What Nobody Tells You About Being A Call Girl

[Midas Touch]

Call Girl Confidence - Escort Service Experience

 

[Pooldude]

Good find dude.

 

[Willy]

Wish most would think that way but they don't.

Ultimately, escorting taught me that in order to take care of men at every level — physically, mentally, spiritually — I had to first take care of myself.

 

[God]

Ladies, how true is this article?.

 

[cristycurves]

I'd say pretty accurate.Interesting read. I've never heard of the author, I'll have to look at some of her books-thanks for the post

 

[Midas Touch]

I'd say pretty accurate.Interesting read. I've never heard of the author, I'll have to look at some of her books-thanks for the post

My pleasure

 

[Guest]

this article just made me rethink my entire escorting career hahahah

very very true. but as for dealing with unhappy stressed out people, my healthcare job did much more of that so i didn't think that way hahahah

anyway my point with that is its okay to pour your heart out to them without thinking "i bet she deals with a lot, better not make her my therapist" lmao they can dissociate!

also not ALLL clients have problems some are just "its my bday and you're my bday surprise!" which i got a lot of before actually

 

[Km 1994]

I'd say pretty accurate.Interesting read. I've never heard of the author, I'll have to look at some of her books-thanks for the post

i gotta agree hun.for sure.

 

[demien3k5]

'Many of the men who came to me were stressed, insecure, and troubled,...'

Hmmmmmm

For many reasons, I don't think this is a totally accurate representation of the vast majority of men who hobby. Some, absolutely yes, but certainly not for the majority based on my experience at least. I wonder if the male side of the equation here tends to vary widely based largely on geographical location? i.e. men who hobby largely in one community vs. another.

 

[cristycurves]

this article just made me rethink my entire escorting career hahahah

very very true. but as for dealing with unhappy stressed out people, my healthcare job did much more of that so i didn't think that way hahahah

anyway my point with that is its okay to pour your heart out to them without thinking "i bet she deals with a lot, better not make her my therapist" lmao they can dissociate!

also not ALLL clients have problems some are just "its my bday and you're my bday surprise!" which i got a lot of before actually

You are right. Many clients can be very understanding and go out of their way to make a session great for their provider and many see escorts because of a way of treating themselves. They show up happy and leave even happier

 

[Guest]

'Many of the men who came to me were stressed, insecure, and troubled,...'

Hmmmmmm

For many reasons, I don't think this is a totally accurate representation of the vast majority of men who hobby. Some, absolutely yes, but certainly not for the majority based on my experience at least. I wonder if the male side of the equation here tends to vary widely based largely on geographical location? i.e. men who hobby largely in one community vs. another.

almost ALL are divorced, or in a long term marriage/relationship but need their sexual and emotional attachment needs filled

that being said, most will not mention it until the 2nd+ session or show emotion!

in my 1.5years of escorting before finding my beautiful bf, i have only had 1 man cry and thats bc i kicked him a little too hard for doing something i told him not to lmao

 

[Risk]

Hmmmmmm

 

[LadyJacklyn]

Love that article, it's sorta one sided, focusing on the glamorous side of things, but we read about the negatives more than enough all over social media and the boards, so it is super uplifting to read that!

Most sex workers (myself included) praise finding the Work. It has helped many of us to embrace our flaws and quirks and sexuality. That's a beautiful thing. :good:

 

[peace]

almost ALL are divorced, or in a long term marriage/relationship but need their sexual and emotional attachment needs filled

that being said, most will not mention it until the 2nd+ session or show emotion!

in my 1.5years of escorting before finding my beautiful bf, i have only had 1 man cry and thats bc i kicked him a little too hard for doing something i told him not to lmao

Muck, do you need my jockstrap; just in case?

 

[muckin]

Muck, do you need my jockstrap; just in case?

Nah I think im good, its been a year now since we met, she hasnt kicked me yet and we have done it all so I should be good.:biggrin2:

 

[cristycurves]

Love that article, it's sorta one sided, focusing on the glamorous side of things, but we read about the negatives more than enough all over social media and the boards, so it is super uplifting to read that!

Most sex workers (myself included) praise finding the Work. It has helped many of us to embrace our flaws and quirks and sexuality. That's a beautiful thing. :good:

Well said, and we also help many who seek our services learn about their sexuality and also embrace their flaws. I've met some very insecure and often inexperienced, gentlemen over my years of escorting, who after a visit, or multiple visits, start to become much more sexually and personally confident. It is a beautiful thing to help anyone become more secure within themselves. I think one of the nicest gifts I receive form a client is a thank you for helping him in such a way.

 

[nntsci]

Call Girl Confidence - Escort Service Experience

I don't think I encountered any secrets.

"Many of the men who came to me were stressed, insecure, and troubled, and it wasn't really about sex for them.
...
I’ve come to think of escorting as a helping, healing, and entertainment profession — not just for my clients but also for me."

It is precisely for that reasons I think seeing "call girls" should be covered under ones health insurance.

I'm generally not stressed, or insecure, or troubled... but one of the lady's I see from time to time over the past 5 years when she's not travelling around the world, I view as a good friend and my relationship adviser because she is wise about the nature of relationships... there is something fitting about getting marriage advice from a naked woman who is not my wife. lol.

For another lady I see, I think, its more the other way round... She told me recently that I've really helped her get her life back on track.

 

[Jessica Rain]

I don't think I encountered any secrets.

"Many of the men who came to me were stressed, insecure, and troubled, and it wasn't really about sex for them.
...
I’ve come to think of escorting as a helping, healing, and entertainment profession — not just for my clients but also for me."

It is precisely for that reasons I think seeing "call girls" should be covered under ones health insurance.

I'm generally not stressed, or insecure, or troubled... but one of the lady's I see from time to time over the past 5 years when she's not travelling around the world, I view as a good friend and my relationship adviser because she is wise about the nature of relationships... there is something fitting about getting marriage advice from a naked woman who is not my wife. lol.

For another lady I see, I think, its more the other way round... She told me recently that I've really helped her get her life back on track.

This can be so true. This job can and often does give a girl the independence and confidence she needs to push herself forward toward goals and dreams that may have been sucked away by poverty, child-care stresses, abusive boyfriends, or something else. The list of things is endless.

 

[Demonhunter]

'Many of the men who came to me were stressed, insecure, and troubled,...'

Hmmmmmm

For many reasons, I don't think this is a totally accurate representation of the vast majority of men who hobby. Some, absolutely yes, but certainly not for the majority based on my experience at least. I wonder if the male side of the equation here tends to vary widely based largely on geographical location? i.e. men who hobby largely in one community vs. another.

So how long have you been seeing male clients

 

[nntsci]

This can be so true. This job can and often does give a girl the independence and confidence she needs to push herself forward toward goals and dreams that may have been sucked away by poverty, child-care stresses, abusive boyfriends, or something else. The list of things is endless.

Exactly... it was a bad break up and a number of other things that went wrong in her life... I'm an artist (amateur) and so is she, and I've encouraged her to get back into painting (and bought her some art supplies for her birthday), and also to follow her dreams. And at the same time, she makes me feel young again... and her sense of humor and her laughter are just wonderful.