want to ask an escort a question?

[cristycurves]

Cristy, why did you stop running an agency? Do you think you will ever set up shop again?

NEVER!! I stopped running one because I wanted out of the business AND because I got tired of all the games, the lies. being ripped off, threatened and I had met someone who wanted nothing to do with someone in my line of work.
Also with online escorting, I just couldn't see any advantage to any girl working for one, in a bigger city, there may be more reason, but not here.
When my relationship ended I became tired of dating conventionally, I still wanted the attentions of men, not one man, so becoming an independent seemed the perfect solution. In the beginning I did a lot of things wrong, made many mistakes but now, I'm happy, secure in how I live and things couldn't be better Well, if my other dog were still here...

 

[cristycurves]

Why do I want to come to Halifax? Hmmmmmm

Well Halifax is a beautiful city to visit. It is the Maritimes largest city, if I'm not mistaken. With a population of 418, 000, and many great restaurants, charming boutiques, and a lively night life, you'll find lots to do and see. For a city it's size your choices of escorts too will leave you wanting little, since there are a large number of age, types and sizes to choose from. Look me up should you choose to visit. I'd be happy to show you Halifax hospitality

 

[ERecTile]

First let me ask, why do men feel the need to write explicit reviews? I just don't get why anyone would want to be that indiscrete and yes I do think it great advice, but he knows she does this so I'm sure he's be aware that reviews are written, so stopping him from seeing them might be a challenge.

I don't know why guys write explicit reviews. I guess maybe because they can? I've written SP reviews before and I've tried to model them after other reviews that I had read before. The thing with SP reviews is that most readers are concerned by the acronyms that are available and how well the SP performed them. That's one of the reasons I prefer to write MPA reviews. I don't like getting explicit, not just because explicit MPA reviews are not allowed on most decent forums, but also because there's so much drama in the MP world. There's always the "you got this and that while I didn't" complex. Anyway, thank you for the answer. Thought I don't speak with that young SP anymore, I'm glad I provided some advice that was potentially helpful.

As for my next question, I haven't had a chance to go through this whole thread yet. Sorry, I saw your response and just hit the Reply with Quote button. This question is not just for you cristycurves. Anyone can chime in too.

Do you have any plans to settle down with one man? Get married? Grow old together? If yes, then what sorts of expectations to you have with regards to love, sex, prenuptuals, money sharing, open relationships, etc...

 

[cristycurves]

I don't know why guys write explicit reviews. I guess maybe because they can? I've written SP reviews before and I've tried to model them after other reviews that I had read before. The thing with SP reviews is that most readers are concerned by the acronyms that are available and how well the SP performed them. That's one of the reasons I prefer to write MPA reviews. I don't like getting explicit, not just because explicit MPA reviews are not allowed on most decent forums, but also because there's so much drama in the MP world. There's always the "you got this and that while I didn't" complex. Anyway, thank you for the answer. Thought I don't speak with that young SP anymore, I'm glad I provided some advice that was potentially helpful.

As for my next question, I haven't had a chance to go through this whole thread yet. Sorry, I saw your response and just hit the Reply with Quote button. This question is not just for you cristycurves. Anyone can chime in too.

Do you have any plans to settle down with one man? Get married? Grow old together? If yes, then what sorts of expectations to you have with regards to love, sex, prenuptuals, money sharing, open relationships, etc...

Concerning explicit reviews, they're just not necessary. Those who write them, imo, are as has been mentioned, braggarts, and in need of writing their own porn story. Those who read them too must love amateur porn, because adding explicit details won't tell anyone anything about what you'll experience, it simply outs to all what those two decided to do in bed and out.
As far as others answering, I wish some other ladies would chime in, until then, I'll respond As far as settling down, I can't for see the future, and I never rule out possibilities, but I am happy with how things are going

 

[ERecTile]

Concerning explicit reviews, they're just not necessary. Those who write them, imo, are as has been mentioned, braggarts, and in need of writing their own porn story. Those who read them too must love amateur porn, because adding explicit details won't tell anyone anything about what you'll experience, it simply outs to all what those two decided to do in bed and out.
As far as others answering, I wish some other ladies would chime in, until then, I'll respond As far as settling down, I can't for see the future, and I never rule out possibilities, but I am happy with how things are going

Achieving happiness is all we all ever really want in life! :biggrin2: Us hobbyists just get it in 30, 40, or 60 min time slots.

 

[CalmMan]

I can only speak for myself, they turn seeing clients into a lifestyle, lol, a way of dating Keep in mind that many do this part time, many have other jobs/occupations, so one could assume they continue on with those

What are your plans when you retire?.

 

[cristycurves]

What are your plans when you retire?.

As I said, turn dating into a lifestyle, I do this part time, for enjoyment, sort of consider myself retired nowBut if you mean when will I stop seeing men for money, when they stop calling. Each day i do pretty much as I please, isn't that what retiree's do

 

[vader75]

Why would an SP lie to a good client and not just admit that they can't remember? I believe a good time could still have been had. Honesty goes a lot farther in my book. So why do SP's have the need to lie?

 

[cristycurves]

Why would an SP lie to a good client and not just admit that they can't remember? I believe a good time could still have been had. Honesty goes a lot farther in my book. So why do SP's have the need to lie?

I think asking the sp that lied to you might be best and perhaps she truly did not remember....although I'm not sure from your question what the lie was. However sp's are people and most people lie at some point. Sometimes we have to lie, I lie to some about my choice of lifestyle, some just cannot accept that seeing multiple partners and money being exchanged, as acceptable and some of these people work in banks, run condo corps, own properties, stores, car lots, some are related, etc, etc. Don't dwell on things you can't change or with people you can't or don't trust, moving on is better than questioning and wondering

 

[User-E]

First let me ask, why do men feel the need to write explicit reviews?

1. Review boards are the only place most men have to discuss their hobby and experiences.

2. Writing explicit reviews is a way for them to relive very pleasureable experiences, just like they discuss exciting football games play by play.

3. They're investing a lot of money into an unregulated industry with no guarantee of getting good value for their money. Would you buy an expensive car based on product reviews that only said, 'Nice ride.'?

4. They're helping a lot of other guys determine whether they want to give their hard earned money to a particular woman. Detailed reviews help others make informed decisions.

 

[cristycurves]

1. Review boards are the only place most men have to discuss their hobby and experiences.

2. Writing explicit reviews is a way for them to relive very pleasureable experiences, just like they discuss exciting football games play by play.

3. They're investing a lot of money into an unregulated industry with no guarantee of getting good value for their money. Would you buy an expensive car based on product reviews that only said, 'Nice ride.'?

4. They're helping a lot of other guys determine whether they want to give their hard earned money to a particular woman. Detailed reviews help others make informed decisions.

Sorry Escape, I can't agree with any of those points as being justifications for explicit reviews and I'd hope that no gentleman would ever describe a lady as a nice ride, there are more complimentary phrases, but then again, how we describe others is telling. I'd buy an expensive car based on my desire for and experience with it, I wouldn't want or need another's opinion to make my decision for me. We all know why review boards exist, the ones that allow or encourage explicitness aren't necessary nor do they benefit anyone. A gentleman can post an informative and complimentary review without detailing how a lady sucked, fucked, fingered and licked. Most of us are intelligent enough to grasp a scenario void of word for word account of their bedroom activities and determine if someones has talent, skill, genuineness, attractiveness and likability and please don't placate this "hard earned money" crap. If someone can't afford this then they don't do it, it's not a need it's a luxury. If money is so dear to anyone save it and don't spend on an escort.

 

[Mariner]

and please don't placate this "hard earned money" crap. If someone can't afford this then they don't do it, it's not a need it's a luxury. If money is so dear to anyone save it and don't spend on an escort.

About as a wrong and dismissive a viewpoint as I could possibly imagine

 

[cristycurves]

About as a wrong and dismissive a viewpoint as I could possibly imagine

Well......not everyone has a great imagination

You will never understand the complexities of being an escort, until you become one, so don't tell me I'm being dismissive when someone whines about their money! BECAUSE comments about money are always attached to how or why we charge what we charge AND for most of us, that is a sore point! NO hobbyist should question rates or have the right to commodify us. An escort has the right to charge whatever will compensate her for all her efforts and what she deems fair, not what the hobbyists deem fair. If that fee isn't liked, then move on to someone with one that is and this "hobby" is a luxury, it is not a need. No one needs to hire an escort. Some may be better because of it, but they won't loose life not having one. Eating, breathing, shelter, health care are needs, paying for companionship, or paying for sex, is a luxury...... But you apparently know better so, Please fill us in Mariner, tell us what is right.

 

[Beached]

Well......not everyone has a great imagination

You will never understand the complexities of being an escort, until you become one, so don't tell me I'm being dismissive when someone whines about their money! BECAUSE comments about money are always attached to how or why we charge what we charge AND for most of us, that is a sore point! NO hobbyist should question rates or have the right to commodify us. An escort has the right to charge whatever will compensate her for all her efforts and what she deems fair, not what the hobbyists deem fair. If that fee isn't liked, then move on to someone with one that is and this "hobby" is a luxury, it is not a need. No one needs to hire an escort. Some may be better because of it, but they won't loose life not having one. Eating, breathing, shelter, health care are needs, paying for companionship, or paying for sex, is a luxury...... But you apparently know better so, Please fill us in Mariner, tell us what is right.

It sure feels like a necessity sometimes, just like "needing" a smoke only better for you.
I am a little less than a year into the hobby and still thinking " Wow, a beautiful woman will do all that with me and that's all it costs
Some guys I guess are just so damn good looking and such great lovers they feel it should be free?

 

[Beached]

What constitutes an explicet review? I have written one review. (more to come I hope) I am not sure if it would be considered explicet or not.

 

[Madman]

Cristy, you are definitely one hell of an activist. You are like a bull in a china shop and I say this in a complimentary way regardless if I agree or disagree with many of your viewpoints. :YMAPPLAUSE:

 

[cristycurves]

What constitutes an explicet review? I have written one review. (more to come I hope) I am not sure if it would be considered explicet or not.

Good point, as potentially perception could play into this, yet I think most would consider speaking about the specific acts shared and how they were performed as being explicit.
For example- I paid Ms.Jane 200 for an hour of hot, wet sex, she sucked my cock, she let me go down on her, finger her and she sucked my balls dry. I then fucked her good, from behind, on top, then she rode me like the stallion I am.
Instead a gentlemen could say ex- Ms.Jane was attractive, on time, her locale was lovely and she was more than talented. I'm sure others will thoroughly enjoy her many skills.
Not great examples...but you get my point

@MM thanks, never been called a bull before. One I can add to the list, lol.

 

[Beached]

Good point, as potentially perception could play into this, yet I think most would consider speaking about the specific acts shared and how they were performed as being explicit.
For example- I paid Ms.Jane 200 for an hour of hot, wet sex, she sucked my cock, she let me go down on her, finger her and she sucked my balls dry. I then fucked her good, from behind, on top, then she rode me like the stallion I am.
Instead a gentlemen could say ex- Ms.Jane was attractive, on time, her locale was lovely and she was more than talented. I'm sure others will thoroughly enjoy her many skills.
Not great examples...but you get my point

@MM thanks, never been called a bull before. One I can add to the list, lol.

I agree example number one is too explicit and I do not care how the reviewer performed or how huge his member is.
The second example, not explicit enough. A little more info as to services offered if they are not already on web site or ad. Example number two could be a review for the server at Swiss Chalet.

 

[cristycurves]

I agree example number one is too explicit and I do not care how the reviewer performed or how huge his member is.
The second example, not explicit enough. A little more info as to services offered if they are not already on web site or ad. Example number two could be a review for the server at Swiss Chalet.

But the issue with listing "more services offered" is that we then potentially let it be known we are selling sex, and if you communicate with us, you are then opening yourself to potentially being caught or said to be buying sex, which is illegal. I don't advertise that I sell sex, so I wouldn't want a client to communicate that or infer that in his review, and by mentioning services, he's be doing that. But people will do as they do.....

 

[cristycurves]

Since there are other ladies posting here now, maybe they could add their opinions/answers to this thread. And maybe others would like to ask more questions