Made with Love

What is good service from an Independent SP to you?

@Beached, thank you for the explanation:) Believe me, sweet and funny is much more appreciated than deadly handsome and I'm sure you are a great lay...regardless, your humor and demeanor imo, alone,would be ample to satisfy most women:) @flash, thank you as well, you seem to have a great insight into the workings of this industry:)
 
cristycurves said:
Your value maybe correct, yet since I can only evaluate by my own experiences, I can't agree nor disagree..

To my knowledge, Cristy, you are not a purchaser. The values I stated are from the purchaser's point of view. The Escort determines her price; the client then determines the value, based on the quality of the service offered. The value from the purchaser's perspective is the ratio of cost to quality.
 
Beached said:
Act like you're happy to hear from me when I make contact.
Act like you're happy to see me when I arrive.
Put your phone away, make me your center of attention for the time booked.
Don't bullshit me with fake compliments.
Laugh at my stupid jokes. :)


cristycurves said:
This is what confuses me.( and this isn't just about you, as most men feel this way, imo).....in most of your post you do say "act" which most sp's do, yet fake compliments, seems to be a turn off? That is part of the "acting". Most men I think feel as you do, yet many seem to confuse authenticity with acting, and seem to want a mixture of both. Which can be difficult, since authentic people react authentically and actresses perform. Good on those that can do both, but men should be realistic about their expectations. If you want real reactions, seek out someone who you'll have chemistry with, if you want someone who'll give you "fake compliments" seek out someone you're attracted only physically too. Sometimes you can have both, both more often, it's one or the other.

Cristy, he's saying that he wants Escorts to pretend that he's not a total dick for a complete hour. Civilian women are unwilling to do that, so he seeks out paid companions to have his ego massaged.
 
@flash, obviously I'm not a purchaser, even so, I still can relate to the opposite side of things, as many can in this and different scenarios. As far as Beached not wanting anyone to think he's a total dick....I won't speak for him, but I will say I have interacted with him for some time now and I like him, his humor and dickness:) So *if* he is a total dick, which I don't believe, I then like total dicks :)
 
cristycurves said:
I find that statement offensive and unfair. Since there are many reasons why agency girls are cheaper, namely because they are agency girls, and why bring them up, the op is an indy and her post was asking questions relevant to seeing indy's.
There will always be a market for both, and that shouldn't change, however as an independent, and a very low volume one to boot, it would make no economical sense for me to charge what a service charges.I have all the over head, advertising costs, etc, etc... A service girl doesn't and, in most cases, sees far more clients per day/week than an indy, hence their willingness and ability to accept less pay per client. Agency's also pull in more biz than indy's. So it's never a fair comparison.
There are men who seek out indy's for reasons, and those who seek out agency girls for reasons. But good service is good service, and it becomes less like service when there is compatibility and or chemistry between those involved in the date. Of course there are girls who can provide great service regardless of who they see, they are great actresses, and they have the ability of not allowing their clients to know they're acting. Then there are those who provide good service that sometimes will be great because they aren't great actresses, but still great providers, they're just more authentically reactive. There is a market for all, and all will do well, if they treat their guests with respect, and enthusiasm.

I'm speaking in generalities and there are some indi's I would book in a heartbeat and other's I wouldn't look at even at bargain prices. My main point was and maybe I didn't articulate myself is that if I'm going to pay more I will be expecting more i.e. chemistry, perhaps low volume as this is seen by many clients as a plus etc.....

ps....I've never looked at what your rate is because I've decided a while ago I would book you regardless if distance wasn't an issue. This is not to say you would allow it, I can be quite annoying but nevertheless I would attempt it.:wink2:
 
I was an agency girl but had my own regulars as well. It was a win win situation at the time.
 
cristycurves said:
@flash, obviously I'm not a purchaser, even so, I still can relate to the opposite side of things, as many can in this and different scenarios. As far as Beached not wanting anyone to think he's a total dick....I won't speak for him, but I will say I have interacted with him for some time now and I like him, his humor and dickness:) So *if* he is a total dick, which I don't believe, I then like total dicks :)

Dickness I guess is in the eyes of the beholder.
Thankyou @cristycurves I apreciate and value your opinion. @Flash Bazbo. Not so much.
 
Beached said:
Act like you're happy to hear from me when I make contact.
Act like you're happy to see me when I arrive.
Put your phone away, make me your center of attention for the time booked.
Don't bullshit me with fake compliments.
Laugh at my stupid jokes. :)

Great answer to the question asked. I actually enjoy stupid jokes lol.
 
I was an agency girl but had my own regulars as well. It was a win win situation at the time.

All-in-one reply:

cristycurves said:
...@flash, thank you as well, you seem to have a great insight into the workings of this industry...

Cristy, the cost/ value schedule I wrote is not specific to the Escort Industry. It's true of any supply/ demand business model, with minor adaptations based on the fact that supply has variable factors, but demand is essentially a 'fixed' factor.

Example: Identical twin sisters are Escorts. Everything about them, for all intents and purposes, is identical, except for their available services menu. Escort A offers BBBJCIMSW, and DFK. Escort B offers CBJ and LFK. Escort A's 'market value' would be higher, because her clientele would include customers who want those particular services, and exclude Escorts who do not provide them from their TDL. The two together would also command a higher fee together than either of them with a different duo partner, because the supply of identical twin Escorts is low, and the number of clients who would want this service would be high.

cristycurves said:
... So *if* he is a total dick, which I don't believe, I then like total dicks

Cristy, if you did not totally like dicks, you'd have a different occupation or sexual persuasion, or both! My opinion of Beached and yours are incompatible, because to me, Beached is competition, and to you, he is a potential source of income. I, personally, would not be willing to accept any sum of money, whatsoever, in exchange for an intimate encounter with Beached.

... @Flash Bazbo. Not so much.

I hate to burst your bubble, son, but I don't care a rat's ass what YOU think of me. You amuse me intermittently, but not often, and not significantly. To the best of my knowledge, you have a penis and testicles, but you do not possess much information that is of interest to me. Given the assumption of the 'package' as described above, whether or not you are endowed with big tits is irrelevant. I do not want to be your friend. I just don't object to you breathing the same cyber-air that I do, provided that you do not 'fart out of your mouth' ALL the time.

From information in other posts in this thread, the possibility exists that Peace might be willing to accept funds from you, if you are attracted to him/ her. I think you meet the minimum standards of Autumn-desilva, the OP, as well, at least in 'actress mode'.

I was an agency girl but had my own regulars as well. It was a win win situation at the time.

Any schedule A Escort is certainly a win, from the client's perspective, Ms Reverse. If you also derived economic advantages from 'working two sides of the street' simultaneously, props to you for taking full advantage of the earning opportunities available to you, but not necessarily to all of YOUR competition. A swift runner has no obligation to slow his/ her pace, merely because the other runners are unable to match it.

When one is a 'total package', one should derive the full benefits of such. From my perspective, I see no reason why I should dumb myself down, submit myself to genital reduction surgery, and be less charismatic, merely because other men have less game. I was endowed with some of those traits by nature, and some through learning. I don't aspire to be like other men, but I don't object, if they chose to learn from me, what I chose to teach them. I can't do anything about their dick size and smarts. They should blame their parents for that, not me.
 
@flash, now you're acting lick a "total dick". I'm sure Beached wouldn't ever want an interaction with you either. I often find humor in some of your posts, and I also find some to be intelligent, but sometimes you go off the rail insulting someone nice and making silly assumptions. Although I'd welcome Beached as a client, the chances anyone from this board and I will meet, is slim to none, since most don't travel, and I have no plans to. I am friendly to some here simply because I like them, I've no reason to put on pretenses or to suck up to someone because they "might" pay me. I'm a big girl and can survive without my "escort" monies, and I can also interact with men, simply because I like to:) Please broaden your thoughts, and pull back on your curtness, it would make you much more charming:)
 
@Beached,
"From information in other posts in this thread, the possibility exists that Peace might be willing to accept funds from you, if you are attracted to him/ her."
Of course, I will accept any funds. In that case, please donate any money to the Anti-Fake Compliment Charity.
:biggrin2:

Ps. Thanks Flash for the suggestion. Much appreciated. :great:
 
@flash, now you're acting lick a "total dick". I'm sure Beached wouldn't ever want an interaction with you either. I often find humor in some of your posts, and I also find some to be intelligent, but sometimes you go off the rail insulting someone nice and making silly assumptions. Although I'd welcome Beached as a client, the chances anyone from this board and I will meet, is slim to none, since most don't travel, and I have no plans to. I am friendly to some here simply because I like them, I've no reason to put on pretenses or to suck up to someone because they "might" pay me. I'm a big girl and can survive without my "escort" monies, and I can also interact with men, simply because I like to:) Please broaden your thoughts, and pull back on your curtness, it would make you much more charming:)

Umm..., Cristy, I attempt to be informative and entertaining. If you are unable to tell the difference between when I'm joking, and when I'm serious, you probably shouldn't let the others know. Perhaps if you didn't tilt your head to the side when you're smiling, We might see eye to eye on this. PS: I don't have a 'curtness'. It was surgically removed when I was a child. I've never heard of it being called that before. It must be an East Coast thing.
 
Ps. Thanks Flash for the suggestion. Much appreciated. :great:

@ Peace: You're doing that self examination of your prostate gland a little too often, and enjoying it a little too much, in that video. Please give 'it' a rest, Mr Brownthumb.
 
@ Peace: You're doing that self examination of your prostate gland a little too often, and enjoying it a little too much, in that video. Please give 'it' a rest, Mr Brownthumb.
OK I will try my best, Thanks for the encouragement. :great:
 
Umm..., Cristy, I attempt to be informative and entertaining. If you are unable to tell the difference between when I'm joking, and when I'm serious, you probably shouldn't let the others know. Perhaps if you didn't tilt your head to the side when you're smiling, We might see eye to eye on this. PS: I don't have a 'curtness'. It was surgically removed when I was a child. I've never heard of it being called that before. It must be an East Coast thing.

Thanks Flash, instead of "attempting", perhaps better results might come by putting more effort into it, and perhaps you should let others know when your "attempting" a joke or being serious, as I'm not the only one who often can't decipher the difference, I say this as I tilt my head....lol. Btw, curtness isn't just an east coast thing flash, it's a common english word and one used all over Canada, even though I was born in raised in T.O. Btw, sorry to hear you needed surgery at such a young age.
 
I was an agency girl but had my own regulars as well. It was a win win situation at the time.

You need to be taken over my knee and spanked. Why you ask, because it is the right thing to do. Carry on.
 
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