Buckfifty said:
More and more I see through boards that many book through their handles. Wasn't this taboo for obvious reasons?.
Doesn't this make the provider nervous that she has to be at her best to make sure she gets a good review even if she is having a bad day?.
Not at all. I am never nervous or worried about a review. Whether you are a regular, a newbie, a reviewer or a lurker you get the same service from me, provided you are a gentlemen. What I really detest is guys trying to book acting sketchy and suspicious refusing to tell you where they saw your ad, or who they are thinking we are out to get them and are going to somehow inconvenience them later on by knowing their name or forum handle. There are SO many crazy harassers out there fake booking us from review boards, girls fake booking other girls, time wasters and trolls we have to deal with. Guys might automatically think the wrong thing when we ask for a handle, it's just to know you're a real person and double check you aren't the troll who has been harassing us on the review board or the type of guy that only slams every girl he reviews. It also helps me when seeing if we are a good fit, for instance if a member only wants hardcore porn star or BDSM type sessions, I could glean that from their posts and kindly suggest I am not the lady for them and ask if they are certain they want to see me.
I would absolutely book someone who was kind and courteous in their request, even if he negatively reviewed a lady or a few, or didn't review at all. I don't care about that. I care about safety first, and then being respected. I also offer a special member price on the hour, so if someone wants that offer they should not be afraid to mention their handle and prove they are a participating board member and not just someone pretending they have a handle.
If you're the type of guy who is actually suspicious that a reputable lady is going to get you in trouble with your spouse, coworkers or LE you need to think if you're just being paranoid, or perhaps you should be more selective about who you see and how you treat the ladies. How many good clients have been outted to their spouses or LE by reputable SPs in Canada? That's bad business and unnecessary. Anyone acting THAT suspicious and afraid of US, sends the message to me that they aren't safe and aren't likely to respect me and my boundaries and not cause problems coming to my private condo. I find the type of guys who act super afraid of us and sharing their identity are totally fine seeing girls working out of motels known to be an LE hot spot and this makes me think they should get their priorities straight.
I'm also guessing if you don't want to reveal your board handle you would miss out on some great HUBGFE parties and meeting a lot of the ladies in person for meet and greets, which would be unfortunate as the last party was amazing.
