, funny and very professional. I'd love to meet her"

My so-so or bad experience is someone else's dream date.

 

[DannyDevito]

You nailed it Fiddy. Now if only they would listen.

 

[Fiddy]

You nailed it Fiddy. Now if only they would listen.

I always ask people these questions.

Why does behaving professionally suddenly mean you're not being true to who you are as a person?

Do do you have to be something your not to be more professional?

 

[Fuggedabouditt]

I concur with Danny. You nailed this. I've tried to touch on this many times in my rants. Perhaps I'm not a wordsmith in the greater sense, but I'm a straight shooter.

One of my reasons for getting off of Twitter was because of SP's as you described in your opening thread. Bashing clients and the city will do you no amount of good. Ranting about clients will do you no good. Making claims about being attacked is not a bad thing, but you must think about the future and how and what you post; if you continue to bash, then sympathy may not come your way (See Abby Rose review).

I see a lot of the Twitter personalities as insight to who they really are. I can only think of one or two regs that are active on Twitter I keep on the roster because they keep it light and fun and businesslike.

I also have to wonder (beyond security reasons) why some public profiles all of a sudden go private.

 

[peace]

to this day I have not joined nor used twitter. I guess I am not missing out much. :neutral:

 

[Jasper]

hmmm, lots of mansplaining in this thread. Hmmmmmm

 

[Fiddy]

Everybody has different tolerance levels and different ways in which they feel it appropriate to act in life and on line. Why or how anyone does what they do is none of my business, unless I'm involved in the conversation or incident. My twitter account has been critiqued because the majority of my posts involve animal issues, activism and other stuff non-escort related. I also post ads, selfies and what I think are poignant quotes. Some think I shouldn't mix it all, but I say it's all of who I am, so why not. Those who vent and rant about clients, perhaps that is who they are, who knows. But it's very easy to just avoid those who you don't find appealing.
Thank though Fiddy, for your business insight ,I always find it interesting and helpful

No problem. I love the fact that you're passionate about animals. You care deeply about something. I think would be cool to see you have personal blog posts on your site about different animals you feel need help. Link those blog posts back to your Twitter feed. The 142 characters on Twitter has it's limits. If you combine Twitter with a blog post on your site it only adds more power to ideas and values you want to convey.

I actually think you're missing something from your feed that would help me as a potential client. I'd love to know more about what a session with a Chissy is like. I'm not graphic detail. I'm referring to those small touches or different indulgences.

Examples:

Maybe it's a special massage technique, a passion for fine wine, the way you like some to kiss or touch you.

I really love when a man...

Those are just examples. Post things that true to you or things you genuinely enjoy.

 

[BuzzSaw]

hmmm, lots of mansplaining in this thread. Hmmmmmm

That's statement especially done by an SP is a complete cop out but worse when done by a man because it comes off as whiteknighting.

I have a product I want to know what my market audience is thinking.

Serious question Jasper, has any SP ever let you down, been sub-par , make you wish you never paid for the services offered or has every single session been amazingly perfect that no wrong can ever be done by a provider?Hmmmmmm

 

[Fuggedabouditt]

That's statement especially done by an SP is a complete cop out but worse when done by a man because it comes off as whiteknighting.

I have a product I want to know what my market audience is thinking.

Serious question Jasper, has any SP ever let you down, been sub-par , make you wish you never paid for the services offered or has every single session been amazingly perfect that no wrong can ever be done by a provider?Hmmmmmm

Dude, he's not gonna get it....:no:

 

[Fiddy]

hmmm, lots of mansplaining in this thread. Hmmmmmm

Not really. PR people and image consultants mansplan. Professional marketers listen and do everything in their power to help the person/business we work for.

Most ladies know what their brand is already. The job of a marketer is to help them bring that vision to life based on what they want so they can reach their target audience. The lady is boss and 100% in control.

A PR/image consultant doesn't care what you think. They're trying to create mass market appeal. They'll manspaln the hell out you until you don't know who you are anymore.

 

[cristycurves]

I always ask people these questions.

Why does behaving professionally suddenly mean you're not being true to who you are as a person?

Do do you have to be something your not to be more professional?

That's a good point and perhaps one I should consider. As I do think they're different, but now that you point it out I can see one can be true to themselves and still act professionally I think in my case, my lack of diplomacy is what some will find distasteful about my personality, and also, it's what's attracted some to me as well. I speak off the cuff, which isn't considered professional behavior, yet my frankness is what I like the most about me However, and it's been tried, I'd never speak of anyone I've met escorting when asked to by another My lips can only be easily pried for kissing, not kissing and telling

 

[Fiddy]

That's a good point and perhaps one I should consider. As I do think they're different, but now that you point it out I can see one can be true to themselves and still act professionally I think in my case, my lack of diplomacy is what some will find distasteful about my personality, and also, it's what's attracted some to me as well. I speak off the cuff, which isn't considered professional behavior, yet my frankness is what I like the most about me However, and it's been tried, I'd never speak of anyone I've met escorting when asked to by another My lips can only be easily pried for kissing, not kissing and telling

Some of the most successful escorts in the world market themselves as, "mean brutal bitches". Men are lining up around the block to see them. All of them are super professional providers.

My number one pet peeve on Twitter is girls posting clients emails and text messages. We're not talking about dangerous clients. Most of the time they are complaining about mistake or misunderstandings.

Even worse, many of them put the person down and make fun of them for being stupid.

The first thought that goes through my head, is this someone I'd want to spend an hour with? The second thought is, "can I trust them with my private communications"

The answer to both of those questions is, No!

I would always ask any SP these perfectly fair questions.

How is easy is it going to be for your to operate safely if people can't trust your professionalism and discretion?

Aren't you making your job screening people more difficult when clients don't feel they can trust you with any messages they send you privately?

 

[papasmerf]

Some of the most successful escorts in the world market themselves as, "mean brutal bitches". Men are lining up around the block to see them. All of them are super professional providers.

My number one pet peeve on Twitter is girls posting clients emails and text messages. We're not talking about dangerous clients. Most of the time they are complaining about mistake or misunderstandings.

Even worse, many of them put the person down and make fun of them for being stupid.

The first thought that goes through my head, is this someone I'd want to spend an hour with? The second thought is, "can I trust them with my private communications"

The answer to both of those questions is, No!

I would always ask any SP these perfectly fair questions.

How is easy is it going to be for your to operate safely if people can't trust your professionalism and discretion?

Aren't you making your job screening people more difficult when clients don't feel they can trust you with any messages they send you privately?

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This is where My Pussy, My Rules, conflicts with any good business model.
In any business the potential client must feel comfortable with the provider.

 

[cristycurves]

Yes I can see where you gents are coming from with your points, although I'm sure these women you are speaking of, are speaking out of frustration and frazzle, not to make someone feel stupid or inferior. Since in this business, most men that communicate with us don't tend to communicate with their upper brain, they use their lower one. When doing so they make themselves appear dumb, often times, with short, curt infantile questions and responses. Most "professional" women are turned on by the mind, then the body, by seduction of the mind and that means intelligent, polite communication, sapiosexualness is attractive and for us, important. So vent as they may, and perhaps they would regardless, but I think, if more men would respond or contact us intelligently, then possibly there'd be less ranters on twitter and elsewhere
@Fiddy-hmm, interesting point about my site and my service, I'll have to consider that, thank you

 

[papasmerf]

Yes I can see where you gents are coming from with your points, although I'm sure these women you are speaking of, are speaking out of frustration and frazzle, not to make someone feel stupid or inferior. Since in this business, most men that communicate with us don't tend to communicate with their upper brain, they use their lower one. When doing so they make themselves appear dumb, often times, with short, curt infantile questions and responses. Most "professional" women are turned on by the mind, then the body, by seduction of the mind and that means intelligent, polite communication, sapiosexualness is attractive and for us, important. So vent as they may, and perhaps they would regardless, but I think, if more men would respond or contact us intelligently, then possibly there'd be less ranters on twitter and elsewhere

@Fiddy-hmm, interesting point about my site and my service, I'll have to consider that, thank you

Cristy.....A good business model never includes ranting against your clients.
It scares other off and does affect the bottom line.

No matter what business you are in you provide a service and are judged on both performance and professionalism.

You could provide the best widgets in the world but if clients are uncomfortable with your Customer Service people, they will likely buy their widgets elsewhere.

 

[peace]

Y Since in this business, most men that communicate with us don't tend to communicate with their upper brain, they use their lower one. When doing so they make themselves appear dumb, often times, with short, curt infantile questions and responses.

Ouch....

 

[cristycurves]

^ I guess the truth hurts. I'm sure if any woman in this business counted the number of hey babes, was up's, hows yer pussy's, I wanna pound yer pussy's, how muches, sups, what ya doins, can I see yas, busy's, they get over the gentlemanly queries, they be out numbered exponentially by the former.