Made with Love

Sex life before marriage vs. sex life after marriage

Nice setup, Bubba, but I'm not gonna touch that line with a 10 inch pole.

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This subject has boggled my mind for a while. Although I've never been married, I've had a few long term relationships and the sex has never dwindled. I've always had a hunger for sex, I honestly cannot imagine a lifetime or marriage with no sex or boring sex. Marriage is special, someone has chosen to be with you, for better and for worse. The longer I'm with someone the more comfortable I get. The more comfortable I get, the more experimental I am! It's great to trust someone in that capacity and have all your fantasies come to life.

I understand that this may differ from other women's perspective on sex and trust and that us SPs are great fulfilling these fantasirs! I guess I just don't understand as a wife why you wouldn't want to please your partner and have them please you!

A note to the men with a dry sex life: try making her feel sexy. Keep working on it. When was the last time you just grabbed her in the kitchen and told her how hot she looks and kiss her? These are the things that you do pre-marriage that helped make the sex hot!
 
People should not get married because of sex. People should get married for all the other reasons. Sex is easy to find if that's all you want.

And Bridgette is bang on (sorry!). You get out of a long-term relationship what you put into it. Want sex? Make her want it, and voila!
 
Pooldude said:
Who knows how to enlarge this?.

If you click on 'reply with quote', it comes up bigger in the reply box, or right click on 'Open image in new tab', then click on the new tab to read it.

You can't post it any bigger here because the forum reduces all images to a standard size.
 
I will agree that it is a hard subject to pic point or describe. I have a very high sex drive . I do lots of romantic things all the time not just in the beginning but in the beginning the sex is always extremely frequent and amazing on both accounts. In time with "life" things get busier and things like bjs start to become far and few...then sex becomes less often ...then the less often sex becomes less exciting ....then the other options start looking better.
 
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