Safety

[Jerkthis]

I just can't get into it without dfk and bb oral both ways.

 

[Coxwell]

FYI I regularly sneak on Kimonos with the big-bellied fellas who can't see, and they don't know the difference. Just a little experiment to determine whether sensation is psychological.

Those Kimonos are very thin and I get the same sensation but I understand if some guys feel restricted.
If you have concerns you should go fully covered, Lola. :good:

 

[tboy]

but it still angers me what us women put on the line for you men to get off. It is imbalanced, and I adore symmetry..

wait...what? what about what us men put on the line in order to get off (without all the hassles of civvie sex)?

That statement makes it sound like you're being forced into this business and unless you have a pimp named bubba I don't think you're forced into anything. As you yourself stated, it's better than working 8 hrs at timmie's...or more rewarding financially.

I know you ladies don't have an easy job and some of the shit you have to go through is brutal but still, don't make it sound like we're forcing you into this. (but as I've stated before, men have had to jump through hoops and deal with all kinds of BS for decades to get a little pussy, I applaud the way society has changed the rules so that some of the bs has been put on the female side of the equation).

 

[Coxwell]

I know you ladies don't have an easy job and some of the shit you have to go through is brutal but still, don't make it sound like we're forcing you into this.

It's not force but would you agree there is strong pressure for escorts to do bbbj when they're more comfortable doing covered?

 

[tboy]

It's not force but would you agree there is strong pressure for escorts to do bbbj when they're more comfortable doing covered?

I would say that there is market pressure and sometimes a guy will be persistant in asking for it....but as with all "jobs", there is always pressure to do things you don't want or feel comfortable doing. For eg: I am deathly afraid of heights yet almost daily I am "pressured" into climbing up 7 sections of scaffolding to work on the houses we build. My choice is do it or look for another job.....but it is still my choice.

 

[Coxwell]

I would say that there is market pressure and sometimes a guy will be persistant in asking for it....but as with all "jobs", there is always pressure to do things you don't want or feel comfortable doing. For eg: I am deathly afraid of heights yet almost daily I am "pressured" into climbing up 7 sections of scaffolding to work on the houses we build. My choice is do it or look for another job.....but it is still my choice.

That's a good analogy, tboy. :good:
You can insist on a harness at work but sometimes there's pressure on you to shimmy up there without one.
I agree, if it isn't comfortable or safe you should suck it up (pun intended) or look for another job.
But an alternative is to try to make the job safer, insisting on covered bj should be easier than it currently is. We shouldn't put the market pressure on her to be uncomfortable or unsafe.

 

[thesun]

re: That statement makes it sound like you're being forced into this business and unless you have a pimp named bubba I don't think you're forced into anything.

SO who is Bubba? :biggrin2:
Ps. Kidding aside, hope everyone is safe.

 

[thesun]

Please do not sew up your cunt. :biggrin2:

 

[RAWD]

Short arm inspection plus use of condoms.
This isn't rocket science.
Plus if the lady thinks there is something wrong she has the right to say no.

Don't think that some woman is going to let a guy rent her "moneymaker" if he has a big open weeping canker on his Johnson.

I would like to think that's always the case.

Good, because I value my mental health more than dick, which I think recommends me, of itself.

This is a rational woman.



but not everyone in the biz is. I've been amazed at how ignorant some ppl are, and how brazenly other flaunt basic sexual health and safety. I fear that the industry is just ripe for an epidemic.

 

[Coxwell]

Bring on the fucking dogs.

arf!

 

[celticman]

That explains why Anna said she had a headache that night... :biggrin2:

I take solace in knowing that I am not her only headache....If you catch my drift

 

[Insertion]

That's a good analogy, tboy. :good:
You can insist on a harness at work but sometimes there's pressure on you to shimmy up there without one.
I agree, if it isn't comfortable or safe you should suck it up (pun intended) or look for another job.
But an alternative is to try to make the job safer, insisting on covered bj should be easier than it currently is. We shouldn't put the market pressure on her to be uncomfortable or unsafe.

The problem is and I speak as someone who prefers a bbbj over a cbj that it's my choice where I spend my money and of course it's the providers choice how she runs her service. I have never given a lady a hard time if she decides to use a condom or a bad review but I would not repeat and that is my choice. If a CBJ is advertised at the same rate as a bbbj I will always choose the bbbj and I don't believe it's so much to do with market pressure but more to do with competition and the free market. One lady offers it and another doesn't at the same price then it's my choice where I'm going to spend my money. I will always choose the bbbj but I'm sure there will be a client or two who sleep better at night only par-taking in cbj's and that's fine too.

 

[j]

I am lucky, because I've never had much. I never got used to much, and I never got spoiled. I of course went through a phase of buying stupid shit, for like a week, to see how people who don't have to worry about money all the time feel, how they look at the world. I realized that weighing every thing, all the time, makes me more contemplative, steady, and reliable, so am glad for this exercise in contrast, because those who don't have to consider consequences are not safe to be around. If I ever put a price tag on my self-respect, it will not be for them. As it happens. I pay my bills without having to advertise, and despite the campaigns of those whose bullshit I'm not buying. I keep my overhead low, and my regulars satisfied, so can pretty much say whatever I like. Bring on the fucking dogs.

Before bbbjs were so commonly available as they are advertised now (and keeping in mind some ads just say bbbj, doesn't mean, ymmv, that the sp doesn't typically turn it down once arrived) callers would ask for it just as frequently as now, making it sound like a deal breaker, even when they knew their chances with any sp was slim to known outside of the street, and probably not then either.

Just because someone is asking doesn't mean you have to do it, and doesn't mean you don't get repeat good business if you are doing everything right. If it is the only thing that keeps sps in business, then why is it the ones who do offer have below average rates, and/or offer a bbbj only service at super low rates? It can't be the only thing that drives the market, in other words, if the ones who provide are so desperate they put on sales and drop their rates day after day, while the ones who don't usually charge more and have more repeat clients.

Just saying, a bbbj doesn't trump good attitude, good location and good service.