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Sperm donor fights effort to make him pay child support to lesbian couple

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Sperm donor fights effort to make him pay child support to lesbian couple - thestar.com
TOPEKA, KAN.—A sperm donor in the U.S. is fighting an effort to force him to pay child support for a child conceived through artificial insemination by a lesbian couple.
William Marotta told The Topeka Capital-Journal newspaper he’s “a little scared about where this is going to go, primarily for financial reasons.”
When the 46-year-old donated sperm to Angela Bauer and Jennifer Schreiner in 2009, Marotta relinquished all parental rights, including financial responsibility to the child. When Bauer and Schreiner filed for state assistance in Kansas this year, the state demanded the donor’s name so it could collect child support for the now 3-year-old girl.
The state contends the agreement between Marotta and the women is not valid because Kansas law requires a licensed physician to perform artificial insemination.
“If a sperm donor makes his contribution through a licensed physician and a child is conceived, the donor is held harmless under state statue. In cases where the parties do not go through a physician or a clinic, there remains the question of who actually is the father of a child or children,” Angela de Rocha, a spokeswoman for the Kansas Department for Children and Families, said in a statement.
A hearing on a motion by Marotta’s attorneys to dismiss the case is scheduled for Jan. 8
Bauer and Schreiner have said they fully support Marotta’s efforts to fight the state’s request. When Bauer was diagnosed in March with what she calls “a significant illness” that prevents her from working, Schreiner sought health insurance for their daughter from the state. The DCF told Schreiner if she didn’t provide the sperm donor’s name, it would deny any health benefits because she was withholding information.
Marotta said Monday he doesn’t resent Schreiner for giving the state his name.
“I resent the fact that Jennifer was pressured into doing that in the first place,” he said. “That was wrong — wrong by the state.”
Marotta and his wife, Kimberly, have no biological children but care for foster children.
 
I read that this morning. There goes my idea of donating mine.
 
these two should just get jobs
or better yet apply for a lickher license and open a bar
 
these two should just get jobs
or better yet apply for a lickher license and open a bar

If you read the article properly, it says that one of them came down with an illness. Don't know about the other one, but she may be still working, but she needs help with health insurance. Thank god we're in Canada and we don't have to go through this bullshit.
 
The state contends the agreement between Marotta and the women is not valid because Kansas law requires a licensed physician to perform artificial insemination.
“If a sperm donor makes his contribution through a licensed physician and a child is conceived, the donor is held harmless under state statue. In cases where the parties do not go through a physician or a clinic, there remains the question of who actually is the father of a child or children,” Angela de Rocha, a spokeswoman for the Kansas Department for Children and Families, said in a statement.


If people don't bother to understand the legalities involved before they enter into these arrangements, I can't be too sympathetic when they end up dealing with the consequences.
 
Just curious why he prefers foster children than his own. Just find it odd.

That usually means his wife can't have kids. If he's relegated to a life without his own kids, and he's still got working sperm, then he might as well let somebody else benefit from it. I understand his point of view completely, I've thought along the same lines in the past too.
 
If you read the article properly, it says that one of them came down with an illness. Don't know about the other one, but she may be still working, but she needs help with health insurance. Thank god we're in Canada and we don't have to go through this bullshit.

if the other one was working it would be in the article in that the lack of insurance would play for political reasons.

if the interested parties have a written agreement it would first have to be vacated by the courts before the state can proceed.
if not this guy is likely screwed and should file for parental rights and custody.
my arguement would be if the state views me as the responsible party then they must grant me full rights.
he could then add the child to his plan.
 
if the other one was working it would be in the article in that the lack of insurance would play for political reasons.

if the interested parties have a written agreement it would first have to be vacated by the courts before the state can proceed.
if not this guy is likely screwed and should file for parental rights and custody.
my arguement would be if the state views me as the responsible party then they must grant me full rights.
he could then add the child to his plan.

Why you are called the Papa. Good answer.
 
re: Sperm donor fights effort to make him pay child support to lesbian couple
THis is really unfortunate as I am sure many people who badly want a child appreciate the annoymous associated with the sperm donor....i guess its the American way to sue each other ....
 
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