Something to THINK about when posting

[RAWD]

Agree with the ovecommunity-neness but not sure that compassion is necessarily appropriate as a matter of course. Indeed, if it is, it should be a two way street, and I'm afraid reciprocity is a rarity.

Wilsonjso - thanks for the most excellent links. Great to have some institutional memory round here.

 

[LickingGravity]

Can this thread be any more condescending? Really.

If you have a problem with a post please say so when it is posted.

 

[Madman]

Why is because its a value judgment, just like when you say that that person has a "great figure", etc. (which by the way hints at a personal bias).

I agree that more elaboration may be nice, but personal reviews are inherently subjective and the fact that someone found a girl to be "too skinny" may provide useful info to hobbyists. It is after all, simply one opinion of many, and presumably this lady has pics in the public domain. I also happen to think that members are intelligent enough to take one liner posts like that with a grain of salt.

But mostly, I have a big problem with stifling honest opinions. Creating an environment that encourages only rainbows and unicorns is incredibly short-sighted. It fosters short term gain for SPs but ends up costing everyone in the long run through lost integrity and trust. You don't have to be a genius or a long term hobbyist to have seen that in the Toronto scene in recent years.

If you want to get into a discussion about posts of dubious value, pm me or let's meet for a beer. We have much bigger problems than asshats who post "mean" one liners.

I have to totally agree with Rawd on this one.

We as clients spending hard earned dollars should have a picture of the ladies, that is why we read reviews. I may find a lady to thin or to thick and make that off the cuff statement but it doesn't mean it will steer away the client that enjoys skinny/thick women.

I don't like to see a lady unduly bashed but there is absolutely nothing wrong with writing an honest review without malice and if someone has also seen the lady and chimes in agreement or stating his different view point, there's nothing wrong with that in my opinion.

 

[-b]

So we all agree no Malice ....

Now Madman.....Go To Your Room.....
No Crying or I will have to write a review on your Irish Four Leaf Clover
And get Reverse to add in the Ass situation of yours....

 

[a 1 player]

Unfortunately I can't offer any of those things.

But I do have wit.

 

[T.A.F.K.A. Prince]

I want to post on this thread, but I'm trying hard to find something to say that fits your T.H.I.N.K. criteria

 

[T.A.F.K.A. Prince]

Shiek, it's hard to expect everyone to post only niceties on here. We all just have to learn to take everything that's said with a grain of salt.

Don't get me wrong, when I read that exact message this thread is about, a few days ago, I thought to myself, 'What was the point in saying that?'

Then I let it slide, because truth be told, his opinion is irrelevant to me and I believe it should be irrelevant to her as well.

 

[RAWD]

Shiek, it's hard to expect everyone to post only niceties on here. We all just have to learn to take everything that's said with a grain of salt.

Don't get me wrong, when I read that exact message this thread is about, a few days ago, I thought to myself, 'What was the point in saying that?'

Then I let it slide, because truth be told, his opinion is irrelevant to me and I believe it should be irrelevant to her as well.

Exactly. Like my momma says, when you say something mean, you only make yourself sound like a meanie.

 

[Madman]

Exactly. Like my momma says, when you say something mean, you only make yourself sound like a meanie.

Dammit, Mom is that you?? I can't get away wid nuting!