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What's in a name?

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With the recent exodus of prolific posters, I started thinking about the high turnover rate of names in the industry. It seems to affect both sides of the equation, though in different ways.

On the SP side, girls change their names all the time. Often it corresponds with a move to another agency, or when she goes indy, or starts offering a different kind of service. Name recognition has its value here, but not always; in the SP world, it can be dangerous. Sometimes an SP leaves more than just her name behind, and if she's later connected with her past, her safety might be at risk. Or sometimes, she just wants a fresh start. :go:

On the client side, there are hobbyists with multiple monikers, and some who are returning after some time away. Often, their new moniker (and sometimes, their personality) is different than their old one (especially if their "time away" was involuntary). Some use different handles for different boards; others carry the same name with them, everywhere they go. Some hobbyists will change their name for the same reason an SP might - too many people know who you are. :666:

Name recognition, especially when the SP and hobbyist frequent the same boards, can affect the session in multiple ways. Some hobbyists, even those who write reviews, choose not to reveal their identity to avoid those complications; some hobbyists prefer to make themselves known, for a variety of different reasons. Some SPs prefer not to know where their client is from, because worrying whether the session is "review-worthy" can be distracting, and puts extra pressure on her to perform. Others will use it as a research opportunity, poring over his past reviews for ideas on what he'll enjoy the most.

When someone visits me, I'll usually inquire about the source (purely for market research purposes, I swear! :angel: ) but I don't ask about their handle; since 85-90% of my clientele come from directories, it's not as much of an issue for me. But I'm curious to know:

How important is your name/handle/moniker to you, and how big of a role does it play in your industry activities?
 
You should work for a marketing Co.. You'll make them big mula.
 
Tgirl Nikki said:
How important is your name/handle/moniker to you, and how big of a role does it play in your industry activities?

Zero, I never book and reveal my handle.

I use a half dozen disposable phones and the numbers change over time with a dozen different booking names.

Now if some bright young lady was paying attention, she could probably connect the dots and figure it out, but what would be the point? and who has that much time on their hands?

On the other hand, there a several ladies that know my real life name, but I have known them a LONG time.

(Just look for that musty peaty scent of a fine old single malt)
 
lagavulin said:
Zero, I never book and reveal my handle.

I use a half dozen disposable phones and the numbers change over time with a dozen different booking names.

Now if some bright young lady was paying attention, she could probably connect the dots and figure it out, but what would be the point? and who has that much time on their hands?

On the other hand, there a several ladies that know my real life name, but I have known them a LONG time.

(Just look for that musty peaty scent of a fine old single malt)

Damn Lag, did not know you see SP. Have any reviews to share?.
 
I've been using this handle for nigh on 13 years. When I came on as a lurker on the other board, I just automatically registered with it. Old habits and all.

More often than not, the agencies let the Companion know who I am (damn my notoriety :666:), but I always do my best to dis-spell any pre-conception about a review, and we end up talking like two friends getting to know each other. It seems to have worked so far, at least I think.
 
Tgirl Nikki said:
How important is your name/handle/moniker to you, and how big of a role does it play in your industry activities?

Not important at all.
< dialogue scenario >
Tourist: "Hi, come on in. I'm Tourist. Wow, /you are so beautiful/ your pictures could never describe the sexy aura you have about you/ f**k you're hot."
SP:* giggle* "You are so full of..., *SP smiles* ..flattery."

-small talk, small talk, blah blah-

SP: "So where did you hear about me?"
Tourist: "Searching the internet and your /agency/ page/ ad/ caught my interest."
SP: "Not a reveiw site was it?"
Tourist: *LOL* "There's such a thing as escort reviews? Now i've heard everything."
SP: "/Why don't we get more comfortable?/ Let's go sit on the bed./ Throw me down and ride me, you stallion!!/ "

<FADE>
 
I can't shed the handle now... Its FAMOUS! LOL

Really, just Google it! LOL :roll:

As for my industry activities? Well... there are none. :???:
 
Cycleguy007 said:
I can't shed the handle now... Its FAMOUS! LOL

Really, just Google it! LOL :roll:

As for my industry activities? Well... there are none. :???:

Actually, when I was mulling this over, I was thinking about you, SillyGirl, Blank_Dave, and others who participate but do not partake... your name does have meaning and is easily recognized from board to board, but since your industry experience is limited to conversation, your name might have different degrees of importance to you. :neutral:

I couldn't think of an appropriate term for you, though - maybe "Conscientious Observers" or something? :tongue:
 
Tgirl Nikki said:
I couldn't think of an appropriate term for you, though - maybe "Conscientious Observers" or something? :tongue:

I like to watch... so maybe PERV would be most accurate! :) :no:
 
With respect to you Nikki, hobbyists might be more secretive about their handle since they are more secretive about their bi-curiosity. However, being really low key in this hobby involves attracting less attention to one's handle in all cases.
 
Esquire said:
With respect to you Nikki, hobbyists might be more secretive about their handle since they are more secretive about their bi-curiosity. However, being really low key in this hobby involves attracting less attention to one's handle in all cases.

I considered that possibility, but most of my clients don't find me through boards, and don't have a handle to disclose. Those who find me through these boards will sometimes contact me by PM first, which is a way of passively revealing their handle and history... beyond that, I'll ask about the source through which they found me (market research!) but if they don't reveal their handle on their own accord, I won't ask. Also, there are probably five lurkers for every poster, and those lurkers are doing plenty of hobbying too; if they haven't made any public posts, revealing their moniker wouldn't serve any purpose.

I think it's more of a personal thing, in terms of how open a hobbyist wants to be with their identity. If he's planning to post a review, then the SP might still figure out who he is, based on the session details or the timing. Also, I wonder if the rise of industry get-togethers has an impact as well; both SPs and hobbyists tend to introduce themselves first by their moniker.

Ok, there have been a few people who keep their handle totally private, with good reasons; how about hobbyists who make themselves known, either before, during, or after the session? How do you find it affects your experience?
 
There's the possibility that those you say who didn't find out about you on a review board did in fact see you out here, but won't say to be ultra secret.

As to your bolded question, I think that happens from the 'social networking' that might go on in the board and mostly behind the senes when john and SP hook-up, especially if the've established some kind of rapport. In theory, it may boost the experience since the SP has advanced knowledge of a visit from a potential reviewer, but then if there's a rapport with a cerebral SP, I think that the experience could be positive in any event without regard to any future review.
 
Esquire said:
There's the possibility that those you say who didn't find out about you on a review board did in fact see you out here, but won't say to be ultra secret.

I can't deny that possibility, and many people go to great lengths to conceal their identity - and I certainly don't blame them for it. But I see where the hits on my website generally come from, and the number of hits from each place roughly corresponds with the number of clients who claim to have found me there.

Also, there are some little details that are actually review-board specific. For example, guys who find me through directories are often surprised when I "ask" them if they'd like to shower. They'll even say, "no thanks, I already showered this morning," thinking it was an offer, rather than a request. I'll just smile, holding the towel in my outstretched hand, and eventually, they'll clue in and clean up. :angel:

Also, guys from review boards understand acronyms better than others - some of my directory clients tell me they had to google the acronyms under "services" to find out what they meant! :lol:

Review board guys take these things as a given, but occasional hobbyists don't have a clue. Anyone else have similar experiences to share?
 
from day one until being retired i kept the same name...

even more famous than CG just google it :lol:
 
Tgirl Nikki said:
Review board guys take these things as a given, but occasional hobbyists don't have a clue. Anyone else have similar experiences to share?

Count me as an occasional hobbyist who doesn't have much of a clue.

I've never disclosed my handle to any SP I've had the chance to meet though I have admitted to being aware of the boards, if asked.

Being somewhat ignorant of these boards due to lack of time spent on them has put me in some discomfort with some SPs who post frequently. In one case, it was assumed i knew about board-member x or about flame war y, and i had absolutely no idea what the SP was talking about.

I wasn't sure whether to feel stupid for being so ignorant or pleased that I didn't spend THAT much time on the boards...:)
 
Tgirl Nikki said:
I can't deny that possibility, and many people go to great lengths to conceal their identity - and I certainly don't blame them for it. But I see where the hits on my website generally come from, and the number of hits from each place roughly corresponds with the number of clients who claim to have found me there.

Also, there are some little details that are actually review-board specific. For example, guys who find me through directories are often surprised when I "ask" them if they'd like to shower. They'll even say, "no thanks, I already showered this morning," thinking it was an offer, rather than a request. I'll just smile, holding the towel in my outstretched hand, and eventually, they'll clue in and clean up. :angel:

Also, guys from review boards understand acronyms better than others - some of my directory clients tell me they had to google the acronyms under "services" to find out what they meant! :lol:

Review board guys take these things as a given, but occasional hobbyists don't have a clue. Anyone else have similar experiences to share?

You're not the only SP that's told me that the majority of their clients don't come from review boards.
 
illico said:
Count me as an occasional hobbyist who doesn't have much of a clue.

I've never disclosed my handle to any SP I've had the chance to meet though I have admitted to being aware of the boards, if asked.

Being somewhat ignorant of these boards due to lack of time spent on them has put me in some discomfort with some SPs who post frequently. In one case, it was assumed i knew about board-member x or about flame war y, and i had absolutely no idea what the SP was talking about.

I wasn't sure whether to feel stupid for being so ignorant or pleased that I didn't spend THAT much time on the boards...:)

Don't feel any discomfort. They might actually be trying to test if you really do know about them.

Generally-speaking, it's better not to let them know you know.
 
I never reveal my handle or real name. At times I have had the odd lady ask if I had read any of her reviews but I just pretend like I haven't got a clue of what she is talking about.
 
Anyone that knows my personal handle (MPAsquared) knows that for me, its everything!! MPA2, Emily, MPAsquared....its all really Emily Inc. :)

Damn, Dean...what happened to my MPAsquared handle?? LOL
 
Tgirl Nikki said:
I couldn't think of an appropriate term for you, though - maybe "Conscientious Observers" or something? :tongue:


I reserve the right to un-retire and reclaim Hobbyist status at any time. :party:
 
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