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There you have it folks, the reason why many marriages fail. Money and kids, without even a mention of love. I won't even date a woman unless she has full time employment and is capable of sustaining herself.
In Canada during a divorce it is how long you have been married......
Hers and his income
If you are married over 20 years , what she makes is minus from what he makes and whatever is left is
divided between the both....
Everything is divided in half, what is made during the marriage, this one is for ever long you are married
With kids well that is different too......
My grandmother always to us girls.....Why marry poor man and be miserable, when you can marry a rich man and be just as miserable....
My ex I worked together to build our life and I married him because I loved him at the time I had more than he did , we built a wonderful, fun life........You take the positive from what you have and had. It is a chapter on ones life......I would never ever change anything.....I love and loved the man I was married too but I understand people change........The need to move in a different directions.....
Marriage can be positive, fun, laughter, enjoyment of each other......Someone to grow with.....having someone to wake up to and giggle with.......Helping each other in hard times and good times.....Marriage is like the first sun set you see together and the first sun rise
You both contribute to how your marriage goes....positive or negative.... It is a great book being written......
