What Motivates A Woman To Do This...?

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In a moment of quilt? Is that a handmade one stitched together by little old ladies during a quilting bee?

Ok guilt.....you know about quilting ........You amaze me tboy.......:great:I can't sew to save my life....

 

[peace]

I believe these types of confessions are selfish at their very core. Her actions were hurtful and telling him a half truth to allieviate her guilt is strictly for her own benefit. Intuitively, her husband will know she is lying; he just won't know which part isn't true. OP, if she isn't going to come completely clean, don't back her up. Why does she get the right to clear her conscience and destroy other people in the process, without actually clearing the slate. I call bullshit on this, tell her to come completely clean or S.T.F.U. Self centered as she is, she needs to have a little compassion for this man she is married to by dealing with her shit herself without including anyone else.

cat

+1

 

[Knight Rider]

I believe these types of confessions are selfish at their very core. Her actions were hurtful and telling him a half truth to allieviate her guilt is strictly for her own benefit. Intuitively, her husband will know she is lying; he just won't know which part isn't true. OP, if she isn't going to come completely clean, don't back her up. Why does she get the right to clear her conscience and destroy other people in the process, without actually clearing the slate. I call bullshit on this, tell her to come completely clean or S.T.F.U. Self centered as she is, she needs to have a little compassion for this man she is married to by dealing with her shit herself without including anyone else.

cat

+ 2. Cat is right. OP, don't back her up if she is not going to tell the complete truth.

 

[tboy]

Ok guilt.....you know about quilting ........You amaze me tboy.......:great:I can't sew to save my life....

ayup, hemmed pants, reattached buttons, sewn drapes, now I won't say that I've sewn a wedding dress but I helped someone cut out all the pieces from the pattern.............

 

[a 1 player]

I agree too. I think Cat has hit the nail on the head.

 

[Vixens]

I believe these types of confessions are selfish at their very core. Her actions were hurtful and telling him a half truth to allieviate her guilt is strictly for her own benefit. Intuitively, her husband will know she is lying; he just won't know which part isn't true. OP, if she isn't going to come completely clean, don't back her up. Why does she get the right to clear her conscience and destroy other people in the process, without actually clearing the slate. I call bullshit on this, tell her to come completely clean or S.T.F.U. Self centered as she is, she needs to have a little compassion for this man she is married to by dealing with her shit herself without including anyone else.

cat

One of the most intelligent and perceptive posts I've read in a while. Very well said.

Steph

 

[Wise Guy]

I've been there before. Bro, be smart and do not fall into the trap. Check your pm.

 

[JackCooper]

Tell her that you are going to tell him the entire truth if she comes forth with her partial version of the events.

That will put a monkey wrench into her plans and give her a good excuse to suppress her guilty feelings.

I did tell her that and thought that will be the end of it, but no. Sorry for not replying sooner, guys and girls. After playing it cool for a couple of days my cousin called me and asked to meet. Since I am twice his size I wasn't worried but my conscience was. To make a long story short he tells me that he knew she had slept with me and two other men and when she told him about us he did not want to hear it because he loves her so much.

He did ask me if it was a one night fling and I said no bro, she doesn't love you and just using all of us. It gets longer here but do not want to bore you all. All I can say is I feel sorry for him.