My exgf C liked going to Tango's on Friday nights and I often tagged along. She'd leave me alone for most of the night while she hooked up with other girls and couples in the bathroom or nearby places. I'd people-watch and dance. The only people who ever hit on me were those from Crews down below. The attention was nice but not appealing to me.
And then there was X. She was dancing by herself too one night...South American, in her 40s, my height, slight, long dark hair to her ass, fking gorgeous smile. We ended up dancing together. Had so much fun. C found me again at the end of the night. The two of them got along well too. We made plans to meet up the following Friday.
X and I got on the subway together in North York. She and I were all over each other, laughing. C joined us around midtown. I should have known she would get jealous but at the time, I was too naive and hopeful. The three of us stayed together all night. C obviously grew increasingly angry unbeknownst to me. X came home with us. We had steamy passionate sex. She was...sizzling! She and I were similarly drawn to pleasing one another. C, on the other hand, was, as usual, focused on her own orgasms. After she came, she was disinterested.
X and I kept kissing, grinding, enveloped in each others arms. C wandered back into the bedroom with her bag of toys. I forgot to mention, X was NOT bi. She had had several gawd-awful encounters with men in her home country. She was therefore terrified of sexual encounters with men. C started using her massive dildos on X. I did put a stop to it but the damage was done. X felt betrayed, violated. C didn't even see what the big deal was. And I felt ashamed, embarrassed, upset, and so very sorry.
X and I stayed in touch but she didn't want to be around C understandably. I was too messed up and entrenched in my relationship with C at the time to see what is glaringly obvious to me now. I was so caught up in being loyal to a woman who couldn't care less about me that I let a beautiful soul pass on by. Probably for the best anyhow. I'm not equipped for serious relationships period. Let alone ones with women. The casual sex is so very hawt though.