Whats your opinion..

[cristycurves]

So tonight I saw a client, a newbie, who before calling me called another girl, so I was second choice, lol. This other girl showed up, took his money and left. So basically she stole 200 $ from him. This guy was very sweet, clean, young and shy. My question, I wanted to post this girls ad, number and name she is using in my blog, should I, or shouldn't I. This client is a new member on the L board and I did explain to him how he could post a warning there as well, hopefully he will. Maybe I should leave it at that. My anger and desire to post is because it is girls like this who often scare off guys from ever seeing anyone again. Luckily this guy still wants to see more girls. Any input is appreciated.

 

[Maurice Boscorelli]

It's a matter between her and him.

Stay away from it. Nothing good will come to you if you get involved.

 

[Anonymous69]

L, board?.

 

[Polaris]

The underground economy.

It stays underground.

:don'twantto-see:/Funky & Music:wacko:

 

[DannyDevito]

He wasn't that traumatized on losing his dough.

I like him.

 

[Beached]

It's a matter between her and him.

Stay away from it. Nothing good will come to you if you get involved.

Yup

 

[ERecTile]

It's his business. If he doesn't want this happening to other people, he can post a review here or elsewhere. You shouldn't get involved cristycurves.

 

[papasmerf]

I agree with the idea that you need to leave it be.

 

[cristycurves]

I must say I'm surprised at the answers, but will take the advice and allow him to handle it as he sees fit. I think he was harmed, tho. At least he acted like he was Although he must have money, lost 200 with her, then spent 300 on me in the same night and is going to spend more on one of a few other girls I directed him towards. Being that he is early twenties, he'd like early twenties, with very large breasts. Thanks for taking the time to respond. @Anonymous, the L board is the board that used to begin with c board, ending with erb

 

[papasmerf]

I must say I'm surprised at the answers, but will take the advice and allow him to handle it as he sees fit. I think he was harmed, tho. At least he acted like he was Although he must have money, lost 200 with her, then spent 300 on me in the same night and is going to spend more on one of a few other girls I directed him towards. Being that he is early twenties, he'd like early twenties, with very large breasts. Thanks for taking the time to respond. @Anonymous, the L board is the board that used to begin with c board, ending with erb

You could always offer him BOGO to help offset his loss.

 

[cristycurves]

You could always offer him BOGO to help offset his loss.

Lol, I left myself open for that No I'm understanding and sympathetic, but I won't give away my cookie for free.

 

[Fuggedabouditt]

I don't agree. As a public forum and a witness to this, I think it's a fine line of you reporting this girl. There's enough legitimacy issues with this lifestyle and industry that we all need to look after each other, no matter if its John to John or SP to SP or SP to John. I hear enough bullshit from my regulars about other girls that have some teeth that I stay away from those. Yes, I know that it could be trying to keep me as their client, but I'm open with them about seeing others and they don't have issue or signs of jealousy.

If anything, the lady who is being accused of this would have an opportunity to defend her actions. The guy sounds like a softy and easily taken advantage of. Here comes your first lesson to stand up for yourself, if not, throw your money my way.

 

[cristycurves]

I don't agree. As a public forum and a witness to this, I think it's a fine line of you reporting this girl. There's enough legitimacy issues with this lifestyle and industry that we all need to look after each other, no matter if its John to John or SP to SP or SP to John. I hear enough bullshit from my regulars about other girls that have some teeth that I stay away from those. Yes, I know that it could be trying to keep me as their client, but I'm open with them about seeing others and they don't have issue or signs of jealousy.

If anything, the lady who is being accused of this would have an opportunity to defend her actions. The guy sounds like a softy and easily taken advantage of. Here comes your first lesson to stand up for yourself, if not, throw your money my way.

To your point about being told some ladies have "teeth", so you stay away, I'm not sure what you're meaning. I will say that any "lady" that gossips about another while on an appt is not to be trusted, imo, nor is she acting professional. Gossip shouldn't be encouraged.
As far as this guy being a softy, definitely. I asked him why he didn't stop the girl, (she went to his place, he came to mine) he said he had neighbors and didn't want a scene. To those who wonder why I wanted to involve myself, because I believe it does involve me and like you (Fugged), I believe this behavior affects all of us, who want this industry to be better. Girls like her scare off what could be good clients, besides the fact, that it is just wrong to steal!!
But I have decided to let it lie, because I've enough shit to deal with daily and attracting more, at this time, isn't worth it to me.I don't know her, haven't seen her advertise before, nor do I know if she is connected to anyone troublesome. Sad to hear myself admit that but... I think I've already gone beyond what some might do already to help this guy.....

 

[Fuggedabouditt]

To your point about being told some ladies have "teeth", so you stay away, I'm not sure what you're meaning. I will say that any "lady" that gossips about another while on an appt is not to be trusted, imo, nor is she acting professional. Gossip shouldn't be encouraged.
As far as this guy being a softy, definitely. I asked him why he didn't stop the girl, (she went to his place, he came to mine) he said he had neighbors and didn't want a scene. To those who wonder why I wanted to involve myself, because I believe it does involve me and like you (Fugged), I believe this behavior affects all of us, who want this industry to be better. Girls like her scare off what could be good clients, besides the fact, that it is just wrong to steal!!
But I have decided to let it lie, because I've enough shit to deal with daily and attracting more, at this time, isn't worth it to me. Sad to hear myself admit that but... I think I've already gone beyond what some might do already to help this guy.....

Gossip is one thing, but I think I bring it on at times with some of my concerns. I don't think I've had one lady initiate the "gossip" without me saying something about a concern I had with a session and it's usually just specific to the incident with no names mentioned. Conversation brings out the name at times, but I think they usually know who I'm talking about because she is a repeat offender and has done "this type of thing" to another.

 

[ERecTile]

Cristycurves, here's another reason for you to stay out of it. He may not have been telling you the truth. My own issues with people last year has made me somewhat jaded and cautious about reaching out a helping hand. I'm still not sure if that's a good thing though. If one of my friends or family needed a helping hand then I'd move mountains if I have to. But complete strangers with a sob story? Not likely. He might have been telling you the truth. He might have been giving you a line in the hopes of a discount. Who knows. But the scant information you got is not worth bringing drama into your life.

 

[cristycurves]

^ Thanks Erectile, I'd agree, but I'm 150% certain he is being truthful, regardless, it's something he has to handle. Girls like this should be weary tho, not all guys are as passive as he.

 

[ERecTile]

It's a good learning opportunity for him. Stick to tried and true and well reviewed. Hey that rhymes! Funky & Music

 

[Jasper]

So tonight I saw a client, a newbie, who before calling me called another girl, so I was second choice, lol. This other girl showed up, took his money and left. So basically she stole 200 $ from him.

He called her, she showed up.
I don't understand how we progressed to her stealing $200. Did she decline sex and grab the money?

 

[cristycurves]

He called her, she showed up.
I don't understand how we progressed to her stealing $200. Did she decline sex and grab the money?

This happens a lot apparently.Did years ago and is still going on. A girl comes in takes the money and leaves, runs away, bolts, however you want to describe it. (Many excuses are used. ie:I have to pay the driver, I'll be right back....I forgot my condoms, I'll be right back....etc, etc. Yet they never go back). But she didn't offer or decline anything, just took the money and left. When I ran services there were a couple of services that did this regularly and they were good at it and successful. People get away things if mouths don't speak up.

 

[User-E]

I resent women who treat clients like this because it gives a bad rap to the whole industry and makes it more challenging for those who do provide good reliable service. I also feel bad for the men who get treated like this, because most of them are nice guys who don't deserve it.